there are rarely any friends in life you can really value.
friendship
when a man who had no friends was asked why this happened he responded friendship is like a diamond it's rare expensive and there are a lot of fakes if you made one mistake then a second and a third at some point you would say there are no real diamonds in the world there are only fakes and another man added a friend is a person to be valued and treasured but unfortunately there are rarely any friends in life you can really value Haruki murakami in his book Norwegian Forest also talks about this through the voices of his characters do you like loneliness she asked propping her cheeks with her hands traveling alone eating alone sitting in a classroom apart from everyone else I don't like being alone I just don't make any extra acquaintances I answered I don't want to be disappointed in people there's a wonderful and sad parable about the Friendship of a boy and an apple tree and it's useful for everyone to know it those who do not have friends and those who have them why have a listen and answer the question for yourself the little boy became friends with the apple tree in the forest he often came to it swung on its branches ate the apples it gave him made wreaths of the leaves and imagined himself a real king of the forest on a hot day when he got tired of playing the apple tree would shelter him from the Sun and the boy would fall asleep in its shade and the apple tree had faith in an honest and sincere friendship time passed the boy grew up and began to visit the friend more rarely he had new friends and new interests but sometimes he still visited the apple tree one day he came to it again and the tree saw that he was very upset what happened to you my friend asked the apple tree looking into his eyes why do you no longer play with me do not swing on my branches do not imagine yourself a king a king must have money and I don't have any the boy answered glumly neither do you but I have apples take them and sell them then you will have money and you will be my good and happy friend again the boy plucked the apples took them away with him and sold them but he did not return to the apple tree and it waited a long time for him looking at the road where he always came to it one day he did show up and again was unhappy with life why did you take so long to come the apple tree asked I have missed you because I have a lot of problems everyone has a family and children and I can't have a family of my own because I don't have a home what's the point of our friendship if you can't give me a home I can the apple tree replied cut down my branches and build yourself whatever home you want then you will be happy again he cut off all its branches went away and built himself a house and then married and enjoyed life until his old age without remembering his apple tree but one day he came back to it and again instead of the joy of seeing it he complained about life I'm sick of everything I want to sail away somewhere so I don't have to see anyone I need a boat but I don't know where to get one The Apple Tree was silent looking at his friends sadly but the man took out his ax and Swinging it several times he cut down its trunk to make a boat out of it and when he had succeeded he left without even looking back at the poor tortured stump left from his friend time passed frequent rains watered the apple tree stump the sun warmed the ground around it wild animals sometimes climbed on it and rested enjoying life but the stump was not happy about anything it no longer saw the meaning and what it used to Value more than anything else in the world but the world did not cease to exist and one day the stump released a little green Sprout from its Soul which quickly turned into a young beautiful apple tree full of strength it began to live and again learn to enjoy every new day but one day a little boy came to it and said hi let's be friends The Apple Tree trembled with all its branches but did not answer him it no longer believed an honest and sincere friendship George Carlin American stand-up comedian actor writer screenwriter and producer once said inside every cynical person is a disappointed idealist who knows maybe he used to be such an apple tree for someone too in The Vampire Diaries Damon Salvatore says the hardest thing is getting over people who have brought only pain and disappointment will argue with him the hardest thing is to forget such friends and if you know someone who has no friends don't rush to condemn them that doesn't always mean they are bad themselves maybe they have been an apple tree for someone too often and now they have simply stopped believing in honest and sincere friendship and that's very sad isn't it not having friends shows that a person has many reasons not to trust people.
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How About the Bermuda Triangle Mystery That Faded Away?
what's the most mysterious and blood-chilling place on Earth the first thing that comes to mind is most likely the infamous Bermuda Triangle this area has earned its spooky reputation after swallowing numerous ships and airplanes which then disappeared Without a Trace but is this place really so terrifying let's ask scientists but first I'll tell you a story or two one of the most infamous disappearances in the Bermuda Triangle was Mary Celeste the ship was found adrift in the Atlantic Ocean on December 4th 1872. it was days after its Journey began Captain Benjamin Briggs with his wife and a two-year-old daughter were heading from New York to Genoa in Italy with some important cargo besides the family of the captain there were seven other crew members on board the ship Days Later a British ship day gradia came across Mary Celeste by accident strangely the ship was floating under a partial sail everything on board was intact there was nothing strange with this situation except for one thing there was nobody on board the ship and the Lifeboat was missing there were no traces of people on the ship it couldn't be a pirate attack since all the belongings of the crew as well as the cargo were untouched theories like an undersea earthquake an attack of a giant squid or a natural disaster can be ruled out as well they just don't fit it was a clear day the ship was in perfect condition why would people leave it and never come back whatever the reason neither the crew nor the Lifeboat has ever been found it was November 29 1925 when the SS Cotopaxi left Charleston South Carolina and headed for Havana Cuba carrying a big load of coal and 32 crew members the story has that several days later the steamer ran into a severe storm got water in its hold and started to list dramatically on December 1st the ship sent out a distress call and since then nothing has been heard from the crew ever again the ship was believed to have vanished Into Thin Air until it was found 95 years later foreign scientists found SS Cotopaxi and it turned out there was nothing mysterious about its story at the moment the ship lies at the bottom of the ocean about 35 miles away from Saint Augustine Florida researchers are also sure that the ship did send a distress signal during a storm which most likely led to the sinking of the vessel USS Cyclops was a huge carrier ship that used to supply fuel to the American Fleet on January 8 1918 heavy and full of Manganese ores the ship departed from Rio de Janeiro and headed for Baltimore being only a couple of years old the ship wasn't supposed to experience any problems all 309 people on board felt safe and calm but this feeling turned out to be deceptive because somewhere around March 4th 1918 the ship disappeared Into Thin Air without sending a distress call or indicating it was having problems in any other way in the history of the U.S Navy this case Remains the accident that caused the largest loss of life at a time SS Alfaro was a much more recent disappearance this cargo ship left Jacksonville Florida on October 1st 2015 with 33 crew members and tons of vehicles trailers and containers on board the huge vessel was supposed to deliver its load to Puerto Rico but something went wrong a regular tropical storm that started miles away suddenly transformed into a powerful hurricane that rushed towards El Faro it started to circle around the cargo ship making the communication from The Vessel go silent but the most shocking thing was that after causing all this commotion the hurricane miraculously retreated in the same direction it had come from weeks later after a thorough and extensive search Rescuers finally located the ship it was still in one piece and sitting upright on the bottom at a depth of 15 000 feet but the blood chilling truth was that there was no trace of the crew members on board for airplanes probably the most inexp on December 5th 1945. this case got the name the Lost Patrol Flight 19 was the code name for five planes that departed from a naval base in Florida on a training flight no one knows for sure what happened to the planes but they never returned to the base most experts believe the commander of this group Charles Taylor got lost and led the planes in the wrong direction those were the machines that could land on water so hypothetically after getting low on fuel the pilots could ditch and wait for help rocking on the surface of the ocean but it didn't happen although two rescue Martin Mariner planes were searching the area all through the night and the next day they found no trace of the five disappeared planes but the most spine chilling coincidence was that one of the rescue planes failed to return to the base as well all six planes vanished Into Thin Air as if they had never existed there have been several other plane disappearances when aircraft went off Radars and never returned in some cases Pilots had to send out a Mayday distress call in others they disappeared in the 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on extraterrestrial forces though why they would choose exactly this area for their abductions remains unknown [Music] waterspouts or simpler tornadoes in the ocean are said to have been spotted in the Bermuda Triangle this weather phenomenon raises water many feet up into the air potentially this can make a ship disappear with ease the human error Theory may sound rather disappointing for those who love mysteries but some are sure that all the crashes and disappearances in the Bermuda Triangle happen due to people's mistakes there are too many confusing islands that are hard to distinguish from one another as well as difficult weather conditions there and now let's see what modern day scientists have to say disappointingly they claim there's no mystery in the Bermuda Triangle whatsoever the loss and disappearance of planes and ships is just a fact of probabilities researchers are sure that there's no evidence that in the Bermuda Triangle mysterious events occur more often than in any other well-traveled large region of the ocean the sheer volume of all that traffic in an area that is pretty hard to navigate gives us such unsettling statistics but on a percentage basis the number of vessels and aircraft missing in the Bermuda Triangle is the same as anywhere else in the world and what theory do you believe.
By Aamir Adam9 months ago in Earth
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true story of life beautiful mr. Aamir