If You Can't Control Your Destiny, You Can Control Your Heart

　　 We try to control fate, but in the end, we are always caught by fate; we try to explore life, but in the end, we find that life is like a dream; we try to promote our personality, but in the end, we are often assimilated by the group. "Since we cannot control our destiny, we should let nature take its course, find our inner self, do not lose ourselves, and achieve inner peace! Life is simpler, and happiness will last longer.

　　 To know how to forget. The greatest pain in life comes from the pursuit of perfection, to know that the real light is not without dark moments, just never drowned by darkness. Our life is the same, running with pain, with tears and smiles, this is real life.

　　 To know how to give up. Life is like a play, everyone is the only director of their own life, and only those who know how to give up can understand life thoroughly, laugh at life, and always have a good mood. "Give up give up", there is a give up to have gained.

　　 To know how to appreciate. With an appreciation of people and things, we will be happier. There are advantages and disadvantages for everyone. Why do we need to look at people with a magnifying glass, but not with a telescope to appreciate it?

　　 With the passing of the years, the tedium of life, the reality of the many difficulties to people more and more pressure, no stopping to taste the leisure, less meditation, and contemplation of the mood. Normally, one's emotions are affected by the environment. Only those who have sunshine in their hearts can feel the sunshine of reality, happiness is an attitude towards life and happiness is a state of mind. Do not confine yourself in the thick cocoon of sorrow, beautify life, appreciate life, and life will be bright everywhere.

　　 We can't hide from every dull day, and we can't avoid the busy flowing account on the dull days. Everyone has their way of living, as long as they can discover themselves, and maintain themselves in the body and mind, and ultimately beyond themselves, even if no one applauded will be rewarded. Live the ordinary and true self. In life, laughing is a kind of dash, and crying is also a kind of dash, as long as the heart from the heart, will be sound and dripping.

　　 In this complex society we have to learn to deal with changes, do not let ourselves lost, sad and aggrieved when, bawling. After crying, wash your face and squeeze out a smile for yourself. Give yourself an ambitious future and goals. Remember to often look up to the sky, but also do not forget to look up to the sky when also looking at the feet.

　　 The ordinary day renders the ordinary self, although ordinary people can influence the world as long as they try, do not deliberately pursue anything, with their good qualities and happy mood, to be true and ordinary self. This kind of day has thoughts to go with, have fun with, can be described as the sky is the limit, you will be proud of this, feel comfortable, but also live a real and easy and peaceful.

　　 We are all ordinary people, every day in the rush of people walking in the noisy and noisy environment busy. We are eager to get a relaxed release from the exhaustion of running around, in the quiet of the late night, for their inexplicable loneliness to find a reason to calm, we even look forward to their ordinary life can appear long-desired brilliance, fantasy to their mediocre ability to create extraordinary achievements. We keep praying for our hearts because only the relentlessness and satisfaction of our hearts can make us feel the meaning of happiness in living.