Find True Love with the 9 Best Dating Coaches

Ghosting… Breadcrumbing… Zombie-ing?

Red flags… Green flags… Beige flags?

When did finding love get so complicated?

In this quagmire of confusion, a dating coach can toss you a lifeline.

A good coach holds your hand as you navigate this crazy new dating scene, from setting up a quality online profile to clarifying your deepest desires.

But how can you tell if a coach is the right one for you?

This resource includes only the best dating coaches in the US and Canada with experience serving women in their forties, fifties, sixties, and beyond, and who have your best interests at heart.

They’re willing to coach via phone or internet so you don’t have to live close to them.

They also have YouTube videos and free teachings so you can get a sense of who they are before making a commitment.

In no particular order, let’s see what they have to offer!

Deeper Dating - Ken Page

Author and licensed social worker Ken invites you to see past the facades people show when dating and cultivate a profoundly heartfelt spiritual practice.

Healing in this way, you lead with your inner beauty instead of with transactions, Ken says.

Ken founded the Deeper Dating app, which focuses on the humanity of meeting someone special instead of constantly swiping.

Features: Ken provides a transformative book and a mindful podcast as well as his Deeper Dating course.

EZ Dating Coach - Mike Goldstein

The EZ Dating Coach boasts the highest success rate in the industry. Some 83% of his coaching clients find the kind of long-term match they want.

Mike shares a man’s point of view of a relationship in an intimate and personal way that earns him thousands of views on YouTube.

Features: Aside from a ton of valuable free content, Mike offers a free 15-minute discovery call over Zoom to clarify your goals and see whether they align with his methods.

The Magnetic Femme - Emyrald Sinclaire

A self-described spiritual guide, Emyrald specializes in aligning you with your own goals to naturally attract the relationship you want.

She wants to shift your energy from negative and hopeless to abundant and full of light!

Features: Emyrald has a fun podcast, a blog, online courses, and private coaching.

In her newest offerings, you get direct voice and text access to Emyrald for a quick consult about the specific situation you’re in at any moment!

Magnetize Love - Helena Hart

Helena is the (wiser) girlfriend who’s rooting for your happiness and success. You’ll feel happy for her when she brings in her husband and new baby along on her podcasts.

Those good feelings translate to better dates for you.

Features: Helena guides her clients with a blog, podcasts, free reports and audio trainings, ebooks, online programs, and private one-on-one coaching.

An interesting alternative if you don’t need intense personal feedback is Helena’s anonymous forum coaching.

MarsVenus - John and Lauren Gray

That’s right! The world-famous bestselling author of Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus is also a coach! He’s teamed up with his daughter, Lauren Gray, to create MarsVenus coaching.

Taking a scientific approach based on evolutionary biology, John draws on his ridiculously happy marriage and decades of coaching to guide you with confident sympathy.

Lauren offers advice the way your best friend would, but based on the wisdom of her parents and her own flourishing relationship.

Features: MarsVenus has free and paid courses, books, a blog, in-person events, and private coaching available.

Queen School - Barbara Santen

In Queen School, Barbara teaches you to be a queen—someone who understands what she wants but doesn’t force any situation.

It’s all about staying in the flow of authentic, pleasurable femininity. Before you expect your partner to give you what you want, Barbara says you need to know how to give it to yourself.

Once you’re a queen, Barbara welcomes you into Abundance Dating, in which you never limit your options to gain a worthy partner.

Features: Barbara will help you write your dating profile or consult with you about your specific needs. Queen School consists of different tiers, with online courses and group and individual coaching.

Single to Soulmate - Stefan Gonick

This founder of the Soulmate Academy doesn’t want anyone else to waste time being as miserable as he was loving the wrong people.

In a gentle, caring way, Stefan focuses on helping you figure out what’s blocking you—then releasing those mistaken thoughts, habits, and patterns through the ease of EFT (emotional freedom technique or tapping).

You’ll find the love of your life much sooner.

Features: Stefan offers a free mini-course and a series of programs that combine online coursework with one-on-one coaching, depending on your focus and needs.

Understand Men Now - Jonathon Aslay

Jonathon’s no-nonsense approach encourages you to discover self-love, engage in radical honesty and emotional health and authenticity, and make your standards and desires clear.

His idea of active female empowerment stands apart from most. He’ll take you from meeting total strangers to the long-lasting connection you crave.

Features: Among Jonathon’s offerings, you’ll find a practical book, a VIP club, online courses, and group and private coaching after a free consultation.

Wendy Speaks - Wendy Newman

Wendy wasn’t willing to settle when she was looking for her partner, and she won’t settle until you find yours. She’s seen it all, helping single women for more than 20 years.

She puts no stock in “strategies” and will work hard to find a way to true love that works for you in particular. Give her the hard stuff, the tricky stuff, she says. Wendy can take it.

Features: Wendy’s array of services includes a blog; workshops about dating, relationships, sex and self, and understanding men; and paid and free tools and advice.

Your First Step to a Jubilant Love Life

Any one of these highly experienced coaches can work the miracle of taking you from single and confused to having the rich and rewarding relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

Now get started!

Take advantage of the free teachings or consultations offered by one or more of the coaches who best resonate with you and your goals.

How far and how fast you want to go after this first step is up to you.

Always check in and make sure you feel comfortable with a coaching relationship. It’s great practice for when you attain true love.

In matters of love, always—always—listen to your heart!