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By Ahmad shahabout a year ago in Families
The Last Cup of Tea
The house hadn’t changed. The cracked veranda tiles still sighed under his feet, just as they did when he used to chase after the neighborhood kids. The faded wind chime still hung by the front door, though it no longer sang. Dust lay gently on the windows, as if time itself had exhaled and settled in. Aariz turned the key in the rusted lock. The door opened slowly, creaking like an old memory resurfacing. It had been four months since his mother passed away. He hadn’t come back since the funeral. Couldn’t. Everything in this home reeked of her – her scent, her scolding, her soft humming in the kitchen when she made her famous cardamom chai. Coming back felt like walking into a memory he wasn’t ready to relive. But the lawyer had called. The property needed to be emptied. Sold. It was time. He stepped inside, half expecting to hear her call out his name the way she always did: “Aariz beta, chai thandi ho jayegi!” But the only voice that greeted him was silence — heavy, solemn, and absolute. The living room was untouched. Her shawl still hung on the back of the armchair. Her reading glasses were resting on the open pages of a half-finished Urdu novel. A pair of her slippers peeked out from under the coffee table. Aariz sat down on the couch, closed his eyes, and for a brief moment, pretended she was in the kitchen — that at any second, the whistle of the kettle would sound, and she’d come in carrying a tray of tea and biscuits, smiling through her tired eyes. But there was no kettle. No tea. Just silence. He wandered into the kitchen. The same rusted stove. The same spice rack she refused to replace. A little chalkboard still hung by the fridge, with her last written note: “Aariz will come next week. Must buy his favorite cake.” His chest tightened. He remembered the last phone call — two days before she passed. "Are you eating properly?" "Yes, Ammi." "When are you visiting again?" "Soon, just finishing up work." "Don’t wait too long, beta. Mothers don’t live forever." She had laughed when she said that. He didn’t. She died of a silent heart attack two mornings later. Alone. In this house. With no one to hold her hand. He had arrived too late. The tears came uninvited, hot and bitter, as Aariz stood by the stove and imagined her standing there in her worn-out apron, stirring tea, tasting it with her pinky, then insisting it needed "just one more elaichi." He wiped his face and opened the cabinet. There, neatly arranged, were the teacups they always used. One of them had a tiny chip on the rim — his favorite. He pulled it out, along with her special tea tin. He made the tea slowly, deliberately. He boiled the milk, added sugar the way she did — not too much, just enough. Crushed the cardamom pods the way she taught him. Let it steep just a little longer for the stronger flavor. He poured it into both cups — hers and his. Then he sat across from her empty chair. For a while, he didn’t speak. He just sat there, the cup warming his hands, the steam rising slowly between them like an unfinished goodbye. Then softly, almost brokenly, he whispered: "I’m sorry, Ammi." "I should have come back sooner." "I thought there would be more time." The chair didn’t respond. But the house listened. And somehow, he felt she heard him. When he left later that evening, he didn’t take much — just her shawl, the tea tin, and the chipped teacup. He locked the house gently, like tucking a child into bed. As he walked away, he looked back one last time. The wind chime moved — just slightly — and this time, it rang. Epilogue: Grief doesn’t ask for permission. It arrives when you’re unready, and stays longer than you want. It isn’t loud or dramatic. Sometimes, grief is just a cold cup of tea on the table — untouched, but filled with memories.
By Ikram Ullahabout a year ago in Families
Saudi Arabia Sees Surge in Early Divorces: Sociologists Reveal the Hidden Causes
Saudi Arabia, a country where traditional family values are held in high regard, is facing an unexpected and rising social challenge — the increasing rate of early divorces, often just weeks or months after lavish wedding celebrations. Despite promises of love and commitment, many couples in the Kingdom are separating before even completing their first year together. According to the 2025 report issued by the Saudi Ministry of Justice and the General Authority for Statistics, an average of 157 divorce cases are registered daily across the country. That’s roughly one divorce every 9 minutes. More alarmingly, divorces now account for 12.6% of all marriages in Saudi Arabia, a trend that experts say is both socially and psychologically concerning. Al-Baha Tops the Divorce Charts The report further reveals that the Al-Baha region, located in the southwestern part of Saudi Arabia, recorded the highest divorce rate in the country — with 36% of marriages ending in separation. Following closely are Riyadh with 21.7% and Hail with 19.2%. One particularly eye-opening statistic is that 65% of all divorces occurred within the first year of marriage. This finding strongly suggests that many couples lack compatibility from the start, or are unprepared for the realities of married life. Real-Life Cases: Love Turned Cold Take, for instance, the cases of Fahad Al-Otaibi and Reem Al-Qahtani, whose marriages lasted less than six weeks. Both unions ended over misunderstandings, lack of shared responsibilities, and poor communication. In another case, Ahmed Al-Raythi’s honeymoon became a turning point, not for joy, but for separation. His wife expected a luxurious and highly curated lifestyle, while Ahmed desired a simpler, more grounded life. Their differences, which seemed manageable during courtship, became insurmountable after marriage. These are not isolated stories — they reflect a growing number of couples who enter marriage with unrealistic expectations, often shaped by social media, peer pressure, and idealized romantic fantasies. Sociologist Insights: The Root Causes Prominent Saudi sociologist Dr. Ahmed Al-Najjar has weighed in on the alarming trend. He attributes the rise in divorces to a combination of social, economic, and psychological factors: 1. Excessive Wedding Expenses: Lavish weddings often leave couples (or their families) in significant debt. Once the celebrations are over, financial strain takes a toll on the relationship. 2. Immature Decision-Making: Many young couples rush into marriage without understanding the long-term responsibilities that come with it. Dr. Al-Najjar warns that emotional impulsivity is replacing thoughtful compatibility assessments. 3. Superficial Relationships: Pre-marital interactions, often limited or virtual, don’t provide a deep understanding of the partner’s personality, values, or expectations. 4. Over-involvement of Families: In many cases, extended family interference exacerbates even minor disagreements, especially in traditional households where parents may try to control the marriage. 5. Unrealistic Expectations: A marriage is more than just a celebration. It demands emotional intelligence, communication skills, and mutual respect — qualities that Dr. Al-Najjar says are often underdeveloped. > “Marriage is not just an event; it’s a lifetime partnership,” says Dr. Al-Najjar. “Without conscious effort, patience, and maturity, even the grandest wedding won’t survive the realities of everyday life.” Culture Shift: From Romance to Reality While arranged marriages still exist in Saudi Arabia, there has been a growing trend toward love marriages and self-selected partners, particularly in urban centers like Riyadh and Jeddah. However, this shift has not necessarily decreased divorce rates. In fact, romantic relationships formed without deep understanding may inflate emotional expectations, which later clash with the practical demands of cohabitation. Another emerging challenge is the influence of social media culture. Instagram-perfect weddings, filtered photos of couple goals, and viral videos promoting luxury lifestyles have created false ideals. When real life fails to live up to those illusions, disappointment sets in fast. Legal Developments and Women's Rights Interestingly, Saudi Arabia has also made strides in women’s legal empowerment in recent years, including reforms that now allow women to be notified via SMS when they are officially divorced. This transparency has encouraged many women to stand up for their rights, but it has also contributed to a spike in mutual or initiated divorces by women, particularly when the marriage lacks respect or compatibility. The Ministry of Justice reported over 350,000 divorce cases in one year alone, indicating that the issue is national in scale, not just regional. What Can Be Done? Experts suggest several long-term strategies to address this growing crisis: Pre-marital counseling programs to educate couples on marital roles and expectations. Promoting simpler wedding ceremonies to reduce financial pressure. Encouraging family boundaries, ensuring that newlyweds have space to build their own dynamic. Public awareness campaigns on mental and emotional maturity in marriage. Legal initiatives to streamline conflict resolution and post-divorce counseling for both men and women. Final Thoughts The rising divorce rate in Saudi Arabia, particularly among young couples and newlyweds, is a wake-up call for both individuals and society. It highlights the urgent need for a cultural shift in how marriage is viewed — not as a social milestone or display of wealth, but as a meaningful, lifelong commitment. As sociologists, religious leaders, and policymakers debate the root causes, one truth remains clear: a wedding can last one night, but a marriage demands a lifetime of patience, understanding, and effort.
By Ikram Ullahabout a year ago in Families
Your Complete Pregnancy Roadmap: . AI-Generated.
Pregnancy is a remarkable journey filled with physical, emotional, and developmental changes. Whether you're a first-time mom or experienced in motherhood, understanding what happens each week can help you feel more prepared and confident. This comprehensive guide walks you through pregnancy week by week, covering fetal development, maternal changes, symptoms, and essential tips for a healthy pregnancy.
By let's motivate yourselfabout a year ago in Families
Two Years, Two Babies and a Lifetime of Lessons
Our second wedding anniversary is right around the corner and we’ve just welcomed baby number two. In only two short years we’ve gone from newly-weds to parents of a one-year-old and a newborn and that dramatic shift has been a crash-course in both marriage and motherhood. The learning curve is steep but as long as I keep a teachable heart, the lessons keep coming.
By Kenya Shania about a year ago in Families
When You Don't Feel Like Eating: What To Do During Early Pregnancy Nausea
"Doctor, if I eat anything, I feel like throwing up. But if I don’t eat, I feel dizzy!" This is one of the most common complaints I hear from my patients — especially in the first trimester of pregnancy. Just last week, Fatima came to my clinic. She was expecting her first baby. Her face showed signs of fatigue, but her eyes sparkled with happiness — and worry.
By Muhib Ullah about a year ago in Families
