Wide Heart And Wide World

　　I heard that the three qualities that successful people need to have are: the stomach to tolerate those things that cannot be changed, the courage to change those things that can be changed, and the intelligence to distinguish between the two types of things mentioned above.

　　Not everyone can be successful, and not only successful people need to have a belly. Whoever lives in this world, and to live out the taste, live out the appearance can not be without the belly, and to do so, you can not do not have a wide heart. The heart is not wide, the world is small, the road is narrower and narrower, and even no way out.

　　Everyone understands the big truth, but in the face of reality, the truth sometimes just does not work. Everyone knows that people should be broad-minded, broad-minded, but want to do so, how easy it is? The most difficult thing is to convince yourself, as long as you convince yourself, things will be better. Everything is "I want to do" than "want me to do" comes smoothly, others advise us to be broad-minded, we will complain that others are too incomprehensible and not broad-minded, only when they are broad-minded, we understand people, but also accommodate everything.

　　Archimedes said, "Give me a foothold and a long enough lever, I can pry the earth." This statement of Archimedes presupposes a lever long enough, what is the difference between this and giving everyone a fair social environment where people can reach their maximum potential? The truth is, a long enough lever is not available, nor is a fair social environment, because, well, it's impossible. You get what you think is fair, and you deprive some people of what he thinks is fair. In the premise of the impossible, as close as possible to the possible, but also rare and valuable, extravagant hope for more, and what is the use?

　　One person's destiny is often in the hands of another person. A person to change their destiny is bound to pay a huge hardship and price. Society can never be fair, in the life of a person, there are ups and downs, and in the ups and downs, you will taste the heat and cold of the world one by one.

　　The torch of truth is sometimes in the hands of a few and will burn those who hold it high. We don't believe in fate, but we can't help but believe in it. It is only because what cannot be changed becomes destiny.

　　Those who suffer are not necessarily sinful people, but those who are sinful are far from suffering. Facing injustice, suffering, and unchangeable fate, what should we do? There are only two choices for human destiny: either to die or to live.

　　It is easy to die, but difficult to live. The reason why people choose to live with difficulty rather than die easily is that they have instinctive cherishing and defense of the dignity of life. Choosing to live necessarily requires courage, but also needs to have the psychological preparation to deal with everything.

　　It is unreasonable to say that the reason in their own; obviously oppressed others, but refused to see good; let others suffer, but also no conscience ...... when justice is not in the hearts of people when the public is confused, scarred you where the road? Can't change it accept it, accept it and then look forward to the day the clouds open up to see the day how?

　　At any time, no matter what happens, everyone's heart should be more relaxed, and more relaxed. In this way, you can help yourself through many difficult times. Life's most critical is often just a few steps, in the most difficult moments, if you do not give yourself confidence, courage, and strength, you will let yourself hit the head. The heart is wide, you can cross over, cross over, and you will feel that everything does not matter.

　　You are your enemy, and you are your own master. The one who defeats himself is himself, and the one who defeats himself is also himself. When you have a wide heart, you will tolerate it. When a person tolerates everything, the biggest things in the world are just a piece of cake.

　　Why should you be generous? If you are not generous, you are not happy with yourself. Why should you not be lenient? If you don't be lenient, won't you achieve the purpose of some people? Not to be lenient, either to die of anger or depression and this is not what some people want to see. How to explain this to yourself?

　　The heart is wide, nothing is acceptable, and nothing is not tolerable. Some people, although victory is still defeating; some people, although defeat is still victory; more people, is with the victorious posture of the defeated people. Is it a compromise to tolerate some people doing things that are not reasonable? You've seen the people who did all the unconscionable things in the end what did they get? What he got was eventually taken back!

　　I have never boasted about how broad-minded I am, but on the contrary, it is because I am not broad-minded and under-cultivated that I know how important it is to be broad-minded and how much I need it. I don't want to eat a rift, I don't want to grow wisdom. The years are water, eventually grinding off a lot of angles, and washing away a lot of dirt.

　　I've been through a lot of ups and downs, and I've come to understand what I need. The other things will be unimportant compared to what I need most. Since it is not important, I will be with it to weigh. Including injustice, injustice, and injustice! I always believe that there is righteousness in heaven and earth, and a straight heart is a dojo, so I try to learn to be broad-minded.

　　Learn to be generous, is not want to let yourself bear the regrets of others, as long as there are no regrets in the heart, only to live a relaxed ah! I don't want to and can't change everything outside of me, but I must become my own master. Only by learning to be generous can I convince me. Those who bring misery to others are sinners. Compared to sin, I am happy to accept suffering.

　　To live, you have to be generous even if you are not. Life is too short, which can have too much energy to be bothered by people who do not deserve it! The heart is wide, everything is also clear. Just because in the end, everything is a blur.

　　The heart is wide, the road is wide, the heart is wide and the world is wide. Why not a wide heart? The sky and the earth are already wide!