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The following age group of children, parents can not be angry again hands

Otherwise, the child will have a psychological shadow

By Holy horsePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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The following age group of children, parents can not be angry again hands
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As the old saying goes, "Filial sons come out from under the stick. But the reality tells us that under the stick is not the same as a filial son, or perhaps a "wolf" who beats his parents. Education should be moderate, when the child is angry, you can play. But be sure to look at the age of the child, if the following three ages beat the child, not only can not play the effect of education but also let the child produce psychological shadows.

3-year-old children can not play

As far as parents are concerned, 2 and 3-year-old children are too much for dogs. From the previous little cute, a minute into a "little devil". On the one hand, they depend on their parents, and on the other hand, they do not want their parents to control them. The contradictory individual, so their parents are very crazy, really want to beat him up, let him quiet down. The idea, thinking, and unconsciously acting. This fight does not matter, but it is easy to fight out of the matter.

3 years old, is an important period of the child's psychological development. At this stage, the child said he knows a little something, said he does not know, but also very does not know. Because of this stage of the child's psychological immaturity, lack of sense of rules. Parental scolding will make them confused because they do not know what is wrong and how to correct it. In the long run, it will make the child timid and timid, and afraid of things. The psychological shadow of unreasonable parents who scold them at will arises.

The right approach for parents. 3-year-olds are unreasonable, mainly because they want to see their parents' reactions. They are already smart enough to make judgments based on their parents' reactions. So the best way for parents to handle the situation is to chill out and watch him perform quietly by himself. When he feels that it is not interesting, it will be appropriate to stop. In time, he will not behave in this way when he feels that his nonsense does not work and does not attract the attention of his parents.

Children 6 years old should not be hit

Children over the age of 6 should not be hit either, because, at this stage, children already have self-esteem. Criticism and scolding will damage his self-esteem, and subsequently become weak and inferior. Especially after entering elementary school, the child begins to care about what others think of him or her. This mentality makes him afraid to socialize and communicate with others, which affects the child's normal friendships.

The right approach for parents is that 6-year-olds already know how to reason, and they can understand what their parents say. So at this stage, the reasoning is the main focus. The right thing to do is to let the child calm down after he or she makes a mistake. After the emotions are stabilized, parents can then lay out the facts and reason. This effect will be more effective than directly scolding the child, so it is worth learning.

Adolescent children should not be beaten

Adolescence is synonymous with rebellion. Children at this stage are the most rebellious and want to confront their parents. Because this stage of the child, is self-righteous maturity. Although still very childish, but always want to rebel to prove that has grown up. This stage of the child, but also can not be beaten. They eat soft but not hard, the more parents bark, the more rebellious the child.

Parents' correct approach. Adjust your mindset, treat your children as adults, and respect and accept their ideas. When the child is recognized, it is not so a big temper.

In the above 3 age groups, parents should not hit their children even if they are angry. In fact, not only at this stage, the education process is not suitable for hands. Because a good education is never silent, no need to make a big fuss.

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Holy horse

There is no one who does not know the name America, the country that is on the Internet in movies and television as if it were made up by God out of thin air.

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