Strong women and strong women

Lina runs two beauty salons and a seafood restaurant. Just over 40 years old, she has also won a number of entrepreneurial honors. Such a woman is dubbed the title of "strong woman", which is naturally well-deserved. As a friend who has been with me for many years, I rarely feel the dominance of the so-called strong woman in the workplace in her. She speaks slowly and slowly, and moves her gestures calmly and elegantly, rather like a full-time wife with a bit of temperament.

​​

Many friends who are familiar with her have asked her: You manage hundreds of people, but why is it difficult to find the words "strong woman" on your face? People who don't know you will definitely regard you as a writer or a quality family woman...

​​

She smiled sweetly: "It's very simple. Because I only want to be a strong woman, not a strong woman. The same thing between them is that they all have the word 'strong', and strong women focus on external strength, and they are strong for others to see; and A strong woman is an inner strength, a kind of inner cultivation. If you say which one is closer to the true nature of a woman, I think a strong woman should be slightly better."

​​

After what she said, I understood the truth of soft energy overcoming gangs. I asked her again: "So, as a head of a company and a decision-maker, no matter how true you are, you must be a bit domineering, right?"

​​

"That's natural." Lina's tone was still unhurried. "That should be called aura. This kind of aura is not created only by a cold and severe face and loud scolding. The real domineering of a boss, It should be to make employees obey from the heart. It is very simple to convince employees. The first is to work hard to do a good job in the company, so that employees will feel motivated. Second, to make commitments to employees, such as salary standards and reward systems , Absolutely consistent with words and deeds. When these two things are done well, prestige will naturally not be strict and self-reliant."

​​

Hearing this, I nodded frequently. This is the power of a strong woman. More worthy of praise are her marriage and family.

​​

Lina's husband used to be a middle school teacher. Because he loved painting in his spare time, he quit his job and opened his own gallery. The scale of the gallery is not small, but compared with the stalls that my wife is doing, it is nothing.

​​

In this type of marriage where women are strong and men are weak, many people think that men will have no status at home. And when Lina and her husband are together, whether she is shopping at the mall or having a dinner with friends, her little bird-like appearance is a typical picture of a husband and wife singing along.

​​

Lina's husband is considered to be a well-educated man, but the literati's arrogant and macho nature still occasionally troubles him. At this time, Lina will definitely give her husband enough face. She said, I only have one identity in front of this man, and that is his wife.

​​

She has a successful career, is beautiful and generous, is deeply loved by her husband, and is also very popular in the women's circle. This accomplishment is truly remarkable. Unlike some powerful women with successful careers, they are hot in character and rude in language. Lina's strength lies in: using softness to control rigidity!