you are not irreplaceable

Even if you have strong strength, as long as you are not irreplaceable, you must restrain your personality, otherwise you will be taken back to show you the stage before others discover your strength. Why does the gun shoot the first bird? Because? As long as one bird in the flock blows up the nest first, the rest of the birds will wait for the opportunity even if they don't look out for the wind and flee. Therefore, killing one example is to maintain a relatively stable workplace environment and facilitate management.

We just learned that it is very important to reconstruct certain consciousness and behavior under the influence of our own character. Can personality and character really be reshaped because of external needs? Maybe everyone understands this truth, but it is really difficult to do it. Just like a husband and wife both know that one party is a boring gourd, as long as they don't care about their lover, there will be no conflict. But when contradictions appear, we often can't control our temper. Faced with a personality that can't be changed by the person you love deeply, how can you change it for the sake of work?

of course. Your lover will take the initiative to accept your personality because of the past or ongoing love, or may have to accept your personality because of the integrity of the family, or even because of his old age and lack of economic foundation, he has lost his love for the opposite sex. Attractiveness and grit your teeth to accept your personality. These are the reasons why we can't do a good job of rebuilding our personality in our family and marriage.

But no one in the workplace will take you for it. Even if you look like a fairy, you still need to shape your professional image according to the corporate culture. Of course, if you turn some leaders into anti-submarine, it will be another matter. However, friends who come up through unconventional means of competition tend to pay more attention to restraining their own personality, or the situation will not last long. In the workplace, because we want to build a stable career channel for ourselves, a relatively secure and stable income channel, we must build a stage for ourselves to show ourselves, and the audience that this stage needs to attract first is yours lead.

How to make your leaders willing to watch your play? Two conditions: first, there is an environment; second, there are actors. The environment is your work itself, and the actor is you. Therefore, if you want leaders to have the opportunity to see your abilities, you must first stay in this corporate environment. Third, you must have the ability to be different from others and do things that others cannot or are unwilling to do. If you are mediocre and self-righteous, who do you think you are? In this world, apart from our parents, no one will spoil us unconditionally. Don't overestimate your own charm.

Please don't take de-personalization in an extreme way, we're never in favor of completely flattening staff without any personality or edge. This is only a partial, staged depersonalization. When you become a big name, it's not too late for you to play big names and personality. In this society, strength gives face. If you don't have two real skills, how can you be so powerful? If you are not irreplaceable, please put yourself in the right position, and work hard and be a person is the right way. Otherwise, the people who want to replace you will kill you in seconds.