How to get women

I felt this way even a few months ago. Every time I would make a video on this subject, I would realize how little I actually knew. People would correct me on things or I would have my own sort of development and introspection and contemplation. i say right now is based on my current understanding of masculine and feminine energy and the way that men and womenare supposed heterosexual men and womenare supposed to uniteand this is probably going to change because i'm doing a fair amount oflearning on this it's very interesting like one of the things that i'vededicated a lot of time to in my self-improvement like my own personalself-improvement journey it's really

understanding relationships love and dating because for me that's a very important part of my life i was justlying down here i've set up like this really like peaceful beautiful vibe and listening to music it's this playlist that really gets me in and um it's a playlist that i made for an ex-girlfriend of mine i was just lying down the playlist came on or i'll behonest i clicked on it and um i thought about the girl who this playlist is for me and her likenot so much in contact like we've justrecently sent each other like a message or two butumi thought about like a particular daywith her and just how it was and hersmile and our time together and my heartwarmed up because of that and i feltlike yeah that's that's so important itis so so important and then i thought about the the online communities of of sofa and human retention and monk mode and men going their own way and i see this big like split between i believe the way that we're supposed to live is in in some kind of like unity with our partner the other half of us or maybe we don't even want to say the other half but you know we are a full person and then an extra full person.

jeffrey hates women he hates women

because he doesn't understand them too

many young men are just like jeffrey

these days when instead we can become

more like adonis

adonis is a wise strong masculine man

with such a great understanding of

feminine energy he can't hate women

because he understands them very well he

understands that her chaotic side is all

part of the feminine energy inside of

her and he loves her for that it's time

we become more like adonis i felt like i

had a very great understanding of women

dating sex intimacy masculine feminine

energy just a few months ago

and every time i would make a video on

it i would realize

how little i actually knew when you know

i'd read some comments and they would

correct me on things or i'd have my own

sort of development and

introspectiveness and contemplation and

journaling to realize wait that was

probably not right what i said

previously and so maybe we should take

this video as a grain of salt everything

i say right now is based on my current

understanding of masculine and feminine

energy and the way that men and women

are supposed heterosexual men and women

are supposed to unite

and this is probably going to change

because i'm doing a fair amount of

learning on this it's very interesting

like one of the things that i've

dedicated a lot of time to in my

self-improvement like my own personal

self-improvement journey it's really

understanding relationships love and

dating because for me that's a very

important part of my life i was just

lying down here i've set up like this

really like peaceful beautiful vibe and

listening to music it's this playlist

that really gets me in and um it's a

playlist that i made for an

ex-girlfriend of mine i was just lying

down the playlist came on or i'll be

honest i clicked on it and um i thought

about the girl who this playlist is for

me and her like

not so much in contact like we've just

recently sent each other like a message

or two but

um

i thought about like a particular day

with her and just how it was and her

smile and our time together and my heart

warmed up because of that and i felt

like yeah that's that's so important it

is so so important and then i thought

about

the the online communities of of nofap

and human retention and monk mode and

men going their own way and i see this

big like split between i believe the way

that we're supposed to live is in in

some kind of like unity

with our partner the other half of us or

maybe we don't even want to say the

other half but you know we are a full

person and then an extra full person

just makes us even better so many people

are going to be watching this and

criticize me straight away and say wait

this is blue pill and oh he he's turned

into a [ __ ] and everything but like in

the modern day we hate each other so

much it's one of the things that i like

to test most about like modern day sort

of like you know weak men weak women

it's like there's this huge narrative

that like men ate [ __ ] and all women are

hoes and like women are like this and

men are like this men are all liars and

women are all manipulative women are all

cheers men are all cheaters and i hate

them and like you know just focus on

yourself just focus on yourself it's

very very tricky especially including

the the path that we're on because you

can see what i'm getting at in this

video okay i'm gonna say that you know

relationships and love and intimacy is

important and let's talk about it but at

the same time i'm also confused with the

the aspect of the male advantage the red

pill smv peak which is like okay don't

get into relationships right now focus

on yourself build up some success and

then you'll get into better

relationships with hotter women with

better women in the future and you can

see that it's a big mind [ __ ] for young

men to navigate very big mindful so i

think this is very interesting what i

would like to do in this video is lay

some objective truths for myself

something that if i take some time to

really think okay what i'm about to say

a rule for myself is 100 going to be

good for me forever does that make sense

because you know like i started this

video by saying okay you know my advice

always changes with with this topic and

we're all so different and you know

there's so so much mind [ __ ] that it

would be so nice to have some kind of

like objective rule to follow which we

can just confirm is like not coping that

we can confirm it yep that this this

rule would really work out for you what

is like

a safe mindset that cannot be wrong in

terms of dating in terms of getting

women in terms of attracting them and

having sex and falling in love and

getting into more serious relationships

what are some some rules that we can

like obviously rule sounds a bit too

constrictive but what is something like

a mindset that we can keep in mind that

we have total confidence is that is

going to serve us that we we cannot

imagine even five ten years down the

line to think wait that might have not

been so right the first thing that is

coming to my mind is have sex

with people that you like with only

people that you like so essentially

don't have sex with someone that you

don't like it seems like common sense

but especially if you're someone who's a

bit more on the spectrum of like more

actively having sex having casual sex

you'll find that it is actually like

even though it seems like you know of

common senses

you sometimes break that rule so it

depends on your experiences but if

you've been into like the casual sex

seeing the tinder and nightclubs and

parties and you know the quick sort of

hookup culture you will find that there

will be some times where you'll end up

having sex with someone you weirdly

connect with them

and you don't really like them you don't

like their personality you don't respect

them you don't value them you kind of do

it for two reasons and everyone who this

is applicable for is going to disagree

with this so if your brain right now

really disagrees with this just know

that it's probably about you you have

sex with you know someone who you don't

really respect someone that you don't

really value for two reasons

pleasure

and some kind of ego validation what's

interesting is the ego validation is is

not good for you to connect with someone

in that way it's it's a very like you

don't have to see it as like a sacred

spiritual thing but there is truth to

that and

i'm not

really a spiritual guy i would love to

be i'd love to like you know develop

myself and put that as like a pillar of

myself improving but it's something that

i struggle with i don't really

understand like how to be spiritual

maybe when i find out i can make a video

like made for people who don't

understand it either and it literally be

titled okay like how to be spiritual i

don't know if that's even like some like

you're supposed to stay say it like that

or not but there feels

truth to me in this phrase like i said

this once which is that every time you

have sex with someone you split your

soul with them when you're a virgin

you've never had sex with anyone and

this other person hasn't either

and you have sex together you split your

soul 50 50 to each other and that's why

the first person that you ever have sex

with is is very very significant

probably the most significant person of

like the opposite sex for you but then

after that

you have 50 of of your soul

and 50 of you know this person that you

connected with you have sex with the

second person of your life and you only

have 25 of your soul to

give to this person and then

12.5 and then 6.25 and then

3.1625 i don't know either way what i'm

saying is there is absolute truth that

sex is a very like it is a bonding thing

if you allow it especially if you're

more of like a conscious kind of person

if you're if you're someone tuned into

your emotions and your psyche and your

spiritualism you'll find that you will

absolutely like bond and connect and

attach with the person that you've just

slept with make sure that's someone that

you want to be with i think that's like

an objective rule that we could all say

like obviously it's a bit more on like

the sort of softer side for a lot of

people they'll say no okay only sleep

with someone that you're married or

someone that you love or someone that

you're in a relationship with so me

literally saying oh yeah this is my rule

of only sleep with someone who you like

and don't sleep with people you don't

like it seems common sense to a lot of

people but the person i'm really trying

to reach out to when i say these words

it's more like someone who's who's lived

a very similar life to me who's went

down the the party [ __ ] boy life you

know thinking that that's like the thing

that you're supposed to do and feeling

like a

lack of fulfillment but then you know

that your ego gets so validated there

you get so validated by the other people

in that scenario like you know you go

out with your boys and you hook up with

this girl you're kissing her and your

boy is like you know hyping you up then

you take her back and you sleep with her

and you get like text messages in the

group chat that oh like you've you [ __ ]

this girl and she's so hot and like it

feels [ __ ] amazing to get

acknowledged by other people and you

realize like you just did this important

part of your life with this this girl

that you just met and you didn't even do

it for her or for you you did it because

your boys in the in the group chat are

gonna be writing emojis about you and

you know people saw people saw you with

that girl so that feels really good but

a part of you gets gets stuck there with

that person and that hopefully isn't an

insult to them

unless if you don't get along with them

and i can think back to times and no

insult or disrespect you know meant like

we just weren't compatible but i can

think back to times with you know i

brought girls back from clubs or from

tinder and i didn't even like them i

literally didn't even like them i didn't

respect them i didn't value them and i

shared such like an intimate part of my

life with them and i never really picked

up on this up until maybe the last six

months one year when i really gained

more respect for myself and i thought i

am not allowing just anyone to see me

and experience me and feel me in such an

intimate moment

and forgive me for you know sin like i

think when i said feel me it starts

feeling a bit like vulgar when i said

that and you start visualizing but it's

but you can see like the effect of just

talking about sex has some kind of

emotional impact on us it isn't as like

as wishy-washy as a lot of likes people

like to act like it is just sex but it's

like i think there is

a big bonding moment that comes from it

just make sure it's like you know like a

safe role to keep in mind just have sex

with with people that you like in terms

of dating i think the rule

that i would personally have for myself

is the thing okay make this woman your

girlfriend if you think she has great

potential to be the mother of your

children to now start to see like

girlfriend you know the title and

girlfriend boyfriend official

relationship start to see that as like

okay well that's what it's for i know

this seems again like kind of like a

basic common sense thing but honestly

these realizations are somewhat new to

me so maybe i'm just like really really

done with something or maybe like we

just kind of overlook some of these

common sense things when emotions and

love and butterflies and everything get

involved which maybe is the case but

maybe the second rule can be take

relationships seriously that there's

some people who will get into

relationships and this this blows my

mind or maybe it will for you there's

some people who will get into

relationships