Talking and laughing is good on the whole

Therefore, it is inevitable that there is estrangement, criticism and dislike among people, and even because of disgust, we are not willing to understand each other. Of course, this is a mental activity in people's minds, and no one will directly tell each other, "I hate you."

We have to get along with all kinds of people, and we can't get rid of people we don't like. In that case, I'm afraid there aren't many people around us. As a result, when people get together, they need to tell some jokes and use a humorous tone to ease the jagged heart. Joking is like the sweetener of life. Without it, when we meet, it would be like two sharp stones colliding, and no matter how gentle the steps are, we will inevitably scratch each other. Things that can change difficulties and ease the atmosphere are actually very simple, and a joke makes everyone feel comfortable.

Although jokes can reconcile relationships with people, the ones who really joke are those who are generous and bright at heart. Stingy people never dare to tell generous jokes because they care too much about their losses. When forgiving people make big jokes, they are not afraid of the listeners taking the joke as a promise, nor are they worried about people asking for it from themselves.

On the one hand, he knows that jokes are jokes after all, and impractical jokes must eventually be based on facts, and people will understand. On the other hand, he also knows that ordinary people don't take it seriously because of a joke, and most people don't bother each other at will. On the other hand, he has no hard feelings and is more generous, and he is not worried that people will cause him trouble because of a joke. If he didn't have such a mind, he wouldn't talk big at will. In fact, even if it is a joke, it has to be kind of sincere.

Although a joke is a way of joking, some people tell lies and lies, but some people's jokes are true thoughts in their hearts, but it is shown in a humorous and relaxed way. When many people are joking, they also bring their thoughts and experience into it. Such an atmosphere will not cause discomfort to the listeners. Jokes and drinking are also somewhat similar, drunken words virtual and real people can not distinguish, the joke is also hazy, behind it is everyone's small world, still with human orientation and personality. If we are a little wise, we can hear wit and wisdom in people's jokes. If the mind is not open, no matter how many words are useless.

We should not be too narrow-minded in the face of jokes. If you can't bear a joke, how can you bear the colder blow in the world? If you conflict with others because of a joke, people will think that you are an immature, narrow-minded person, and will be more bitter and alienated from you.

On the other hand, jokes can not touch the bottom of the heart of the wound. That means no harm to us, but it is tingling to the listeners, and we remind them of heartbreaking memories. Jokes can not talk too much about the characteristics or habits of a person who is neither bad nor good or a little bit bad. It doesn't hurt to say such a joke once or twice. If you talk too much, you will be disliked and disgusted, and people will feel blasphemous. Therefore, it is necessary to change the subject occasionally to prevent people from feeling bored or offended by listening too much. In short, jokes also hide the hearts of the people, although it is good, but not casually, there are some taboos and norms.