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On behalf of my son

by Janine S White 5 months ago in children


Hospital trip

My son is now ten years old. He has written this and asked me to share it with the world. He is an amazing, brave child who wants to share knowledge, experiences and feelings in the hopes that they might help others. The following words are his.

"I was born with hypermobility and still have it but not struggling as much with it. When I was in year 3 I struggled so much with it. It was the worst time. I struggled in school because I was in hospital a lot and I didn't get work sent home but most of the time mum helped me with it and taught me with school.

I had so many blood tests I lost count. They used up the blood in my arms so took it from my hands and my feet. I was crying with pain for most of it and was very scared.

Mum had to talk to the doctor because I nearly had to stay at the hospital over Christmas so she had to tell the doctor to let me go home for Christmas time but it was a struggle but they let me out eventually if I went back on Christmas day. Christmas day I hurt but I shuffled on my bum and on boxing day I was in pain so much mum took me back to the hospital it was so depressing.

I got swollen all over the body like my arm, leg, head, foot and thighs it was weird to look at it. I got so sad that mum couldn’t leave my sight. My mum and her ex wife stayed at the hospital. each day they swapped and they stayed in the bed room with me. I went to a Liverpool hospital and Wigan hospital they kept swapping me around because noone knew what was wrong with me. Just before new year they told me I had HSP and in the uk there is only 5% of people with it.

I felt unhappy because I couldn’t see my friends and it made me so sad I was never happy. I was crying in every blood test and they had to get a lot of doctors. I hated it so much I just got so unhappy. I also got a lot of rashes the colours were red and blue and purple.

rash and swollen knees

Everything kept coming back though and this year they told me I have hypermobility. I thought it was good I could bend so much but its in my blood too so my body does weird things. It is better now I know what it is. I dont get scared and mum helps me tell people when it hurts and my teachers help me. I hope it goes away but the doctor said it might not and I might always get poorly."

Swollen ribs

It was not until my son was nine years old that he found out he was hypermobile. At first we could not understand how being bendy could cause so much pain but with lots of research and asking questions we have managed to work around it. The cold, damp and bending too much affects him. Even throwing a ball can lead to him spraining his wrist. He is one of the bravest people I know and I am so proud of him for writing this to share his story and hopefully find some solace in getting his feelings out.

Janine S White
Janine S White
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Janine S White

Janine thrives on bringing into awareness the inequalities and misconceptions of society. Janine hopes of a more tolerant and understanding future for the world. Giving a voice to those less privileged, ignored and forgotten about.

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