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Pattern mothers, will force their children to develop the following habits, grow up not only to have a career so simple

The habit of self-discipline

By Duchat NiaPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Pattern mothers, will force their children to develop the following habits, grow up not only to have a career so simple
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Habits stay with people throughout their lives and affect them for the rest of their lives. Therefore, the family has children, helps children to develop good habits, and can benefit them for life. But if there are some bad habits, that also can plague the child's life, the child's life is only a great success, but also inner suffering. Therefore, the pattern of the mother will force the child to develop the following habits, then the child grows up and can be more than just a simple to have success.

The habit of self-discipline

It is said that self-discipline is the strongest, once a person has the habit of self-discipline to overcome some of the weaknesses and inertia of the self. Children, if they develop the habit of self-discipline from a young age, will not only go to bed early and wake up early but will also take the initiative to complete their homework and help adults to do some of the chores they can. And, after growing up, because of self-discipline, whether it is in life or work, can be handled in a well organized.

So, a mother with a pattern will force her children to develop the habit of self-discipline. The main thing is that the mother leads by example and accompanies her children to discipline themselves. For example, if you want your child to develop the habit of going to bed early and waking up early, you can't stay up late at night to catch up on TV and play games, and you can't indulge yourself in sleeping in the morning, but you can set an alarm clock and discipline yourself with your child.

For example, if you want your child to come home from school and do his or her homework on his or her initiative and be more efficient, then the mother should not be lazy and should not come home unkempt or lounge on the sofa playing with her cell phone. Instead, they should study with their children and take care of the work at hand, the books they want to read, and the unfinished chores first.

The habit of reading

Today, it's an era of reading for all, and both teachers and parents are paying attention to cultivating the reading habit in their children. And mothers who have a pattern pay more attention to this. After all, read a million books and travel a million miles. Children can learn a lot by reading, not only to expand their knowledge but also to make them think more. The actual reading habit is a long-lasting benefit, and the cumulative reading is good for the child's learning and also for the child's "belly with a poetic book".

Therefore, in the pattern of the mother, you can buy more books for children, but also do not have to be "too utilitarian", non-buy, and children learning-related. The fact is that you can buy some picture books, story books, and novels, of course, as long as they are suitable for the child's age. You don't have to spot-check to see what your child has learned but rather put a few books everywhere in the house, such as in the kitchen, sofa, toilet, and bedroom. The main thing is to develop your child's reading habit, as to how much your child can gain, you will see later.

The habit of independence

Nowadays, many parents are very spoiled children, not to say that "clothes to hand and food to mouth", but also is a big package, the child can do things also. The consequence of this is stifling the child's independence, in their own "giant baby", the future child "gnawing" also blames others. Therefore, the pattern of the mother early to see through this point, from the beginning to focus on training children's independence.

For example, when you are young, train your child to do things on their own, and when you are older, let your child learn to shop on their own and learn to make up their mind about everything. In this way, the child will play their own ability to figure out how to solve things, rather than retreating from things and only relying on their parents. This way, the child will grow up to have more initiative, but also more able to take charge of their own, grow up naturally is not just a simple to have success.

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