What kind of woman, can let a man infatuate most?

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My name is Du Cheng and I am 28 years old. After graduation, he came to the United States for graduate school and stayed in Chicago after graduation.

I have been in four relationships, but my first one is the most unforgettable.

Her name is Li Xuan. We have been in love since grade two and talked about grade two.

Li Xuan white clean, very good-looking. During middle school and high school, I did my best to take care of her. I bought her meals and brought them to her classroom every day. As long as she is happy, I will give her life.

Her family situation is a bit complicated, her parents divorced, her mother left her to go to the south; She lives with her father.

Her father's income was not high, but he drank and gambled for a long time, and often took different women home to sleep. On one occasion, her father was beaten black and blue by her husband for sleeping with a married woman.

Another time, her father had dinner with a friend and invited Li Xuan and me. When I arrived at the table, I realized that I had been dragged to the fore.

Her father said at the table: "XXX hotel is our family xiaocheng's aunt opened, I speak well!"

I was embarrassed, but also had to smile and agree: "yes, uncle speaks well!"

In the college entrance examination, I was admitted to one, but Li Xuan failed in the college entrance examination and went to a second university in Jiangsu.

In order to stay by her side and take care of her, I resolutely gave up the opportunity to attend a university in our province and went to the second college next to her school.

After entering the university, she said she was not used to living in the school dormitory, so I immediately rented a house for her off campus. She wants to buy shoes and bags, although I don't have much to live on, I must try my best to buy them for her.

I would like to explain that my family is not poor, but my parents are strict with me. I have a high standard of study and a low standard of living. I am not allowed to brag outside.

I don't know when Li Xuan became a little material. She saw someone's lipstick for hundreds of dollars, and she wanted it, too. I could buy lipstick, but I really couldn't afford those bags that cost tens of thousands.

But I promised her that when I worked hard for a few years, we would have everything!

In our seventh year together, I got a great internship to work in the United States for a year.

The thought of leaving Li Xuan for a year made me very sad. My mother offered to let Li Xuan follow me to study in America for one year at my family's expense, but she was not willing.

I went to work on weekdays and worked as a waiter in a restaurant on weekends. I didn't want to take the bus. I had to ride my bike for two hours to get to and from work every day in order to save more money to buy her a present.

However, in those days, Li Xuan's circle of friends content is very strange: she often eat haagen-Dazs ice cream hot pot worth several hundred yuan, I asked her who took her to eat, she said her father. I actually believed it at the time.

Her father's income was not high, but he drank and gambled for a long time, and often took different women home to sleep. On one occasion, her father was beaten black and blue by her husband for sleeping with a married woman.

Another time, her father had dinner with a friend and invited Li Xuan and me. When I arrived at the table, I realized that I had been dragged to the fore.

Her father said at the table: "XXX hotel is our family xiaocheng's aunt opened, I speak well!"

I was embarrassed, but also had to smile and agree: "yes, uncle speaks well!"

In the college entrance examination, I was admitted to one, but Li Xuan failed in the college entrance examination and went to a second university in Jiangsu.

In order to stay by her side and take care of her, I resolutely gave up the opportunity to attend a university in our province and went to the second college next to her school.

After entering the university, she said she was not used to living in the school dormitory, so I immediately rented a house for her off campus. She wants to buy shoes and bags, although I don't have much to live on, I must try my best to buy them for her.

I would like to explain that my family is not poor, but my parents are strict with me. I have a high standard of study and a low standard of living. I am not allowed to brag outside.

I don't know when Li Xuan became a little material. She saw someone's lipstick for hundreds of dollars, and she wanted it, too. I could buy lipstick, but I really couldn't afford those bags that cost tens of thousands.

But I promised her that when I worked hard for a few years, we would have everything!

In our seventh year together, I got a great internship to work in the United States for a year.

The thought of leaving Li Xuan for a year made me very sad. My mother offered to let Li Xuan follow me to study in America for one year at my family's expense, but she was not willing.

I went to work on weekdays and worked as a waiter in a restaurant on weekends. I didn't want to take the bus. I had to ride my bike for two hours to get to and from work every day in order to save more money to buy her a present.

However, in those days, Li Xuan's circle of friends content is very strange: she often eat haagen-Dazs ice cream hot pot worth several hundred yuan, I asked her who took her to eat, she said her father. I actually believed it at the time.

Another time, she posted a photo of herself holding a wad of US dollars on Wechat with the caption: "Thank you dear lucky money. "I asked her who gave it to me and she said it was a friend.

Suddenly one day, she sent me a long message, broke up with me, and said she would repay me in the next life.

Another time, she posted a photo of herself holding a wad of US dollars on Wechat with the caption: "Thank you dear lucky money. "I asked her who gave it to me and she said it was a friend.

Suddenly one day, she sent me a long message, broke up with me, and said she would repay me in the next life.

I called her immediately, but she refused to answer the phone. I called her father again. Her father said to me, "Xiao Cheng, I know you are very close to each other, but you can't take care of Xuan Xuan now that you are in America."

I immediately told her father that if it was because of this, I would go back to China to accompany her and not work.

But she was determined to break up with me. I shut myself in my room and cried all day.

She got married a month after we broke up. My friend told me that it was a man 20 years older than her who was set up by her father because that man could earn 20,000 yuan a month, which was a high salary in our local area.

Seven years of our relationship, and it's over. She was in her early 20s. Why didn't she wait a few more years?