Love hunger

There is no doubt that hunger impairs one's judgment.

The most obvious example is that when people go to the supermarket to buy things when they are full and when they are hungry, the amount of money they spend is often very different. When you go to the supermarket when you are hungry, your eyes will shine when you see any food. It is like a reunion with long-lost relatives. Once you catch it, you will not let go. On the other hand, when they are full, they push their trolley leisurely through the shelves. When they see the food, they usually look at it gracefully, and most of the time throw it back on the shelves.

Later, I know there is a disease, called "love hunger".

Hunger and thirst are the same, I thought, whether the attributive is love or not.

The greatest clinical manifestation of love hunger is the urge to rush into the frame of your car whatever "food" falls into your hands, and the conviction that no matter how bad the food is, it is what you want to eat, and no matter how much it costs, you must buy it home.

In short, hunger went to my head.

Generally speaking, a man must be hungry for a while before he is so hungry that his eyes are blind. Therefore, the older men and women who have not been in serious love for many years are the high incidence of love hunger. Especially older young women, because of the appetite for love is particularly good, because seeing the food stamp in the pocket is about to expire, so see a eat in front of you, even if it is a moldy steamed stuffed bun, even if it is rotten heart of the apple, all want a lunge past, indiscriminately swallowed into the stomach.

The question is, what good can you do by putting something in your stomach that you can't even see.

The mouldy bun or the rotten apple must be pleased to see you run so fast and swallow so quickly. Naturally, he will mistake your hunger for his intrinsic worth. Am I awesome? Isn't that cool? Is there some mysterious charm I haven't tapped into myself? Mildew steamed stuffed bun, rotten apple looking in the mirror, wipe his big back head, the more look more proud. No, I can't. If I'm such a great guy, and I have such a mysterious charm, how can I do it so easily? Therefore, it is mildew steamed stuffed bun, rotten apple, see you run so fast, but also in your hand in the moment, the price of their own fifty percent, eighty percent. That's why we see so many brothers and sisters crying out, "What the fuck? To have no talent, no appearance, no money, spectrum is higher than the sky..."

Yeah, well, you give them so much color, they don't have a dye house.

Mildew bun because you give that little color, see themselves as fresh buns. Fresh steamed bun because of the color, think of themselves as braised meat. Braised meat because of the color, see themselves as abalone shark fin. Anyway, with your love hunger, you've created an egomaniac.

It's not fair to the other side either. Because suffering from love hunger, so when you look for love, looking for a plaster, firmly stick to your wound. Since you are looking for a plaster, its most important properties should be safety, sterilization and protection. It's got to treat all the inflammation you've had in your history, and it's got to fend off all the bacteria you might have in your future. However, love is not just a plaster. People said that love should be as beautiful as flowers, useless, just arrogantly beautiful.

I remember Cui Jian once said in an interview that he usually only dated girls under 27, because girls over 27 are always too insecure, and always let the sense of crisis spoil the other joys of love.

There's a lot of sexism and ageism in there, but I admit, he has a point. He did not want to be a plaster pressed on the wound of a love thirst.

There is a saying that is used a little too often in the English world, "I love you not because I need you, but because I want you." Translated into Chinese, it means, "I love you not because I need you, but because I want you." The difference between "need" and "want" is the difference between treating the other person as a tool or a subject. If a woman marries a man for money, she uses him as a purse, a tool. In the same way, if a woman marries someone out of emotional hunger, she uses him as a plaster, a tool of another kind.

It is said that true love is not because of what the other person can bring you, but because you just appreciate him for who he is.

For love horny patients themselves, finding her plaster, is not necessarily a good thing. Hunger is a blind. That's what desperation is all about. When you put the steamed stuffed bun apples you picked up and stuffed them into your stomach, you may suddenly find that you don't like to eat these steamed stuffed bun apples. In fact, these steamed stuffed bun apples are not delicious. What to do? Throw the rest in the trash? However, wasting food lacks basic civic ethics.

So be patient when you're pushing your shopping cart through the supermarket of love. Patience is a virtue, its basic truth is, your hunger, should not be a reason to let a mold bun spoil your appetite, can not be a reason for you to waste a good bun. Most of the time, there is a kind of pleasure in the impulse, and other times, away is a kind of ethics.