Happy life, less care, more forgiveness

In life, everyone has something they care about, big or small, people or things, or some things. Memory is everyone's innate instinct. The good will be remembered, and the bad will be remembered. Therefore, many people feel unhappy because they remember too many things, and those who feel happy do not have memory, but selective memory.

In fact, memory itself is a gift to people. Broad-minded people use it to record the beauty of life and comfort themselves; Narrow minded people are used to resent and punish themselves.

People live this life, who can not encounter grievances, and who can not experience difficulties; How can life be without regrets, how can life be without fault. If you wrap all the things in your heart, then life will be heavy and decadent. Limited life, no one is easy, why bother to embarrass yourself like that? Rather than tangle those complicated and trivial things in your heart, you'd better look down on them.

The true meaning of life lies in forgiveness and forgetting. Forgive those people and things that have hurt us. I believe no one intends to hurt, but it's hard to say bitterness and helplessness. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself; Forget those things that are not worth remembering. The garbage of life still needs to be cleaned up in time. There is no need to cling to the garbage of emotion and mood. If the heart is clear, life is warm everywhere.

The most taboo thing in life is to care too much about everything. Even if you care about sacrificing your life and death for it, what can you do?

On the stage of life, who has no gain or loss, success or failure? If you care too much, you will only lose your way and be more frustrated. Life is only a hundred years in a hurry. When you think of the time flowing in a hurry, one day it will push your life to the end. If you don't look back, you will still feel that the future is long and let you learn to forget and be relieved?

The most important thing is that life can't stand waiting. Why not let those troubles and sorrows that have lingered in the heart for a long time float away and disperse with the tranquil white clouds in the sky, and finally disappear under the boundless blue sky, with a piece of blue and clarity in the heart.

In this world, there is no river or ditch that can't be crossed. Many times, whether you can think and put it down depends on whether you can think. This journey of life is always intertwined with wind, frost, rain and snow, mixed with mud and bumps. Don't be complacent in the face of prosperity, and don't complain in the face of adversity. The train of life is always complete when it passes through the thorns and swamps.

Whether it's good or bad, it's going to pass. If you force yourself to be trapped in memories, you will only make yourself suffer. Life is like a white horse passing through a gap. Why do you set yourself as if you were hurt? Learn to be relieved, try to put it down, and live up to time with a free and easy heart. No matter what tomorrow will be, as long as you have good expectations, the sun will rise and the sun is still warm.

Life is like a cup of tea. Only after removing impurities can we get its essence, and only after washing the dust can we see its purity; Only when you are willing can you know its sweetness, and only when you put it down can you smell its fragrance. Let go of the dust in your heart and let it be like a balloon rising from the sky. Only when you let go can you know its freedom; Only when you put it down can you feel unrestrained.

Instead of feeling guilty, try your best to remedy it; Instead of complaining about anger, it's better to introspect and forgive. Even if the past is irreparable, at least we can do better in the future. Less care, more forgiveness; One less point of care, one more point of understanding. Proper forgetting is not only the improvement of quality, the reconciliation of mentality, but also the precipitation of life. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself, and to be kind to all your family and friends who love you and care about you.

If you don't care, you won't be disappointed. With a peaceful heart, facing this life and the world, I believe that I will be calm and comfortable, and I will go out of my own wonderful.