Praise the child's 12 scientific methods. When used correctly, the child becomes more and more confident.

Excellent children are all praises.

Only when parents learn to praise their children correctly, can their children move in a better direction and make continuous progress.

Mark Twain, an American humorist, once said:

A sincere compliment can keep me alive for two months.

No matter who it is, he likes to be praised rather than criticized.

It is always pleasant to be praised, but it is hard to be discouraged by criticism.

For children, a word of praise can not only make them more confident, but also enhance their courage and strength to face setbacks and tribulations.

However, not all praise will have a positive effect.

Those general words such as "you are so smart", "you are so good" and "you are so good" tend to make children arrogant.

Because its subtext is that you are so talented that you don't have to work hard to do it.

This makes it easy for children to form a fixed mind and give up their efforts, or directly assume that they are not good enough when they encounter setbacks.

This kind of thinking is very disadvantageous to the growth of children.

Real praise should enable children to form a growth-oriented thinking.

It enables children to attribute all success and failure to spiritual forces such as effort, choice and persistence, rather than to the level of intelligence and talent.

Only in this way can children be "not conceited in victory and not discouraged in defeat".

In the face of success, do not be complacent, arrogant, know how to continue to work hard and keep fighting

In the face of failures and difficulties, we can stand up head on without giving up or abandoning them.

As parents, they must learn to praise their children correctly.

Here are 12 ways to praise, the more you praise, the better the child will be.

Boast of a child's efforts

A child was at the top of the exam and showed his mother his report card.

One kind of mother likes to say:

"the baby is so good, so good, so good in the exam!"

The other kind of mother would say:

"I did well in the exam. It's all my baby's hard work at ordinary times. Keep going!"

The first kind of praise from the mother will often make the child feel that he has done a good job, so he will stop to maintain the achievements he has already made, rather than making further efforts.

The second way of praise from the mother, on the contrary, not only affirms the child's current achievements, but also allows the child to continue to work hard to achieve better results.

In contrast, mothers who praise their children for their efforts are more effective.

Boast of a child's perseverance

When your child is faced with an esoteric chess game, one challenge after another leads to failure

When your child wants to try rock climbing, he climbs again and again but falls again and again.

At this time, your sentence "come on, you can do it" will often bring a lot of pressure to the children, causing them to give up helplessly.

On the contrary, when you replace "you can do it" with "good performance, persistence is victory, keep working hard", your child will be more patient, persevering, and have a higher success rate.

Boast of the details of a child

It is said that details determine success or failure, for parents, in daily life, must learn to praise the details of their children.

When he makes some progress, praising him by holding on to a specific detail can not only make the child feel your attention to him, but also let the child pay attention to the details.

For example, if your child has made progress in swimming, you can praise him:

"Baby, you've made a lot of progress. You see, you feel more standard in this posture, and you have a good grasp of the frequency of breathing."

Boast of a child's creativity

Lenin said: "fantasy is an extremely valuable quality."

For children, they have a rich imagination and always have all kinds of fantasies.

It is this kind of imagination and fantasy that makes children more creative, thinking and passionate about life and the world.

As parents, we should not crack down on our children, but should learn to encourage them to do whatever they want.

Brag about their creativity, and children will be better.

Boast of a child's attitude

As the saying goes, attitude is everything.

Whether at work, or in study, or in life, a positive attitude tends to make people work more seriously and have a greater chance of success.

As parents, they must know how to praise their children.

For example, when a child finishes his homework today and begins to preview tomorrow's homework on his own initiative, you should affirm his active and serious attitude towards learning.

Boast of children's spirit of cooperation

Man is a social animal, and no one can become an island.

A person who knows how to work as a team tends to be better in the future.

As parents, they must know how to guide and encourage their children's communication skills, unity and cooperation.

When a child achieves certain achievements with the cooperation of a group, parents should remember to praise him and tell him:

"you guys have cooperated very well. In the future, you should unite and cooperate with your classmates and continue to cheer."

Boast of a child's leadership

Why praise your child's leadership?

Because this can not only increase the child's self-confidence, but also cultivate the child's sense of responsibility.

As a parent, one thing that your child is responsible for is successfully accomplished with the cooperation of other students.

At this time, in addition to praising their cooperative spirit, we must also remember to praise their children's leadership skills.

Boast of a child's courage

Courage is a very important quality, which not only represents the enterprising spirit, but also enables people to face setbacks better.

For parents, they must praise their children's courage.

When a child learns to ride a bike, remember to praise his bravery

When a child learns to swim without swimming rings, remember to praise his bravery.

Only in the process of continuous accumulation can children become more and more confident and more adventurous.

In the face of setbacks and difficulties, we will have our own courage and capital.

Boast of the child's carefulness

When you are ready to go out and take your child to the park, he takes an umbrella on his own initiative.

When you got sick and caught a cold today, the child volunteered to buy you medicine.

As a parent, you must praise your child for his carefulness.

Careful children, only thoughtful, this is a very valuable quality, especially for boys.

Boast of a child's credit

Lu Xun said that honesty is the foundation of being a human being.

Xiao Xincheng is Da Xinli. As a parent, he must cultivate his child's good personal credit. Only in this way can he become honest and reliable in the future.

When your child wants to make an appointment with you, remember to tell him:

"I'm sure you can do it, because you always mean what you say."

Boast of the child's modesty

The great man Mao Zedong once said:

"Pride makes one lag behind, and modesty makes one progress."

A person should learn to learn from others with an open mind.

Only in this way can we absorb the good advantages and experience of others and let ourselves grow up.

In addition, an open-minded person will be more calm in the face of failure.

As parents, when our children do well, we should teach them to be open-minded and then continue to work hard.

When the child does not do well, we should let the child be open-minded, learn to sum up experiences and lessons, and ask others for advice.

When a child achieves his modesty, remember to boast of his modesty.

Boast of a child's choice

Choice is very important, whether it is study or life, or making friends.

How to make a choice is a very critical thing.

When the child makes the right choice, we remember to boast about the child.

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