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She Survived, She Healed, She Became: How Nikki S. Samuels Is Helping Women Glow Through Every Chapter

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By Tammy ReesePublished 2 days ago • 7 min read

There are moments in life that leave a mark on you — some you can see, some you carry quietly, and some ultimately change the woman you become.

For Nicole “Nikki S” Samuels, founder of Glowth HER™, one of those moments came after she was hit by a car. Standing in front of the mirror, looking at the physical scars left behind, Nikki saw something far more powerful than what had happened to her. She saw a survivor. She saw a woman being called to rise.

That moment became part of the foundation for Glowth HER, a movement built around a beautifully simple truth: you do not have to be completely healed to begin becoming.

Through her own experiences with pain, betrayal, rebuilding, faith, self-discovery, and starting again, Nikki has created a space where women are encouraged to embrace every part of their journey — not just the polished, glowing version people see after the struggle.

Glowth HER is a reminder that healing can happen while you are growing, growth can happen while you are still figuring things out, and you can begin to glow long before you feel like you have it all together.

And perhaps that is the message so many women need to hear right now: Your scars do not disqualify you. Your unfinished chapters do not diminish you. You are still becoming.

Please enjoy our interview!

Your journey to creating Glowth HER began during a very difficult season in your life. Take us back to the moment you came home after being hit by a car and looked in the mirror. What did you see in yourself at that moment, and how did that experience change the way you viewed your scars?

Nikki S: When I came home after being hit by a car, I remember getting out of the shower and looking at myself in the mirror. I saw the physical evidence of what I had experienced, but I also saw a woman who had survived.

That night, I had what I can only describe as an out-of-body experience. I looked at myself again, dropped to the floor, and heard God tell me, “Get up.”

So I got up.

When I looked at myself again, it felt like I was watching the old version of me fade away. I knew something in me had shifted. I felt God telling me that the old version of me had run its course, that chapter was closing, and it was time to become the woman I had been praying to become.

That moment changed how I viewed my scars. I stopped seeing them simply as something that happened to me and started seeing them as evidence of what I had survived and what I was becoming.

I realized healing wasn’t about erasing what happened. It was about allowing those experiences to transform me without allowing them to define me.

My scars became reminders that I was still here.

In many ways, that night became the beginning of the woman who would eventually create Glowth HER.

You’ve described experiencing betrayal from someone you trusted and worked closely with. How did that experience challenge you personally, and what did rebuilding your confidence look like afterward?

Nikki S: That experience challenged me because it came from someone I trusted. When you build with someone, you give them your time, ideas, energy, and pieces of your vision. When that trust is broken, you can start questioning yourself.

I had to learn that someone else’s choices don’t determine my worth.

Rebuilding my confidence meant learning to trust myself again, listen to my intuition, and understand that walking away from something that no longer honors me isn’t failure.

Sometimes God allows a door to close because He’s preparing you for a version of yourself that couldn’t exist on the other side of that door.

The words “Glowth HER” came to you while you were processing your own experiences. What does “healing, growing, and glowing at the same time” mean to you, and why was it important to create a space centered around that idea?

Nikki S: To me, Glowth HER means you don’t have to wait until you’re completely healed to start becoming.

There were moments when I was healing, growing, and learning to see myself differently all at once. That’s where “healing, growing, and glowing” came from.

You can be healing and still be beautiful. You can be rebuilding and still be powerful. You can be unsure of what’s next and still be becoming the woman you prayed for.

Glowth HER came from my own becoming, but it was created for women who are becoming too.

Glowth HER is built around the belief that women don’t have to be perfect to become the women they’re meant to be. What do you think society gets wrong about healing and personal growth?

Nikki S: I think society makes healing look much prettier than it actually is.

We celebrate the transformation, but we don’t always talk about the messy middle, the tears, the boundaries, the starting over, or grieving old versions of ourselves.

I had to learn that being a work in progress doesn’t mean you’re failing.

You don’t have to have the perfect life to be worthy. You’re allowed to be unfinished. You’re allowed to start over. You’re allowed to become.

You call the women in your community “Beauty Baes.” What does being a Beauty Bae mean to you, and what do you hope women experience when they become part of the Glowth HER community?

Nikki S: Being a Beauty Bae is about recognizing the beauty in who you are, where you’ve been, and who you’re becoming.

It’s not just physical beauty. It’s your resilience, your story, your heart, your growth, and everything that makes you uniquely you.

I want women in the Glowth HER community to feel seen and know they belong exactly as they are not as the version they think everyone expects them to be.

We’re all becoming.

Your message is deeply rooted in turning pain into purpose. How have your own experiences shaped the way you encourage other women who may be struggling with disappointment, self-worth, betrayal, or simply trying to figure out their next chapter?

Nikki S: I’ve learned that sometimes the thing you thought would break you becomes part of what gives you your voice.

I’ve experienced disappointment, betrayal, and seasons where I didn’t understand what was happening or what was next. But God kept reminding me that my story wasn’t over.

Eventually, I stopped asking, “Why did this happen to me?” and started asking, “What am I supposed to do with what happened to me?”

That shift changed everything.

Now I don’t speak to women as someone who has everything figured out. I speak from experience. I’m still becoming too.

Your pain can be part of your story without becoming your identity.

You’re not only building a community but also creating books, storytelling, personal-development content, and other creative projects. How do you use creativity to help communicate the Glowth HER message?

Nikki S: Creativity is one of the ways I communicate and connect.

Sometimes a message needs to be a conversation. Other times it’s a video, a book, an affirmation, a podcast, or even one sentence that reaches someone at the right moment.

That’s why creating Becoming HER: A 7-Day Affirmation Journey was so meaningful to me. I wanted women to have something they could actually sit with a reminder that they’re still worthy, still growing, and still becoming.

For me, creativity isn’t just about making something look good. It’s about making someone feel something.

If something I create makes a woman pause, reflect, smile, cry, or believe in herself again, then the message has done what I intended it to do.

You describe Glowth HER as more than a platform — you see it as a movement. What do you envision for its future, and what would you love Glowth HER to become for women beyond what it is today?

Nikki S: I see Glowth HER becoming much bigger than social media.

I envision books, live experiences, workshops, meaningful conversations, and spaces where women and girls can grow together.

The Glowth HER Method™ reflects that journey:

Recognize HER.

Heal HER.

Rebuild HER.

Become HER.

Live HER.

We’re not always in the same place. Sometimes we’re recognizing something. Sometimes we’re healing or rebuilding. And sometimes we’re finally living as the woman we’ve been praying to become.

My dream is for a woman to encounter Glowth HER during one chapter of her life and, years later, look back and say, “That was part of the journey that helped me become me.”

That’s the legacy I want to build.

Before we wrap up, what else would you like our readers to know about Nicole “Nikki S” Samuels, the woman behind Glowth HER, and how can women connect with you, become a Beauty Bae, and follow the movement online?

Nikki S: I want people to know that before Glowth HER was a movement, it was something I needed for myself.

I’m still becoming. I’m still learning. I’m still dreaming. And I’m okay with that.

I’m not standing in front of women pretending to have everything figured out. I’m saying, “I’ve been through some things, God brought me through them, and now I want to help another woman believe she can get through hers too.”

I’m Nicole, but many people know me as Nikki S. I’m a creator, author, and founder of Glowth HER.

If you’ve ever had to start over, questioned yourself, lost yourself and had to find your way back, or stood at the edge of a new chapter wondering what’s next, Glowth HER was created with you in mind.

And if you’re ready to embrace the journey, you’re a Beauty Bae.

Women can follow the Glowth HER movement on:

Instagram: @GlowthHer365

TikTok: @GlowthHer

YouTube: @GlowthHer

Facebook: Glowth HER

Different stages. One journey. HER.

Humanity

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Tammy Reese

Tammy is best known for her legendary interviews with Sharon Stone, Angela Bassett, Sigourney Weaver, Geena Davis, Morris Chestnut, Jeffrey Dean Morgan, Sheryl Lee Ralph, Laurence Fishburne, Omar Epps, Joseph Sikora, and more.

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