Why is it difficult to get the truth? how to get the truth?

The real reason and introspection are not in the majority. Most people are unhappy when they hear the stinging truth, as if other people have stirred up their privacy and disgrace. As a result, they completely follow their instincts, hate people who tell the truth, and even express their unwelcome directly on their faces. Which person who tells the truth can bear such a blow over and over again? People do not like to tell the truth is reasonable, perfunctory to each other, stay in the surface of kindness has become the norm.

In addition, if a person does not have the ability to reflect on himself, it will not have much effect if we tell the truth and ask him to improve his improper behavior. From a rational point of view, there is no need for us to speak true and unpleasant words to everyone. Now that everyone is used to the innocuous social language of daily life, how can we get the truth from others?

Especially for those in high positions, if they do not have the ability to reflect, their minds must be like blind people, unable to see clearly the truth about people and things, and many things are bent or delayed when they reach their ears. People are not willing to tell the truth to a biased leader, which will be rejected and retributed.

To get the truth, as mentioned above, when we hear the unpleasant truth, we must use reason to control those unpleasant emotions, maintain a calm attitude, and politely accept the suggestions of others, instead of showing a repulsive expression and offensive words. This is the foundation of the foundation.

As a leader, we should also encourage people to tell the truth, and more importantly, adhere to the attitude of pursuing truth, constantly eliminate prejudices and mistakes, and give way to more beneficial pursuits. Many leaders who have been serving as leaders all their lives have been unable to face up to the ugly truth from the beginning to the end. they always judge and ask others from their own small perspective.

We need to be vigilant at all times and put ourselves on the road of tolerance towards counsellors. Getting people's truth requires us to persist in tolerance and sincerity for a long time in order to open people's trust. Tang Xuanzong Li Longji was able to keep active and enterprising and listen to different opinions in the early stage, but he degenerated in the later stage. It can be seen that it is not easy to be tolerant and tolerant, because comfort is always seducing and following us.

Since people are no longer willing to tell the truth in order to protect themselves, is it necessary for us to tell the truth? It's also a question of being kind or not. Telling the truth is an act of kindness, daily trifles, or in the face of stupid villains, there is no need to tell the truth that will not have an effect, but at the right time, and in front of the right people, we must tell the truth to improve things and human mistakes.

If we encounter something in principle that concerns the happiness and interests of more people, is it necessary for us to tell the truth, even at the expense of our own interests, even if we know that the truth will not have much effect? What do you think? As a matter of fact, this is a matter of everyone's conscience. We should not numb the last bit of conscience because of China's accession to the WTO, and we should not abandon the last bit of courage just because we cater to the "correctness" of the group.