Why Do Families fall apart?

Men are the rulers of women. If this phrase is looked at carefully, it means that the man is the ruler and the woman is the slave. Protector Better a poor horse than no horse at all. What is the reality of this ... What is its location ... What is its significance? Who is important to whom? Who is the ruler of whom and who is the slave of whom?

In fact, the man is the guardian and guardian of the woman and the protector of her honor and dignity. Allah has provided the woman with care in different forms and at different times which change with the age of the woman as the first father then. brother.. Son after husband ... what a special arrangement

When a girl is born in a house, her father is the first to protect her, that is, she takes care of her daughter's well-being and condition. The father and son work together to make the life of the girl comfortable and, keeping in view the quality and requirements of the girl, arrange a good boy for her. Take care of it even more than them and protect it from environmental elements and avoid violating its rights.

Husbands and wives are a reflection of each other. Both of them have to maintain balance in order to live their life, thanks to which the vehicle of life keeps moving in a state of balance. Domestic disputes between a couple reached such a point that it was time for divorce. The couple went in search of a scholar or a Maulvi to get a divorce.

Welcoming and asking what is the ruling? The couple replied that we have to separate, that is, to get a divorce. Maulvi Sahib said, "Wait a few moments. Your request will be considered." Begum guest has come to present some fruits. A few moments later Begum Sahiba sent a watermelon from the curtain to Maulvi Sahib.

Maulvi Sahib took the watermelon in his hand and returned it after looking carefully. Begum Sahiba sent a watermelon after some time. Maulvi Sahib repeated the same process when Maulvi Sahib After repeating this process three or four times, the divorcees got up and said, "Maulvi Sahib, we came for divorce and you are playing a game of watermelon." Maulvi Sahib said, working with great patience and perseverance. Hey, all these games were for you guys.

There is only one watermelon in our house. Look at the patience of my wife. This is the reason why our relationship is still intact because we are a reflection of each other and guardians of each other's honor and dignity. The wall of my mud house collapsed ... People made their way out of my house.

God fulfills the necessities of life for all, but the desires of kings remain unfulfilled, so suppressing the desires of life is the real wisdom. Man wants to live life in luxury. Domestic riots are based on desires. Some people live on low income while on the contrary most people live on high income with great difficulty.

It really depends on the wife. The wife has the power to control the household expenses. When the man is poor, the woman's loyalty is revealed. If the woman is loyal and racial, she will be by the man's side. Thanks to which relationships are saved from breaking up. There is no ego in love relationships. Where there is arrogance, relationships do not last long. Only a bent tree bears fruit.

it never falls from the mountains. Words can also cause injuries, but due to the current situation and environmental backwardness, the woman The importance of the man has been lost. Sometimes men take the funeral of their own honor. If it is a matter of guilt, then the man is the protector of the woman, but he neglected his duty. Understanding is also to some extent later becomes definition. For example, a woman has many needs that she can tell her husband, but when the husband himself does not take care of it, the woman's attention will automatically be drawn to the other side. Which is a sign of danger.

it is the work of a mother or a husband only. He asked, "Why are you standing here? My mother has gone to do her necessary shopping. It is not appropriate for me to go. You are a servant of God. Just think. Do something shameless and let the woman live within her limits. Save your honor from dying and protect your homes.

Avoid burglarizing homes and limit domestic disputes to homes ... if men and women know the reality of these situations and events and make decisions based on each other's circumstances and do not prolong the seriousness of events. Let the riots end with the people, let man eradicate arrogance from within and if he does not destroy the truth with love and brotherhood, then peace will prevail in all parts of the society, but to no avail.