Why didn't Aunt Xue allow Xue Ban to marry Lin Daiyu?

After Aunt Xue let Xue Tadpole marry Xing Cui Yan, and meet Zi Cuckoo cheat Baoyu caused a storm, after the incident, Aunt Xue and Xue Baochai coincidentally visit Lin Daiyu in Xiaoxiang Pavilion. The three of them were laughing, Xue Baochai said that Xue Ban had a crush on Lin Daiyu and wanted to ask them to marry her. I did not expect Aunt Xue to say no, and did not hesitate to take out Jia Baoyu as a shield, said to personally matchmaking for the two. Xue Pang asked to marry Lin Daiyu, and Baochai married Lin Daiyu, such a good thing, Aunt Xue why not do it? Why is she strongly opposed to Lin Daiyu as a daughter-in-law?

1. Xue Pang saw Lin Daiyu after a glance nostalgic, Xue Baochai full help

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. Xue Ban, because he knew that Jia Zhen and others specialize in women, was busy protecting the Xue family ladies, but inadvertently glimpsed Lin Daiyu, who could not hide. The original text reads, "Suddenly a glimpse of Lin Daiyu windy and ebullient, has crisped down there."

This glance made Xue Ban engraved in his heart. Subsequently, he began to do two things privately for Lin Daiyu.

The first thing was the crazy dispensing of medicine. Jia Baoyu had said to Mrs. Wang that there is a medicine that can cure Lin Daiyu's disease, is a prescription formulated by the first-born purple river car, human-shaped with leaf ginseng, turtle big heshouwu, thousand-year-old pine root, Poria bile. Mrs. Wang naturally did not believe, did not expect Wang Xifeng came forward to prove that Xue Pian had approached her for pearls, formulated into this medicine. The prescription is Bao Yu to Lin Daiyu to find, Xue Ban according to the prescription, naturally to Lin Daiyu.

The second thing is to give their portrait as a gift to Lin Daiyu. Xue Ban went out to do business back, to Xue Baochai brought back a large box of gifts, are Lin Daiyu hometown of Huqiu specialty gadgets, including "Huqiu bring their people, wine order children, mercury-filled play gold bucket small kid, sand lamp, a play out of a clay man-children with a box of green gauze cover. There is also a small statue of Xue Ban pinched in the mud on Huqiu Mountain, and there is no difference with Xue Ban." Xue Baochai smiled after seeing it, giving Lin Daiyu a gift, twice as much as others, which doubled naturally would not be a duplicate, so Xue Ban's portrait of a person doubled the gift.

Since ancient times, fair lady, gentleman good martyr. Xue Ban is not a gentleman, meet a beautiful woman like Lin Daiyu, naturally, the heart can not forget. The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this.

2. Aunt Xue refused to let Xue Jian marry Lin Daiyu, is it because of Jia's mother's feelings?

Aunt Xue is indulgent to Xue Ban, but for her son to have ideas about Lin Daiyu, never reveals a little wind. Is it that she has the self-awareness to know the mind of Jia's mother?

Jia's mother is very loving to Lin Daiyu, this love is not only in life but also in spirit.

After Jia Yuanchun hinted at the golden jade marriage, Jia's mother in the Qingxuguan play peace jiao, on the use of Zhang Daoist to Jia Baoyu matchmaking, to Baoyu is still young, not to the age of marriage, categorically called a halt to the "golden jade marriage".

After coming back, Lin Daiyu because of the Golden Jade, distracted, and Jia Baoyu conflict, Jia's mother dry anxious can not help, behind the scenes scolded the two "is not the enemy not together", and forced Wang Xifeng to find the two. The two made up, and Jia's mother was unusually happy.

With Jia's mother's tendency to opinion, Wang Xifeng good on the good, taking the matter of sending tea, with Lin Daiyu joke that "eat my house tea, why not do my house do daughter-in-law?" Not only that, privately and Ping'er discuss the marriage of Bao Dai, said the two a marriage, Jia's mother will pay for their own private money.

With Jia's mother's care, Jia House up and down also looks at Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's marriage. The company's boy Xing'er, once said to You Er sister Lin Daiyu will marry Jia Baoyu, just two people older, as long as Jia's mother asked, that is the nail in the coffin thing.

In this case, Aunt Xue, a relative living in the House of Jia, how will make Jia's mother unhappy.

But it is not, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are rivals, and the outcome is Xue Baochai successfully married Jia Baoyu. So the argument that Aunt Xue did not dare to move on Lin Daiyu because of Jia's mother's attitude is not valid.

3. Aunt Xue refused Lin Daiyu because of three defects in Lin Daiyu

Why does Aunt Xue not want to let Xue Pian marry Lin Daiyu? Because Lin Daiyu has three major flaws.

These three defects are related to the popular "five do not marry" at the time. Five do not marry.

"rebellious children do not take" - the rebellious family of women does not marry.

"The son of a rebellious family is not to be taken" - not to marry a woman whose parents have had a disorderly life, a scandalous life, and a rotten life.

"not to be taken by those with a criminal family" - those whose ancestors or parents have been tortured by ink, wakes, palace, amputation, or brutality (those whose family has committed crimes) are not to be married

"not to marry if you have a bad disease". See also "an evil sickness" - those with malignant diseases or disabled persons in the family are not to be married.

"If you are the eldest daughter in the family and your mother dies before marriage, you will not be able to marry.

This five do not marry, Lin Daiyu points out three.

First, "the world has a criminal not to take". The Lin family naturally did not suffer from torture, but there are criminal people. Lin Daiyu's prototype is Lin Daiyu's prototype Li Xiangyu, the original granddaughter of Suzhou weaver Li Xu, whose father is Li Ding of the two Huai salt classes. Li Xu is Cao Xueqin's full grandmother's brother, Li Cao has two deep feelings, Cao Xueqin and Li Xiangyu grew up reading together. After the Li family was dismissed and copied from the family, Li Xiangyu died, and Li Xiangyu lived in Cao's house for a long time. Later Jia House was copied and has a significant connection with Lin Daiyu. The first thing is that the company's business is not a good one.

The second is "the world has a bad disease not to take". The body of Lin Daiyu is notoriously weak. The first time Lin Daiyu entered the Rongguo Mansion, people saw her body face although timid and weak, there is a natural windy attitude, and they know he has a deficiency of the disease. When asked about the condition, Lin Daiyu said she ate medicine from the time she would eat food and drink and has not stopped until now, how many famous doctors were invited to repair the prescription with medicine that did not work? She usually eats ginseng and nourishing pills. The people said that Lin Daiyu was a "sickly beauty". Wang Xifeng also said to Ping'er that Lin Daiyu was a beauty lamp and the wind blew on it. The company's main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The Xue family is a royal business, the family's thinking is secular and practical. In this case, Aunt Xue will not let her son marry a sick beauty home.

Thirdly, "the eldest son of a bereaved woman is not taken". The first daughter of Lin Daiyu, her mother Jia Min died early, and her father died, she was an orphan body, how could be respected by Aunt Xue? The reason why Xue Baochai dare to blatantly say that to help Xue Ban marry Lin Daiyu implies a layer of deep meaning, Lin Daiyu married Xue Ban, which also belongs to high marriage, because the two have a good relationship, so they will make this joke.

In fact, these three major flaws in Lin Daiyu, both Aunt Xue is reluctant to let Xue Ban marry Lin Daiyu, is also the main reason why Jia's mother was slow to open her mouth to fulfill the marriage of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu. Especially at a later stage, the House of Jia went downhill, when it was difficult to protect itself, it was impossible to complete the Bao Dai marriage.

Because of the world's prejudice, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's beautiful marriage, eventually became the moon in the water and flowers in the mirror, so that countless people sigh and shed tears for it.