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The sex life of Chinese people can't get any worse!

The SCENE THAT IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT ALWAYS RETURNS flash BEFORE, very reject CLOSE WITH OPPOSITE sex, how SHOULD I DO?

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What is a good age to start having your first time?

He is demanding and demanding, and my heart is resisting. Should we break up?

The SCENE THAT IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT ALWAYS RETURNS flash BEFORE, very reject CLOSE WITH OPPOSITE sex, how SHOULD I DO?

I have talked about three boyfriends, and recently began to lose interest in boys. Is there something wrong with my sexual orientation?

I was 28, he was 30, together for 8 years, married for 3, but lost passion and sexual desire. What

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Have you ever had similar problems and doubts about sex?

Do you also have doubts about sex, even when upset, because from generation to generation of sexual mores, and widely on the subject of oblique, often don't know who to ask, a lot of trouble, think of themselves as sex is very ashamed, hide, finally can only silently bear, let these problems and stay in the heart of doubt, Still live remorse, depression, confusion and even inferiority of life.

However, behind every sexual problem and doubt is a struggling individual or a marriage in crisis. Our repression and neglect only make the problem worse. ?

The novel "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise", which was written by the author based on his own experience, has been hotly discussed last year. It tells us the beginning and end of a tragedy.

The cram school teacher said to her, "I love you, I like you..." . He forced XX into Siqi's mouth: "This is the way the teacher loves you, do you understand?"

That day, Siqi was raped. She was in a daze and didn't know what to do.

At dinner, Siqi tried to ask for help: "Our tutor has everything, is no sex education". Mom said, "Sex education is for people who need sex." A word stopped her mouth.

The next day, at the dinner table, Siqi tried to say: "There is a teacher like a girl in our class..." . Mother said: "girls do not hair SAO, how can the teacher find her". Two appeals for help, "failed" to return.

After crying for two nights, Siqi decided: "No way, I can only force myself to fall in love with the teacher."

But coercion soon turned to desperation. One day, she found - the teacher and another girl in the rain.

She was often absent, not knowing what she had done; She could not sleep, even if she fell asleep for ten minutes would dream of being bullied by Li teacher; She couldn't sleep at night, cried a lot, drank coffee like a drink...

Until finally, Siqi went crazy. Because of this abnormal relationship, she lost her childhood, lost everything.

Siqi's tragedy undoubtedly let us deplore, her experience to the world knocked the most ringing alarm bell.

A lack of sex education can make us sexually blind and hurt us without knowing it. The ignorance of sex, the distortion of sexual concept, let us fall into endless trouble, remorse and inferiority.

We often have messages like this in the background:

Face SEX DEMAND, I HATE MYSELF VERY WELL, OFTEN CANNOT HELP BUT TOUCH ONESELF BOSOM, STIMULATE ONESELF OVER, GOOD DISGUSTING SUCH ONESELF, DETERMINED TO WANT TO CHANGE ALSO CHANGE NOT TO DROP, BE AFRAID OF VERY LATER NOBODY WANTS ME, HOW SHOULD I DO?

Not A VIRGIN, cried for a long time, THE boyfriend also said that we MAY not be the last person to marry, very afraid of the future of the husband abandon me, how should I do?

In addition, there are many facts that are also warning us:

First sexual intercourse is increasingly younger, with about 2.5 million abortions a year under the age of 18;

The average annual growth rate of HIV infection among young students aged 15-24 has reached 35%, making them the group with the fastest rise in HIV infection in China.

Sexless marriage, sex life is not harmonious is becoming the destruction of family cancer;

About hymen, masturbation and other problems, is making countless men and women more and more inferiority;

Lack of sex education, so that more and more children suffer harm in ignorance;

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Whether in happy relationships and a complete family, or in order to make us and our next generation is no longer a blind, no longer suffer from sex, it is necessary for us to owe the sex education of make up, in time to lift our in sexual obsession with doubt, prevent because of the ignorance of sex and lead to more serious problems.

Ve cooperation, this time, Li Yin river and marriage with the authority of China sexology master teacher li yinhe kiss given the 52 sexology lesson, everyone needs sex kits "lesson, she will be 30 years research harvest of sexology and insight, reduced to make you a lifelong benefit to learn lesson, with the most popular and easy to understand recognition, together with you to solve about sex, Develop correct sexual attitudes.

Authoritative professional sexology master, teach each other everything

Li Yinhe, one of the most authoritative sexologists in China, the first female sociologist to study sex in China, was once rated by Asia Week as one of the 50 most influential people in China. Since 1979, he has studied various marital and sexual issues with remarkable results.

Full dimensions, answer your sexual confusion

Li Yinhe will comprehensively solve people's various sexual perplexities, such as sexual orientation, sexual attitude and sexual hobby, which are difficult to tell others, from multiple dimensions such as psychology, sociology, biology, physiology, pathology and medicine.

Deep analysis of the three relationships, establish a healthy concept of sex

From THE Angle OF SEX IN-DEPTH analysis of self relationship, sexual intimacy and social relations, to help you establish a scientific and reasonable concept of sex, so that life more harmonious and happy.

1. The most scientifically authoritative sex knowledge

Clear and concrete scientific understanding, get rid of sexual blindness, correct misunderstanding, get out of sexual trouble, shape reasonable sexual concept

2. Sexual relationship maintenance

Know how to deal with the many problems and problems of sex in a relationship, and build a high quality intimate relationship.

3. Improve sexual experience

Face and accept your sexual needs, from the psychological and physical levels, to improve the quality and harmony of sex

In an effort to make marriage "sexual, loving and fun," we've brought together China's first female sociologist on sex: Li Yinhe, who has condensed 30 years of sex research into 52 lessons on how to explore "the new land of sex and love," and how to be happy and sexually happy at the same time.

Wang Xiaobo said that loving her is like loving life

Feng Tang, Tsai Kangyong marveled at her gender research accomplishments

Every time he spoke, hundreds of thousands of people gathered to watch the discussion

Each book changed the way people thought about sex and love

Before the world knew her because of WANG Xiaobo, now the world fell in love with her, because she can solve the Chinese people in sexual desire, love, marriage, family and other aspects of the problem.

? 40 years of research?

? Change the repressed and distorted relationships of nearly a billion Chinese?

Li Yinhe grew up in the 1960s and 1970s when libido and love were extremely sensitive and distorted. Whenever she saw someone repressing herself, she was very puzzled. After a long time, she developed a strong interest in the study of sexual relations.

Li's first contact with sociology began in 1979, when she began to study various issues of marriage and sex.

In 1982, she gave up her domestic job to study sociology in the United States.

Six years later, she returned home as China's first female sociologist, sexologist, to study sex and began working feverishly.

She made the standard of choosing a spouse at one breath, puberty love, celibacy, norms of premarital sex behavior, voluntary infertility, extramarital love, homosexuality and so on 10 studies.

As soon as the research results were published, they attracted great attention from the society.

Over the past 30 years, she has not only popularised the knowledge of marriage, family and sex for nearly 100 million Chinese people, but also fought for the rights and freedom of a few people, such as homosexuals, sadomasochism and group sex lovers. She has been making great efforts to popularise and speak out, gaining popularity inside and outside the circle.

With her expertise in family, marriage, relationships and sex, she has been invited to participate in many programs such as "YUMMY Girl", "Idol Should be YUMMY Woman Community" and so on.

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