The most comfortable relationship for adults: having something to say

What is your favorite state right now? Do you have something to say or do you beat around the bush?

Adults know very well, we all understand that many times when we beat around the bush, others know, others understand, so many times you will find that when you beat around the bush, others know, and very uncomfortable.

After all, many things can be said directly, and we have to beat around the bush, so there is no point in seeming to beat around the bush is polite, but in fact, it also reflects a person's dishonesty, in the adult world is not necessary.

After all, when we beat around the bush, others are not ignorant or do not understand, but know exactly how it should be done and also know what you have to do, so there is no need.

And for us adults, the most comfortable relationship is to have something to say.

Too many people can't have something to say

In reality, there are a lot of people who can't have something to say, always like to beat around the bush, and always like to hide their wants to let people guess.

In the world of adults, we are all very busy, no one is idle every day to guess what others are thinking, or what we mean, so get along a lot of times, are very tired, and let people be very broken.

Each of us has a lot of things to do every day, have our things to deal with, not so much time to guess what others are thinking, what others are doing, this kind of time, we will find that we are very tired, they are very painful.

And such a relationship will make people feel uncomfortable, and once it makes people feel uncomfortable, we don't like to get along in the relationship.

But in reality, there are always some people who like to beat around the bush, like not to have something to say, and always like to hide.

We always think we are playing with our intelligence this way, but smart people, will not do so to do but have something to say, what is what, what to say, what to do, rather than let people think, and let people guess.

Can not have to say straight, very tired

In any relationship, once you can't say something straight, you will feel very tired and irritated, and we don't like to get along in such a relationship.

Because such a relationship will constantly consume us we have been trapped in a self-consumption.

For example, the other party said a word, we have to think about what the other party's intention is, what the other party's idea is, why the other party will do so, his ultimate purpose is what, once this time, you will find that you are very tired.

Because you have to learn to think about each other's ideas, each other's thinking, each other is how to see, is how to think, think for a long time, we will be tired, will feel annoyed.

In such a relationship we will not feel comfortable, and we do not want to get along in such a relationship, so many times, you have to know one thing, that is, can not have something to say the straight relationship is very tiring.

If we can't say anything directly, you have to be trapped in a kind of internal conflict, which is very painful and unbearable, so instead of this, we should just be quiet and do ourselves

What to say directly, so that the relationship will feel comfortable, after all, not so many people have how much time always to think about what others are thinking, what is the intention of others, and what is the purpose of others.

So in a relationship, you have to learn to have something to say, you have to learn not to beat around the bush, but to make a relationship simple and comfortable.

It's only comfortable to have something to say

In the adult world, if we can't have something to say, many things are a waste of time, and things that are solved in one sentence may take a long time.

So many times, we will find that having something to say is a kind of comfort, there is a straightforward relationship to get along with simple and comfortable.

What is what, and not so much trivial things, such a relationship is simple and clear, such a relationship is very comfortable, but if we are in a relationship, can not have something to say, can not be straightforward, always ambiguous, always beating around the bush, many times, we will feel very painful.

The more this happens, the more uncomfortable two people get along, and the more uncomfortable, the worse the relationship.

No matter what time it is, we each have our own lives, have our things to do, there is not so much time and energy to do which has an impact on us, wasting our time.

We don't have the energy and time to speculate, imagine, to guess, and the more we do, the more painful and difficult such a relationship will be, the more difficult and tiring it will be.

But if in a relationship, the two people can have something to say to each other, to be able to have something to say, you will find that you will be very comfortable, you will be very relaxed.

This kind of relationship we are also willing to maintain this, and we are also willing to care, after all, in such a relationship, we are very comfortable.

Adults get along with each other, just don't be too tired

Adults, who are not stupid, who are not stupid, the reason why many people look silly, look stupid but are not willing to count on you, not willing to use their mind of a person who cares.

But if it is because the other person cares, because the other person's attention, and let us go to the bullying time, let us feel that he is a silly and good bully, then they will not continue to play the silly side, but began to count with you

So the world of adults, in fact, simple and direct is the best way, that is, what is what, say something straight, never beat around the bush, and do not think they are smarter than others.

Those who make you think you are smart are just more willing to care about feelings in front of you, so we have to be clear about our position and clear about our position.

Do not take others as fools, and do not feel how smart you are, in the world of adults, the more you think others are stupid, the more you think others are good bullies, then maybe, in the end, you are the one who is hurt and shocked.

So, no matter who you get along with, make it simple and clear, make it comfortable and comfortable, after all, in the world of adults, we all understand, there is no need to be ambiguous, and there is no need to beat around the bush.