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She Was the Perfect Wife. Then She Signed the Papers and Took a Taxi.

The quiet divorce of Rupert Murdoch’s first wife, and why “being good” isn’t a strategy.

By JinPublished 10 days ago • 6 min read

In the early 1960s, Melbourne, at a society cocktail party.

Patricia Booker wore a light-colored dress and stood in the crowd holding a glass of champagne she had barely touched. She had been an air hostess and a model, and she knew how to make herself look effortless in a room full of strangers. Someone introduced her to Rupert Murdoch. He was younger than she had imagined, spoke fast, and did not look people in the eye; he looked at the wall behind them, as if calculating how much that wall was worth.

He asked what she did. She said she had flown international routes and was now modeling. He nodded and said, “I’ve just started in newspapers. My father left them to me.” She said, “I know. I’ve read them.” He paused and asked, “Which one?” She said the name. He said, “Then you haven’t read much.” She said, “Not much, but I remember.”

He laughed. Later he asked her to dinner, and later still he took her to dinners in newspaper circles. She dressed well, smiled well, and stood beside him without stealing the conversation. When people asked about her, he said, “Patricia, my fiancée.”

His mother disapproved. Biographers have written that in the old-fashioned circles of the Murdoch family, an air hostess and model did not count as “roots.” But Murdoch was not yet fully bound by his family, and he made the decision. The wedding was small. Patricia later recalled that her mother-in-law was polite at the wedding. So polite it was like receiving a man who had come to fix the plumbing: the job done, the tea drunk, the man gone, the door shut.

In the first year of marriage, Murdoch ran between Adelaide and Perth, buying small papers and negotiating printing-plant contracts. Patricia stayed in the house in Melbourne. She learned to cook the roast he liked. She learned to dim the living-room lights before he came home. He said bright light hurt his eyes. She learned not to speak while he was on the phone. She learned that when her mother-in-law came to the house, she should hand tea first to her mother-in-law, then to Murdoch, and last to herself.

The day their daughter Prudence was born, Murdoch was in Sydney negotiating an acquisition. He arrived at the hospital the next day with a newspaper in his hand, not flowers. Patricia later told a biographer that he held the baby for about three minutes and then said, “She has long fingers. Like me.”

She did not say whether she cried that day.

The marriage lasted about eleven years, according to published accounts. In those eleven years, Murdoch’s newspaper business expanded from Adelaide to Sydney, Perth, and London. His time at home grew shorter; his phone calls grew longer. In the house in Melbourne, the living-room lights stayed dim. Her mother-in-law came occasionally, sat on the sofa, asked how Prudence’s grades were, and then said, “Anna Torv has been getting a lot of attention in London lately.” Patricia said, “Is that so.” Her mother-in-law said, “Her father is a journalist. The family is in publishing.” Patricia said, “That’s good.” Her mother-in-law said, “Yes, it is.”

Patricia did not answer. She stirred her tea with her head down.

Once, Murdoch came back from London, and Patricia arranged a dinner. She made roast, lit candles, and got Prudence to sleep. Murdoch came in at eight, took three calls at the door, sat down, ate two bites, and said, “I have to go to Canberra tomorrow.” Patricia said, “Tomorrow is Sunday.” Murdoch said, “Canberra has people on Sunday too.” Patricia said, “Prudence has a parent-teacher meeting at school tomorrow.” Murdoch said, “You go. You represent me.” Patricia said, “She wants you to go.” Murdoch looked at her and said, “Patricia, what I’m doing is important.” Patricia said, “I know.” Murdoch said, “You don’t know. You don’t need to know. You just need to take care of the home.”

Patricia said nothing more. She cut the roast and put it on his plate. He finished eating, went upstairs, and shut the door. Patricia sat alone at the table. The candle had burned halfway down; she blew it out. There were two place settings. She cleared one.

In the later years of the marriage, Patricia grew quieter and quieter. She did not make scenes, did not argue, did not ask about London, did not ask about Anna Torv. She simply took Prudence to her family home for a few days more and more often. Murdoch did not ask why. He assumed she was just going back to visit.

Later she asked for a divorce. She was the one who filed, biographers say. There was no violent quarrel, no catching him in bed, no final straw. On an ordinary day, she said to Murdoch, “I want a divorce.” Murdoch asked, “Why.” She said, “I don’t want to go on like this.” Murdoch said, “Like what.” She said, “Like this. With you not there.”

The divorce negotiations were short. Patricia received a one-time cash payment of a little more than one million dollars at the time. There was no division of real estate, no newspaper shares, no trust beneficiary rights, no long-term alimony clause. Custody and educational decision-making for their daughter Prudence went to Murdoch. Patricia retained visitation rights.

She signed the agreement. The lawyer asked her, “Are you sure.” She said, “I don’t want a fight.” The lawyer said, “This isn’t a fight. These are your rights.” She said, “I don’t want the child to see us fight.”

After she signed, she walked out of the law office. There was wind in Melbourne that day. She pulled her coat tight and stood by the road waiting for a taxi. The taxi came. She got in and gave an address. The driver asked, “Which route.” She said, “Whatever.”

After the divorce, the money Patricia received slowly ran out. Her second marriage did not last either, according to those accounts. Prudence was folded into Murdoch’s new family with his second wife, Anna Torv. Anna was a journalist by training, her father was a journalist, and the family was in publishing; she spoke with measure and did things with method. She later had three children. In that house, Prudence was the child left over from an earlier marriage.

Prudence had behavioral problems in adolescence, biographers report. She changed schools frequently and was later sent to boarding school. When Murdoch spoke of his children in public, he habitually mentioned the three children Anna had borne. Prudence’s name rarely appeared.

Patricia later said in an interview, “I thought that if I was quiet enough, respectable enough, and didn’t touch his business, he would treat me well.” She said, “I was wrong.”

She did not say “worth pondering.” She did not say “what really matters.” She just said, “I was wrong.”

When Prudence grew up, her relationship with her mother was not especially close. She rarely spoke about her mother in public as an adult, according to published accounts. The beneficiary structure of the Murdoch family trust is complex, and public records show that Prudence was not entirely excluded, but her place in the family’s public narrative remained blurred. She was not Anna’s child, nor the child of Murdoch’s later wives. She was the daughter born in Melbourne in the 1960s, the one whose mother signed, the one whose father held her for three minutes.

In her later years, Patricia lived in England. She kept a low profile and appeared at social occasions occasionally, but was no longer at the center. Murdoch married many more times; his wealth rose again and again; his media empire stretched across Europe and America. Patricia’s name appeared in a chapter of a biography, under a heading something like “The First Marriage.”

In that chapter there is a sentence from Patricia. She said, “I didn’t know then that some things in a marriage, if you don’t write them down, count as not existing.”

She did not say “women should.” She did not say “marriage into wealth.” She just said, “I didn’t know.”

Later someone wrote her story into an article titled “A Good Wife Does Not Buy Kindness.” She never read it. She probably didn’t need to. She had simply, on a windy afternoon, signed a document, gotten into a taxi, and said, “Whatever.”

The taxi drove away.

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