Good character, worthy of deep friendship

The circle of friends is like a stage to show oneself, some people are keen to make it colorful, no matter what happens in life, what ideas, will be released in the circle of friends.

Some people look at it with a light heart, occasionally sharing their own feelings and life.

Others use the circle of friends to create a "persona" and expect it to help them gain benefits.

All of this is not wrong.

In modern society, the feelings between people, sometimes fragile, may be because you express an opinion, or a troll, will inadvertently offend people, so that others are alienated from you, and no longer cross.

Although from the circle of friends to see people, not exactly accurate, but also from a glimpse of a person's character one or two to;.

Generally speaking, people who like to send friends like this, often have good character, worthy of deep friendship.

When expressing views, humble and objective, leaving room for

a quality person, will be open-minded, know how to listen to the advice of others.

Even if he does not agree with the views of others, will not be heated words, or with malicious mockery of the attack on others, so that others can not face, conflicts and conflicts.

These people usually love to learn new knowledge and see things from multiple perspectives; they do not consider themselves wise and wise, see things through and completely ignore the claims of others.

There is a saying that all that is gained is a fluke and all that is lost is life.

Warren Buffett once introduced a concept called "ovarian welfare", which means that the reason why you have a superior condition than others is that you were born lucky.

The ability to look at everything that happens around him with humility and to make comments with room for mankind's compassion.

He knows that what he has seen is little, everyone has their own hardships and struggles, so they do not sharply refute the ideas of others, but discuss with others objectively and calmly, and then otherwise they are also cold and do not dwell on it too much.

Do not show off and flaunt, consider the feelings of others

Although it is said to send a circle of friends, is a record of personal life, belongs to personal freedom, but the content is sent to many people to see, then we must give due consideration to the feelings of others;.

There was an online story about a mother who posted the news of her child's admission to a prestigious school to a group of classmates, and made the admission notice public, resulting in her being kicked out of the group by the class president.

Perhaps the mother would feel baffled, and some people think that it was those of the mother's classmates who, out of jealousy, could not stand the sharing of each other.

But in fact, there is a difference between sharing and showing off; sharing is usually something that others can also get at low cost, while showing off is often out of reach

that we are all ordinary people and those who can excel are, after all, the minority, and that one cannot deny the value of the other person just because he or she is not the best.

Therefore, it is understandable to feel happy inside when you or a family member has achieved success, but it is best to just tell a few friends and family members.

remember, do not use your happiness and satisfaction to reflect the failure and downfall of others.

The quality of people, will be concerned about the helplessness and despair that others may feel, will not have a good thing to send to the circle of friends to show off a lot of publicity.

Not deliberately complimenting leaders or rich people, interaction with a sense of proportion

Some people have summarized: why your circle of friends rarely people like?

In fact, the reason is that you are not able to provide the "value" that the other party wants.

If a leader sends out a circle of friends, there will be many people who tend to follow the trend, taking the initiative to comment, afraid of missing the opportunity to flatter and please the leader.

And a person of good character, will not take the relationship between people and people, look very utilitarian, so much so that even a like, a comment, are to weigh the benefits, weigh the importance of the lesser.

They will look at the exchange of favors as natural, without the entanglement of interests.

To treat the leaders or rich people sent to the circle of friends, will not be extremely flattering and catering, but to maintain a sense of proportion in the interaction.

Because they do not want to fox the tiger, borrow the power of others, to create a high persona for themselves, and do not expect to get any benefits from the interaction with each other.

Therefore, you will find that even if they give some prestigious, wealthy people message, but also with respect, and just the right sense of boundaries, rather than deliberately pursuing.

It can be said: the circle of friends is a person's social business card, written on it, a lot of content is given by outsiders.

The circle of friends can not fully reveal a person's true face, but through it, you can see a person's breadth of mind, education, temperament and emotional intelligence.