If you are becoming more and more reticent and reticent to speak, there are usually four reasons

Some people say that the world is a theater, we are all actors in the theater, their life is always full of a variety of roles, one of the most important role is: yourself.

In fact, sooner or later one day, you will understand: in fact, life, in addition to life and death, the rest are just scratches!

If you are becoming more and more reticent and reticent to speak, there are usually four reasons

First, the heart is broken, choose silence

Some people say that all the hiding, but is a kind of self-protection.

I think so.

A person "honor is not surprised" behind, perhaps full, are scars.

The woman just married those years, the man long struggle outside, the family depends on her a person to manage.

Later, the man's business in the outside has improved, life is finally happy, but the man is not even willing to go back home.

The most chilling thing for women is that they are sick and need an operation. Before the operation, the man just hurried to the hospital to sign a letter, and then disappeared.

After the operation in the hospital for more than half a month, are the daughter accompany in the side, the man did not appear once, even did not call a.

After that, she became silent and didn't care about anything about men.

"There is no hiding the loss of silence."

The deepest hurt in the world often comes from the closest people, their knife will be a little deeper than others, because they know you better.

It takes many years to warm a heart, but only a moment to cool a heart.

Again thick feeling, again hot heart, once light cold, also don't want to say anything.

Second, no longer trust, heart dare not say to anyone

Factitious what grows up more silent, do not like to talk with person more and more?

Someone replied:

"Because the more I grow up, the more I understand that some people have nothing to say, and some people do not know who to say."

Indeed, too many experiences tell us that behind the facade lies a danger that no one can afford.

When they complain to others, others just tell some truth to comfort you, maybe behind the back, will take your pain as a conversation to laugh at you.

Between people, it takes years to build trust and moments to lose it.

Behind every silence, in fact, is a slowly getting cold heart.

Some people say, the heart is unpredictable, the world is unpredictable, there are not many people in this world, really want others to live better than their own.

Indeed, when you experience more, you will understand that sometimes confiding will not necessarily get others' relief and sympathy, and even the other side may also schadenfreude.

Therefore, learning to suffer in silence is the rational way.

Third, life pressure is too great, accustomed to bear silently

Silence is a person's loudest cry.

When a person live very tired, will be silent.

Because no matter what you say, no one will understand, it is better not to say.

Once, work time, cheerfully rushed home;

Later, after work still sit in the office for a little while, tidy up the messy mood; When we get to the front door, we breathe in the car.

Yes, the relatives around you will care about you, but will not understand you;

Colleagues are just temporary partners, in the mind, everyone looks down on each other;

Love once boon conjugation love, later more is blame blame.

"In the deepest suffering, there is no moaning, no crying, silence is the last dignity of the desperate."

The reason why people are silent, is wiped off the edges and corners by life, is a compromise to the world.

Fourth, see through life, understand more said useless

I have read such a sentence:

"If one day, you become more and more silent, it means that you see a lot of things, see a lot of people, you become more and more mature."

Yes, a person becomes silent, have nothing to say, more because through the world, the fickleness of the world.

In this world, no one cares about how you cry in the middle of the night, no one cares about you toss and turn to endure a few autumn.

When you understand this truth, you won't go around talking about it for comfort.

"When I am silent, I feel full, and when I speak, I feel empty."

A person used to the wind and waves of life, the ebb and flow, do not want to talk too much, and do not like people who talk too much.

Life is short, you are more and more silent, but is to understand that a lot of things are not as important as their imagination.

So, you like the quiet, just want to be in the fate of the trajectory, let nature take its course, worthy of their own.