We are finally spoiled by our parents, not to be abused into dogs by others

Chatting with a friend, she told a horrifying story: her uncle, who was from a wealthy family when he was a child, grew up all the way through school, and eventually became the leader of a government agency. Everyone has to respect his three-point master. According to the world's standard of judgment, he is undoubtedly a high-quality man with high social status and income! But few people know that he actually lived a very hard life!

Now that they're both high, what's so hard about it? The reason is -- his marriage was a failure. When he was young, he accidentally married a slutty daughter-in-law, and then the daughter-in-law openly took the mistress home. A big living person was bullied by a dead bastard, his male hormones were immediately stimulated, and he divorced angrily. A few years later, he married another daughter-in-law, but this time he was even more careless and married a tiger wife!

What is the experience of having a tiger wife at home? Let's put it this way, he is the leader in front of everyone, everyone is in awe, everyone pretends to be his grandson, but when he gets home, he is transformed into the grandson of his wife! His compulsory course after returning home every day is to be abused in various ways by his wife! Don't chat with your wife, people just say, you son of a bitch, do you dislike me, and don't even say a word to my wife when you go home? But let's chat, if you say something that doesn't suit your wife's taste, you will be reprimanded immediately, until you are disheartened and sit down like a child who has made mistakes. Another example is when a friend goes to his house for dinner, and his wife asks him to buy a bottle of soy sauce, but when he comes back, he is scolded in public again! Dare to say something back? That was a big deal, and the wife turned scolding into beating. She was proficient in tearing, scratching, and biting. The scene was so tragic that even the murderer couldn't help being horrified! Kneeling on the washboard or something is commonplace for him, and he is often pinched on the east with black green, and the west with purple sauce, as if fished out of a sauce jar. As a leader, his injuries can never be seen by his subordinates, so he must cover up with long clothes and trousers all year round. A friend said with emotion: He was abused into a dog! I asked: Why didn't Mao get a divorce? A friend said: He wanted a divorce, and his wife agreed, but the house he built with his own hands, his wife planned to own, and if he wanted a divorce, he had to leave the house!

I'm wondering again: why not file a lawsuit? A friend said: How dare you! Afraid of a lawsuit, my wife would cry, make trouble, and hang herself! It's scary for women to compete! This reminds me of a sentence in "Kingsman", reality is not an old movie! In "Fifty Shades of Grey", the heroine can leave him decisively after encountering a sadistic and domineering president. But in reality, you have a lot of scruples. You have to give your parents a reasonable reason to break up, let alone a divorce. In the concept of many people, husband and wife are just to live together, and when something happens, the forbearance will pass. They often comfort themselves with "the tongue and the lips are so good, there are times when they bite together". Especially in my hometown and rural areas, there is a unique spirit of contract. Once married, it is eternal, even if it encounters a wolf and is eaten. So many people's marriages are probably like this: either the man subdues the woman, or the woman subdues the man! Therefore, from childhood to adulthood, I have seen many men who were scolded as dogs and women who were beaten into dogs. They all married someone or married someone who likes to abuse them. But they didn't think about it, or were bound by what, they didn't dare to escape the current miserable life. I have an aunt from far away who was married in the mountains dozens of miles away. The man is a reckless man with little education, and he would beat her up whenever he could. Once, I heard someone say that he beat his aunt from afar too hard, provoked the anger of his sons, and was almost killed by the sons! Through this incident, I seem to know the source of the news materials in the social news section! The purpose of our marriage is to seek a happier life, to find a person with a common heart and an independent economy to create a better future together, not to be abused into a dog, nor to become material for social news! Because your parents worked so hard to give birth to you, they did their best to pamper and nurture you. They wanted you to be a happy person, a happy person, not a submissive, frightened, licking wound in the bed every day. people. So when you meet someone who likes to abuse you, whether in the name of love or in other names, you should cut off your ties with him decisively. You know, in this world, there is no harm that is for your own good!