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What is marriage? This is marriage!

What is husband and wife? Love for a lifetime, quarrel for a lifetime, patience for a lifetime, this is husband and wife.

By guliPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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What is home? Home is jointly run by husband and wife, weaving dreams and bitter sweet nest. Home is not a simple concept, home is not a house, is not a color TV, is not a refrigerator, is not material piled up space. A family needs loving relatives. Need that special feeling of true love, two people care about each other is home.

How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, this is the most critical problem placed at home. Is the so-called: "one hundred years to repair the same boat, thousands of years to repair the common pillow." So how do husband and wife get along to make family harmony?

Husband and wife are like two legs. To stand firm and walk, no one can leave the other. Why do one leg always complain about the other? When couples say they have been married for decades without conflict or disagreement, it is safe to say that at least one of them is not responsible for the family and does not care about the other.

Marriage is like making tea, the first tea is like love, strong fragrance; The second tea as newlywed, fresh but people; The third tea is like a marriage just over the month or year, plain as water, we need to use ordinary heart to taste, in order to appreciate the real fun.

Qian zhongshu said, "A family is a golden cage. The birds outside the cage want to come in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out."

Man is philosophy, woman is poetry. Philosophy without poetry is dull, poetry without philosophy is superficial. Philosophy is rational and poetic sensibility. If a man wants to understand poetry, he must first understand his philosophy.

If a woman wants to understand philosophy, she must first understand her own poem. Deep philosophy can only resonate with poems with appropriate charm. Therefore, the best may not be suitable for you, but the one that suits you is the best.

It is said that the wife is good to others, in fact, big feet and small shoes all know, love wife also love people, mixed with water fake wine, is water or wine, love husband also love people, only happy starting point, no happy ending, too many good men, not with her husband, too many good women, not with her wife, that is dangerous.

Lin Yutang said, "Women are water, wine is wine, vinegar is vinegar." A woman's worth depends on her man. Don't say that a woman can't live without a man, man needs a woman more, no woman can't live without a man.

Men express love through sex, women understand love through sex, sexual harmony is fertile ground for husband and wife harmony, poverty is not equal to not having a warm home, a good husband cherishes his wife's tender feelings, sympathize with the hardships of the weak housekeeping, only control does not understand love and compassion, is not a good husband.

A virtuous wife is the most precious family wealth, a virtuous woman is smart first, then is virtuous, stupid woman to virtuous as a loss, a wise woman to her husband's face with gold, stupid woman to her husband's face with black, wife despise her husband is the most profound tragedy of the family.

The most ideal couples are intimate and with appropriate separation, candid in retaining part of the steady secret, can be two affection of the revolution, and have a personal revolution.

When couples treat each other as their best friend, their hands are tight. Love a person the most important may not be pledges of eternal love and sweet words, some trifles in life, more can reflect his feelings for you, that is the password of love.

In a happy marriage, each person should respect the other's interests and tastes. It is the most absurd idea to suppose that two persons can have the same thought, the same judgment, the same desire.

In a happy family, at least one in every couple is a fool. Husband and wife are like strings on the same string, they vibrate harmoniously in the same melody, but they are independent of each other.

The quarrel of young couples is a love affair, but the quarrel of old couples is disheartening.

The husband is half to blame for his wife's infidelity. The wife is partly to blame for her husband's infidelity. The responsibility is even greater if you send the other side running. A qualified wife should make her husband a creator of social wealth through her own efforts.

In real life, a good man may not be able to marry a good woman, a good woman may not be able to marry a good man, and a good woman may not be happy with a good man. There are a thousand kinds of people and a hundred forms of the world. Each person's personality, taste and accomplishment are different, so couples have different ways to get along with each other.

Marriage is like a table, love is the staple food, tolerance, understanding, trust, respect, is a dish, appreciation, humor, is the wine and drinks, I only have a combination of the above several varieties of, only I was perfect, I wish everyone in marriage on the table, eat at ease, eat poised, eat forever, until the last breath of life.

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