Complaining is Indignation at One's Own Incompetence

Life is just like time, it is the same for everyone. But because people and people thought, thinking, mentality, and so on different will appear different life situations, some people live poor heartache, some people live a carefree life, some people live good food and clothing.

　　In the face of such a gap in life, it is natural to complain or grumble. However, we can have a deep analysis and think, why others can live a good life and you are not good? Many times, we are too concerned about our own family or parents for us to accumulate wealth or give us a material base is too weak, the excuses and reasons all put on the parents, if only so that is not too much if they do not work hard to cause their own life is not as good as others or as the parents of the sin, then this is too wrong.

　　Our parents can only give us life, which is already the greatest gift of nature to us, we should never be ungrateful but ungrateful or revenge, that is our greatest sin. We should know our situation and be different from others, and find their struggle and goals, and constantly strive and change. If we just keep on complaining or whining, that may be the case for the rest of our lives.

　　Many people around us were born in humble circumstances, poor families, and have bad experiences, but they can live with freedom and happiness, and how can you not? This is what we should think about, should be clear: "complaining is useless, everything depends on themselves". Because the only thing we can rely on in this world is ourselves, why? Because you rely on others, others can not always help or serve you, one day they will leave you; because you rely on parents, parents can not always treat you as a child or not let you grow up, one day they will also leave you; because you rely on relatives and friends, relatives and friends will not always be able to help you, one day they will also love can not help.

　　Complaining is the biggest obstacle to us, if we encounter a little bit of the unsatisfactory or unsatisfactory began to discourage, the person down, a stumble, the whole person anxious so decadent down, then no one can save you, no one can change you, and eventually really will be anyone look down on you. We should always maintain a sunny mindset, and confident life, because life would not be so good, then we have no reason not to get it right. This mentality is invaluable, but many of us just can't do it, perhaps they always feel that this is pretentious, is pretentious, is pushing themselves. However, we can carefully observe the people around us, those who only complain all day long how many have succeeded? No. On the contrary, those who encounter difficulties actively seeking solutions are small achievements, this is the difference, this is what you have not been able to understand. So, your life is not as good as others that is because you can not eat others can eat the suffering, you do not want to pay others to pay so much, and you do not face or are afraid to face those difficulties and setbacks.

　　 We need to take action rather than complaining and whining, the only action to solve the problem, complaints can only be counted on their incompetence or indignation. Because they do not have the ability or courage to overcome and change, they will find excuses and excuses to shirk and will continue to have grievances, and eventually plague themselves and thus consume the precious time of their lives in mediocrity. To become a human being, you must overcome the complaint mentality, eliminate the whining mentality, with an I can do confidence to fight, so your life is naturally different.

　　To truly live a decent self, then you must always face yourself, face your shortcomings and shortcomings, face your own life is not good, face your actions and abilities, and then in the process of continuous practice to improve yourself, completely say goodbye to complaints, so you will get a new self, you will transform, bravely out of the circle of life, out of the thinking You will be able to step out of the confines of life, step out of the confinement and comfort zone, boldly practice your ideas, overcome the difficulties in life, and find reasons only for success, not excuses for failure. Tell yourself that excuses and reasons can only be a kind of perfunctory and coping to others at some times, but this actually should not be, because I think we should be bold, courageous and responsible, without any excuses, such a thunderous style is our driving force and sharp weapon to move forward. Whenever you encounter some failures or setbacks, to be clear about their ability or not prepared enough, is their lack of awareness or others first, rather than come to complain about the fate of injustice or complain that their ability is not as good as others. This is only a thought that will determine your future achievements and gains, sometimes you know where the root cause is, then it will provide a reference and warning for your subsequent life, know what they should try to overcome, what they should improve the ability.

　　Instead of using the time to complain, it is better to leave this time for yourself to think, summarize and improve. Because only the full use of time will give us no time to think, will be more able to motivate ourselves to work hard, and be positive. This intense and full life is what we must, if you do not have time for decadence, no time to complain, no time for boredom, then you can certainly be as good as others, you will also feel like a new look, then you live out a true self. Because we all have three "I" - false self, ego, and true self, only to stimulate all their potential and persevere in their efforts, then they will find the real me, will find their potential for excellence, so do not just Complain about themselves, just need to work hard until they can do nothing, struggle to move on it, will be able to live without regret.

　　We came into this world, seems to be to do something. Therefore, in this long and short period of our lives, we really should make more efforts and complain less, constantly sounding the trumpet of our struggle to warn ourselves, constantly motivating ourselves that complaining is useless, and that complaining can only be indignation at our incompetence.