There are 12 signs that a child is quietly getting better. How many are there in your family?

In the past, we could not choose our own original family.

But now, as parents, we can decide what kind of native family to give our children.

The following 12 cartoons will show us how to turn a native family into a school and a ferryman on the way to growing up.

Education is

You've made a mistake. I won't tell you if I see it.

In life, many parents will reprimand their children in public in the name of "education" in order to save their face and ignore their children's dignity.

But in fact, the real education is knowing that you have made a mistake, but I am still willing to protect your dignity and face.

Because I know that good parents should be the backers of their children.

Even if you make a mistake, I will stand by you firmly.

My love and respect for you will never change.

Education is

I always support your ten thousand attempts.

Writer Zhou Guoping said:

"when a child is weaving a beautiful dream, don't correct him with the reality in your eyes.

Only children who are respected, recognized and supported can stimulate their inner creativity, drive and perseverance. "

In the future, whether a child wants to be a teacher or an animal trainer, no matter what he loves is music or math, every dream is worth looking forward to.

And what parents have to do is to be the one who watered the dream and guarded it all the way from seedlings to trees.

Education is

No matter how small the growth

It's also worth giving him a seal applause.

The most ardent demand of human nature is the desire to be affirmed.

Only when we give our children a steady stream of praise can we make our children's little hearts full of self-confidence.

When they grow up, they will be able to be full and confident.

Even if the road of life is full of thorns and the sea of life is rough, they can still regard thorns as a field covered with flowers, twists and turns as a ladder to test perseverance, face setbacks and ride the wind and waves.

Education is

In my dictionary.

There have never been "other people's children"

Psychologist Adler said:

"using comparison to spur a child will only make him lose confidence and hurt his heart.

The most important thing is to find his strengths and let children find their own strengths. "

Every child has his own season.

Some children have a sweet smell when spring comes.

Some children's flowers are inconspicuous, but in autumn, they can bear sweet and rich fruit.

Some children remained unknown until the cold wind blew, only to find that he was proudly entrenched in the branches.

Good parents will never compare their children with others. They will only let their children compare themselves to themselves. If they grow one more leaf today and one more bud tomorrow, it is a victory.

Education is

Your occasional teeth and claws

I laugh to see if I can get mad.

The ultimate goal of education is not to cultivate a puppet who only knows how to be obedient and sensible, but to create an independent and sound personality.

As the writer Feng Jicai said:

"the wind can blow a big blank piece of paper, but not a butterfly.

Because the power of life lies in disobedience. "

What parents can do is to give their children moderate freedom, listen to their inner thoughts, and let him have the occasional wayward right in full love.

Only in this way, the child's life will not be confined to please others, but focus on becoming a unique self.

Education is

Know what you did wrong.

Is more important than getting him to apologize.

All children make mistakes, but parents react differently.

Some parents only know how to scold their children and order them to apologize, but as a result, they miss a precious opportunity to educate their children. on the contrary, they let their children learn to escape, evade and cover up.

Smart parents know that it is far more important to let their children know where they are wrong than to let their children say "I'm sorry".

Only by learning a lesson can a child learn to be a better self.

Education is

Give him a needle when he was a child.

Give him wings when he grows up.

Rand Newman, an American mental health expert, has pointed out that people who have a very "happy" childhood tend to have an unhappy adult.

As a guide to the growth of a child, if parents pave all the way for the child from the moment he is born and refuse all the hardships, then one day, they will find that the road they once walked for their children has now become a pit.

The meaning of growing up is not to be arranged, but to let children explore the whole picture of life.

What parents can do is to let him experience setbacks when he is young, and then give him support when he grows up.

Only in this way can children have the courage to face the wind and rain, and the courage not to be afraid of hardships and dangers, and to explore their own world in the ups and downs of life.

Education is

You did your best.

It doesn't matter if you lose.

Children will face countless competitions in their life, but there will always be only one first place.

As a parent, I never think that winning once means victory in this life, while losing once means failure in the rest of my life.

On the contrary, the sweat paid for success and the tears shed because of persistence are the secret weapons that can nourish the child for life.

It doesn't matter to win or lose, but learn to persevere from an early age, and the most important thing is to have the ability to "even if you fail, don't give up your efforts next time."

After all, how many sparkling lives are foreshadowing because of the original efforts.

Education is

Make him fall in love with your smile

Live, work, socialize...

Under all kinds of pressure, the flood of our emotions always accidentally breaks through the floodgates of reason.

However, every seemingly insignificant outbreak becomes synonymous with fear and anxiety in the child's mind, making the child timid and anxious.

Far-sighted parents learn to control their emotions early in the morning. They can often use smiling faces and warm words to create a relaxed and happy family environment and hold up a protective umbrella for their children.

Education is

Let him take you as his role model.

Sun Jingxiu, a child educator, once said to his parents:

"Children's eyes are cameras, their brains are tape recorders, and your words and deeds are engraved on their hearts."

Most of the time, children will not listen to what we say, but will constantly imitate our behavior from osmosis.

Over a long period of time, it will be internalized into character and quality, accompanied by the child's life.

In the final analysis, what kind of person we want our children to be, the best way is to practice ourselves and become that person first.

Education is

Your dreams are not old.

His curiosity is just right

The purpose of education is not only to create a high-scoring machine, to create one standardized product after another, but to cultivate a person who observes the world and pursues truth with curiosity and curiosity.

As parents, what we should do is not to stop our children from exploring, to touch insects and soil.

But with the children, squatting down, with that pair of curious eyes, from another point of view of the world of plants and trees.

Education is

Find the heart with your heart

There is no shortcut to education, it will not be achieved immediately, nor will it be achieved overnight.

Real education is actually a tree shaking another tree, a cloud pushing another cloud, a heart awakening another heart.

Listen, communicate, wait, and watch the babbling baby move into a bigger and farther world with blessings.

Makarenko, an educator, said:

"Don't think that it is education only when you teach and command your children, every moment of your life, even when you are not there."

No good child grows up in the hands of his parents.

A child with low self-esteem and fragile heart will not suddenly become o