What are the dark sides of human nature, especially the emotional side?

Sister Li, the next door neighbor, is a kind and gentle old girl. Unfortunately, when she was young, she met with misdemeanors and was dragged down by a married scum man for more than ten years. Finally, she was kicked away. When she woke up, she was over the marriageable age and was almost 40 years old and still a single old girl. When she came home last year, her parents said that she had found a boyfriend from a nearby city. Although she was older, she was not bad-looking and spoke well. Every time she came to find Sister Li, she got off at the entrance of the alley. She was not in a hurry to enter the house, but cordially greeted her neighbors and took a smoke walk. It is said that he is also a billionaire with tens of millions of assets. The key is that he is especially good to Sister Li. Every Saturday, he drives from the city to visit Sister Li. Usually, he keeps talking on the phone, so Sister Li falls in love again. On Christmas day that year, it was a windy and snowy night. Sister Li received a call from her boyfriend and said she would surprise her. She drove to spend the holiday with her in the evening. She was really a romantic man. However, the night lover did not come, nor did the morning lover. Until the afternoon of the next day, Sister Li received a phone call saying that her lover had a tragic accident on the highway last night, resulting in car destruction and death. After suffering such a severe blow, Sister Li has been a little stunned since then. She set up a holy place for her boyfriend who died violently in her boudoir, prayed night and night, went out in the daytime like Sister Xianglin, and when she saw someone, she said, "he died for me..." "He died to see me..." But what can we say? It's just that we can accompany her to shed a few tears and sigh that fate has made people ill fated. A few months later, when I came back from my studio in the countryside, my sister said excitedly, "Sister Li's boyfriend is back!" "Which boyfriend?" "The one who died in a car accident!" I'll go, but there's such a bloody bridge as death and rebirth?! It is said that when he came back, it was the Spring Festival. As usual, Yi got out of the car from the entrance of the Hutong and walked in slowly. On that day, the clouds were low, and the north wind rolled firecracker debris like a red tide over the road paved with green bricks under his feet. As usual, Yi greeted his neighbors affectionately and scattered a circle of smoke, as if Yi had never died. Pitifully, there were several aunts with weak willpower in our Hutong who were scared to collapse, and Sister Li, who was extremely frightened, fainted on the spot. Before long, the truth came out. It turned out that he was not single at all. He had a wife and children. Later, in order to get rid of the infatuated Sister Li, she directed and acted a good drama of a night party lover who died miserably on the highway. He is not a multimillionaire. He also owes a lot of usury. Years ago, he was too tight in debt collection and had to run away. So I think of Sister Li, who is infatuated and kind-hearted. Finally, I asked my sister curiously how Sister Li handled it in the end. "What else can I do? I live here, eat her, use her and spend her. Every day, I either go to the chess and card room to play mahjong or go to the lottery station of fat aunt at the corner of the street." And Sister Li, it seems that she has accepted her fate. Not only has she accepted her fate, but also some happy spirit has been displayed. This is really a sad, stereotypical, everlasting ending....... Split line..... This question probably came out a month ago, and then fell into the sea. Unexpectedly, it was turned out again today. A large number of people were commenting. I was really confused about this push system, and then another answer was written casually a few months ago, which I thought was not very readable. Of course, there are few followers. These days, good guy, 7000 likes. What kind of operation is this? Can you give me some advice? Write a postscript conveniently: I don't mean to wash white for any kind of people, but I look at things from different angles. From the public view, this aunt is a habit of destroying the family. For me personally, she is an ill fated neighborhood elder sister. A coin has words and flowers. When you see words, I see flowers. Although we are all discussing this coin, the conclusions are very different. In reality, people and things are more than just pros and cons. Objectively speaking, these tragedies really don't blame others. It's purely a matter of her personal character. In the past 20 years, she has met many blind dates. All kinds of people have seen her. She doesn't call at all for honest men. In a popular saying, "this is not my dish!" To tell the truth, which man is born handsome, not all the skills honed by thousands of sails? Of course, there are also good men who have been tempered in life and are emotionally loyal, but such good men really can't be reduced to her aunt. The rest of the screen is not these scum men who are used to the wind and moon. Moreover, there are many people like Sister Li in society, mainly manifested in the following points: young and precocious, young and mature, neighbors praise their children for being sensible, and when they grow up, they slowly find that this child has a high start and a low growth. Also play strange, also krypton gold, just don't increase experience value. You can always fall into the same pit after a thousand setbacks, and you will always fall into the same thing. Obviously, when things happen, he is irrational, but he has his own opinions. He should not be persuaded with good words, and he will come at the touch of his hand with sweet words. A friend asked, did you make this up? In fact, there are such doubts behind many of my answers, and I can't prove them at all. Besides, there is no need for textual research on the trivia of life, which is a matter of saying and having fun. I can only say that I am not a professional writer myself. I know a little craft and have a way to make a decent living. If there is no factual basis for anything written, you can't feel it. It's really impossible to hold back half a word. Li Ao once said, "a real writer can't write until he has inspiration, just like a prostitute can't pick up guests until she has sexual desire." So I ask myself that I have no talent for writing. For the false praise of several friends in the comments, first I am grateful, and then I am ashamed. For authenticity, I want to say, please take a closer look at the people and things around you. Real life is always more tortuous and bizarre than fictional passages, and after each passage, there may be an unforgettable past. Afanti had a famous passage. One day he said to the king, your majesty, yesterday I came to see you. I passed a small bridge. There was a hole in the bridge, and my donkey fell in. But today I will bring the donkey to see you again, and it will know to go around the hole. Speaking of IQ, with all due respect, I'm afraid your ministers are not as good as the donkey in my hand. What the passage says about this donkey is not Sister Li emotionally? On the road of life, are you afraid of me? In the long river of history, this donkey is not talking about the thousands of years of human beings.