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Running and Chasing

Ego Run Amuck

By Julie O'Hara - Author, Poet and Spiritual WarriorPublished 2 years ago Updated 11 months ago 7 min read
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First of all, running and chasing and separation do not exist the way you may think it does. In the Twin Flame world, this is a relatively new and a hugely false concept. Separation, Running and Chasing is nothing more than a concept that allows you to ignore, deny and inappropriately deal with ridding yourself of spiritual ego. By saying it is part of the journey, only makes your journey longer because the whole concept of running and chasing is based on ego gratification and feeding your ego which prevents you from ascending/uniting.

First of all, IF you are in a twin flame relationship (and no matter how many times this is explained, so many do not get it; do not want to get it), very few people are actually in a twin flame relationship. The number bandied about is that there are 144,000 twins on earth at any one time and that is because twins are on the final track; their purpose is to help bring about closure. Add up 144,000 and you get the number nine. The number of completions. Most real twins will resonate to that number. Most people who think they are in twin flame relationships are in karmic soulmate relationships, or false twin flame relationships, or just soul family soulmate relationships. And these can become toxic very quickly. Twin Flame relationships NEVER are toxic; you cannot leave a Twin Flame relationship if it gets to be “too much” for you. You are with your twin all the time in 5D; they are divine relationships not based on sex but based on such a profound love; it is not lust, it is not desire, there is only love and support. And like I said, not many people are blessed with this gift/assignment. ALL twin flames come from very very old souls. Yes, we all like to walk around thinking we are “old” souls, but not everyone can be. It is an honor bestowed on few and many souls offered it do not accept it. It is hard to go through and once you split you go through the pain and suffering in every subsequent timeline.

Secondly, all twin flames are romantic in nature. You cannot be twin flames with your child, your best friend, you aunt, uncle, grandparent, etc. It is NOT what twin flames are about. Those are highly karmic relationships. I had a person swear up and down that her mother came to her and told her they were twin flames; but it is not possible. First of all, communication from the other side can be very clear, but it can be very obtuse at the same time. They don’t communicate the same way as we do. Often ideas are communicated, which can be easily misinterpreted. So, again, twin flames cannot be anything but an appropriate romantic relationship. Twin flames are the result of one soul being split into Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. Once split, they are filled with an overwhelming desire and need to become “one” again. In human mortal form, the ONLY way to become “one” again is through physical intimacy and lovemaking. You do not have the same feelings for your close family members that you do for your twin.

For some people, their spiritual awakening happens when they discover they have a Twin Flame. And ironically, this causes a conundrum of sorts. You are supposed to be letting go of spiritual ego and releasing yourself of all adjectives that make you feel unique which prevent you from attaining “I am”.

But being told and believing you are a twin flame (one of 144,000) forces you to believe and understand that you are different and special. You are not.

We are all incarnated on this earth from different, if you will species and entities. Some come from alien cultures that the Divine birthed from his mind before mortals; some come from the angelic realm (Numbers I have heard bandied about are that there are 4 million incarnated angels on earth at any one time). I was told that I come from a subset of the Cherubim called Aloki. When I was meditating, I received the message loud and clear that I was an Aloki, if you will, an incarnated angel. To be honest, I was horrified. My first thought was, “how subconsciously arrogant must I be?” I didn’t believe it. But then the thought came through from my Guides stating, “Yes, you are, and it really means nothing. It simply is what it is. You are who you are.” And interestingly, many twin flames are incarnated angels due to the fact that the Divine made angels first and they are the oldest entities/souls. So, my being an angel and a twin flame really means nothing. It is just a facet of my soul, and I work hard every day to not identify as such.

So, when people strut around and say things like, “I am a twin flame, and you don’t know my journey” and then talk rudely or hatefully to someone who questions why they think that way, I KNOW right then and there, they are not on the journey, because the journey in itself requires you to let go of any sort of adjective that self identifies you. That is part of letting go of ego. When I see someone treating another person hatefully because they force the person to question their belief that they are a twin; I know they are not on the journey because hatred, intolerance, and lashing out are not acts of love; and true twin flames operate from a place of love.

So, now let me get back to why separation, running and chasing are indicators that you are NOT in a twin flame relationship and that believing that is simply egoistic behavior.

First of all, you are NEVER separated from your twin. There is NO separation phase. You are always with your Soul Family and Twin Flame in 5D. Always. You, little mortal, cannot instigate a separation; only the Divine can do that, and it is written into your soul contract. Surrendering your will is a big part of the spiritual journey and until you realize you really do not have as much free will as you think you do; you will be stuck spiritually. Yes, separation happens, but you cannot instigate it. And you need to respect it because it is happening for a reason. The arrogance in thinking you can control “separation” is hugely egoistic and shows you are not doing your shadow work.

Also, running and chasing should not be part of the twin flame lexicon. If a soul is running or unavailable; there is a good reason for it, and it is NOT because the emotions frighten them. Twin Flames, remember are all old souls, and very little frightens them because they are lived through so much. Most often, when someone appears to be “running” they are dealing with karmic issues they have from other timelines that may or may not include you. Until these karmic issues are resolved they CANNOT be in a unified twin flame relationship. Thinking they are “running” from you because the emotions frighten them is egoistic because you are thinking that your relationship is so special that an old very wise and experienced soul is going to run? Really? A young inexperienced soul runs from emotions, not a twin flame. Hence, if they are running because the relationship is too much only means they are NOT a twin flame, but most likely a karmic one.

And now chasing… Chasing is nothing but control. You are attempting to control a situation that only the Divine can control; thus, you are acting as if you are the “Divine” one. That is arrogance and ego to the highest degree. If you are chasing someone, it is because you think you know what they want (because it is what you want). Again, this is NOT twin flame behavior. Twin flames only relate to their partner out of love and would never try to control their behavior.

Most twins, if they are twins, and if they are not available are dealing with their own soul contract and you need to respect that.

Work on letting spiritual ego go; and if this article makes you want to lash out at me; so be it. Being open-minded to other points of view is a huge component of spiritual awakening.- Julie O'Hara

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Julie O'Hara - Author, Poet and Spiritual Warrior

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