No cheating, no violence, we're still divorced: that's the worst enemy of a relationship

According to the survey, more than 33 percent of Chinese couples have sex less than 10 times a year and less than once a month.

In a sexless marriage, there is often some kind of "fake intimacy," and many wives will say, "My husband is nice to me in every way except that we're sexless."

Husband and wife by day, neighbor by night, forty percent bed, fifty percent room, no sex and no love.

Between husband and wife, if only rely on spiritual communication, can really go on?

01

Not long ago, I received a message from a reader. She said:

My husband and I separated after more than ten years of marriage, without any arguments or cheating.

I'm sad, too, but we don't have love anymore, and we haven't been married for a long time.

I know all the passion will be calm, but I really can't hold on.

Men for the family, work hard to earn money to support the family, sometimes all night overtime or even no weekend, tired to return home just want to do a good, no other.

Women for the family, take care of the children, deal with household chores, until bedtime, you have exhausted the children are still full of energy.

This is the norm for many tired married lives.

Did not just together in order to fuel rice oil salt research half a day of enthusiasm, also did not honeymoon three times a day of passion, more can not feel the passion after the deep love.

Life became as calm and undisturbed as a lake.

02

Have heard such a sentence:

A woman's sex will always be associated with love, while a man can accept sex without love.

Women in marriage always expect to feel love from each other through sex, if there is no or little, they will hesitate and feel inferior.

According to the American Sex Study, having sex less than 10 times a year can lead to all sorts of relationship problems: cold wars, fights, depression and conflict.

Not having sex for a long time, not only makes each other feel less than love, but also makes each other suspicious and insecure. Breakups and divorces are not the worst outcomes, but being married without sex or love is the worst.

But now, it is no longer the era of "sex", in a sense, it is a beautiful thing, but also the normal needs of two people's married life.

Marriage can be maintained, is not necessarily the result of a person's efforts, two people's efforts to manage, to change the status quo.

03

Without love, marriage is a precarious building, can not stand the reality of slight knock against.

No sex, at first just the body hunger, followed by the soul withered and lonely.

Life is short and half of it is spent in bed, so it's important to find someone who feels good.

If you, too, have become sexless, loveless and speechless, but still want to stay married, then try to find common interests, less neglect, more work, the relationship will naturally grow back.

In order to enjoy sex, you must first understand sex again!

Jiaoshu, a psychological consultant, is also a sex optimizer and an old driver of interest, mainly committed to sexual relationship processing, sexual ability improvement and sexual interest training and other fields of practical research work.

As a man, he knew the doubts of men and the thoughts of his female friends.

With more than 4,000 partners having sex optimised, sex is a natural instinct for everyone. But the results are not good enough. Many people don't know anything about sex or relationships, let alone find pleasure and satisfaction in them.

Banana Uncle firmly believes that through scientific training, everyone is a master of temperament. So we combined theory with practice to develop this series of 10 tips to Help You Save your Sexless Marriage and Achieve Perfect Sex.

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