Really Good People, No Time To Raise a Bar With Life

It is often said that your future look is hidden in your present efforts.

　　I like the saying that there is never a shortcut in life, when others work silently for their dreams, you just don't see it. The good people don't have the time to raise a bar in life.

　　Yes, the good people, never complain about life, and will not find excuses for their laziness.

　　01 like to complain about people, is that you do not cultivate enough

　　The weekend back home met a long-lost secondary school classmate Xiaoli, who did not say two words, Xiaoli began to complain to me about their husbands of all kinds, said the boss of their girlfriend opened luxury cars, lived in a large house, the girlfriend every day in addition to shopping is to go out to play. The company's husband is a little bit of a deadbeat every month, so he knows how to save money, and always bargains with the owner of the vegetable vendor when buying food.

　　Sometimes it's even for a dollar and people argue for half a day, "You know what? Ah Xin, I'm fed up". Looking at Xiaoli's expression of dislike for her husband, I laughed and said nothing.

　　The husband of Xiaoli is an honest man, in addition to the money earned less, to Xiaoli that is genuinely good. I remember when Xiaoli often whispered in our ears, how her husband was good to her and wanted to let everyone know that she married a good husband. But now married less than two years, she began a variety of dislike, the face of Xiaoli's dislike, her husband just laughing, or as always, good to her.

　　In life, we often encounter some negative energy people, as soon as they open their mouths is a variety of complaints about life, even their closest people, but also in front of outsiders without reservation. It seems that she is complaining about some trivial things in life, some details of the life of her loved ones. In essence, what she complains about is herself.

　　American spiritual teacher Will Bowen said in the book "The World Without Complaining": "The essence of complaining is actually to gain compassion and attention, as well as to avoid doing what we are afraid to do".

　　A good person never complains about life. Most people complain because they are not good enough, and often your words will hide your cultivation.

　　02 Instead of complaining, we should change

　　When we envy other people's good fortune, but we can't see him in the library day and night hard reading; jealous of other people in good shape, but do not know that he sweats like rain in the gym.

　　Like the actor Hu Ge, 23 years old that overnight fame, 24 years old experienced a car accident, disfigurement, rebirth, 25 years old back to the entertainment industry, now 33 years old, he looks more mature and stable.

　　Hu Ge said: I was fortunate to be the first to get my life back, but watched another life fade away; I thank God for preserving my eyes, but could not feel the light while claiming the broken face.

　　However, the scar is not his defect, but a medal. Many people say that Li Yiye is at his peak, he can not go back.

　　He said that the skin that cannot be returned can be filled with thoughts.

　　Remember the "Langya List" in the Mei Changsu is exactly Hu Ge's other self, experiencing the darkness, but still able to be calm and calm, clear and firm. Even if you have been wounded, you can also come out with a better life.

　　The French writer Romain Rolland said: there is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after seeing the truth of life, still love life.

　　03 good people, no time to dwell

　　Don't complain all day about how life is bad for you, you don't work hard, how will God favor you. Life on the road, the speed is not important, the important thing is endurance. Good people, there is no time to tangle with the choice, only desperate to move forward, many things, only after the experience to understand.

　　I like a quote from the spiritual writer Daphne Zhang: There are only three kinds of things in the world: my things, his things, and God's things. Those who complain about themselves should try to learn to accept themselves; those who complain about others should try to turn their complaints into requests; those who complain about God, please try to use prayer to ask for your wishes.

　　In this way, your life will be transformed in ways you never imagined, and your life will be more beautiful and complete. Hopefully, by then, we have all become better versions of ourselves.

　　No sooner or later, just at that time, just when you meet the best you.

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