Quiet without arguing, is a rare great wisdom!

No one can predict how long a lifetime will be.

For decades, we can only resign ourselves to our destiny and keep walking. No one can tailor it for us, we can only go with the flow.

It has to be said that after a person reaches a certain age, their mentality will change with age.

From the young and ignorant childhood, the arrogant and uninhibited youth, the youth who pursues dreams, to the middle-aged who step into the threshold of no confusion, the whole person is constantly changing and cannot help himself.

Perhaps it is the living environment that affects the mentality, and gradually no longer impatient, people seem to gradually quiet down as time goes by.

It seems that many things that are happening around me have nothing to do with me, and the rhythm of life has slowed down.

In the past, a compliment from others could make me happy for a long time, gradually lost myself in the flowers and applause, lived in a virtual dream and refused to wake up.

If the words are not speculative and full of anger, the face will be red and red when arguing, and there will be no end in the struggle.

Gradually, with the passage of time, I accidentally discovered that I liked to slow down my pace, and my body and mind became much quieter. Slowly no longer pursue fame and fortune, no longer put too much enthusiasm on the cheers, and return to tranquility.

The passion fades away, and the trivialities of ordinary days, such as a word discord, get up and leave angrily, and the indignant and emotional bickering of those who wish to break up with each other becomes less and less.

Some people say, I don't fight, I don't want to fight anyone.

Yes, when people reach a certain age, they have long lost their sense of distinction and jealousy, and the days pass by their fingertips calmly, without being alarmed or disturbed.

Quiet but not chaotic, quiet but not arguing, without arguing, there will be less trouble and more gentleness. Life is short, what is worth fighting for?

Competing with fame and fortune will swell your desires; vying with your life will add more burdens; vying with your relatives will inevitably lead to alienation, and the gains will outweigh your losses; arguing with your lover will only make life more trivial and less peaceful; arguing with friends will only make your feelings more difficult. Getting weaker and more distant.

Quiet time, don't want to toss, calm down, be yourself!

Take care of your life, read books, drink tea, leave time for yourself, the rest of your life is not long, and treating yourself well is the most important thing.

If you want to be a big tree, don't fight with grass, that is the cultivation of a great wise man.

A towering tree does not grow overnight, green and green, and it is not a weak person. The four seasons are reincarnated, and the life is endless. Which life does not have to be gradual and be the original self.

Return to yourself and find the most primitive state, which is quietness, empty your desires, purify your heart first, wait for your soul, and don't lose yourself.

No one can estimate how long the rest of your life will be. It is not bad to live in the moment and look at the loss and gain of life indifferently.

In this hurried time tunnel, you are a traveler, and I am a passer-by. Please cherish it when you meet it. For the rest of your life, how long can we walk together side by side, who knows?

Sometimes, intervening in one thing is likely to intervene in a trouble.

You put a lot of effort and thought into this matter, but not only did you not appreciate it, but you might even be looked down upon. What you are distressed about is not that you are overwhelmed, but that you could have stayed out of all this.

In fact, you don't have to use the results to torture your motives, and you don't have to look back on your original decision with the loss, which will only make you miserable. You are a person who does things, just do it. In this world, only those who do things hope that others can understand themselves. People who mess things up just need to understand others. The former is always exhausted, and the latter is always observing words and expressions. Because the former is thinking about things, the latter is thinking about people.​​

So, what you want to understand will only come from another person who does things; what you want to resonate with will only come from those who have resonated with him before. In a word, those who understand you will understand, and those who don't don't need to ask. So, don't laugh at a lot of people who understand you, but linger for too long with a few people who don't understand you. After all, there are more people who understand you.​​

Not every effort will be rewarded. Not every time you fall in love, there will be an echo. The appropriate way is to laugh at those who don't understand you, and sink in like a bosom friend to those who understand you.​​

Don't be so unhappy. In life, you will meet good people, and you will always meet a few villains. All you have to do is turn around. As soon as he turned around, he walked away from all the "white-eyed wolves", and he had to turn his posture gorgeously and decisively in order to completely drop those negative energies. Just like you shrug your shoulders and shake off the cold snow.

People should be so dashing, and they must be so dashing. This is maturity, do what you think you have to do, and stop worrying about whether others understand you.