Keep 1\/3 to love yourself

African migratory birds are usually very attentive to their hatchlings, and like all mothers in the world, they are almost always around their children throughout their infancy, for fear of being harmed by alien species. But unlike humans, African migratory birds usually ignore their children when they reach adulthood, leaving them to fend for themselves, while they themselves begin a life of "drinking and drinking". Children are still at the stage of learning to catch birds, according to common sense, they should be taken care of by their mother to help them get the ideal food to satisfy their hunger, while the old migratory birds are very selfish to carry out their cruel actions, which leads to many young birds starving to death, and the old migratory birds at this time run to the beautiful environment of the river to settle down, wander around freely every day. Let the beautiful environment cultivate their melancholy sentiment, they want to live long, want to reach the limit of migratory bird life, they do not want to let too much trouble interfere with their good life realm.

Some biologists analyze the "selfishness" of African migratory birds in this way. One reason is that these migratory birds like freedom and advocate a free and easy way of life. The second reason is that they will protect themselves, and after they enter old age, they begin to live freely, and do not let external forces interfere with them, even if it is their own children. Biologists calculated according to the data of the entire life cycle of migratory birds, and found that migratory birds only love their children for 2\ 1/3 of their lives, and the remaining 1\ 1/3 of their time is reserved for their own enjoyment.

It sounds horrible. How could there be a mother like that? But think about it, but feel very reasonable, if you put all the love pressure on the children, how can they withstand, how can they hold the wind and rain of the world, how can they cultivate the ability to fly freely?

There is a mother, very doting on her only daughter, because of divorce, she gave almost all of her love to the child, such a preference leads to the child after college, can't do anything? After the mother came home, the child cried every two or three days, did not play rice, did not stack the quilt, lamented for the teacher's criticism, more confused and sad for the students, for a long time to give, she did not learn to pay, do not understand the suffering and happiness is the opposite of the two poles of life.

More have a graceful graceful university talented woman, truly fell in love with a star temperament extraordinary boys, she will give him all her love from the beginning, everything is up to him, the property of the home to enjoy the swing, men do not have to work, girls raise boys, boys say do not like children, she will do everything possible to contraception, boys said unhappy, The girl quit the job to accompany him through the mountains and rivers, can not say not romantic, but always feel that such love is too eccentric, the numbness of the student era is only a joke, always thinking that they can live well, live well, but the faint worry is still hit by reality, the man claims divorce, the woman is not forgiving, but still agreed, she fell ill, There was nothing left, and she regretted loving herself so little.

There is an old man, the sick wife sent away, not long then with another love their own woman into the wedding hall, the world despise, said not to keep the festival, the old man's son is in favor of, he said: father with mother sick for five years, he has done his best, people have gone, and then sad and lonely again what is the use?

Taking care of yourself is the best thing to do. Many people spend a lifetime learning to love themselves.

I am very glad that there are such understanding children in the world, they understand the law of life, know that the vicissitudes of the world is just a fleeting cloud, can grasp the present happiness and future happiness is the right way.

People, always want to leave a little selfish to the individual, you do not have to give each other all love, love is too cumbersome, people can not lift their heads, you love others is a kind of mind, love yourself is a kind of courage and spirit, if you are not healthy, scarred, please try hard to fight the sky, life is their own, the last love is also their own, maybe we lack, It is the determination and freedom of African migratory birds.

Days too tired, can not cloud roll Yun shu, can not idle cloud wild crane, I am afraid we are lack of a love of their own strength and faith, don't say we mean, life gave us, was not much, we have 2 /3 life dedicated to others, leave 1 /3 love to themselves, this is also their own to their own family feast.