Good self-cultivation may only be used once in a lifetime

Cultivation and frustration

Don't make casual decisions when you are angry.

When you make a mistake, don't let shame rule you.

When eating a buffet, don't be controlled by appetite and greed.

If you want to be in awe, you must have a strong self.

People who love to think are full of respect for people, themselves and nature.

With regard to the truth of the world, we do not have enough to eat at once, but have experienced countless exercises. Even if you understand the above, it is impossible to become a skilled operator right away. Therefore, good self-cultivation is extremely rare.

For example, when for some reason, to take money or things out of their pockets and give them to others for free, many people will experience great fluctuations in their hearts. My belongings are planning to buy much-needed medicine and clothing. But out of morality, or in order to assess comprehensive interpersonal and influence, or just not to appear stingy, finally chose the latter between money and false fame. The war filled with gunpowder in my heart can be regarded as quiet, which is an extremely uncomfortable process.

Good self-cultivation is not the cultivation of superficial behavior, but the deepening of inner understanding and the willingness to implement. There are some people who are graceful and elegant, but timid and flinching at heart, afraid to reprimand their own mistakes, but shift the responsibility to others.

Only by constantly deepening the understanding of the truth can we gain the will to implement it. We do not practice good principles because we do not understand the pros and cons and lack of exercise. Correcting a small behavior requires many experiences, as well as more inner drills and thoughts. People who don't like to think always linger on a small mistake.

Good self-cultivation is not only a deep practice of a few principles, but a comprehensive awareness of all the subtle psychology of life. Isolated, fragmented knowledge, can only bring people temporary joy, but outside is a large area of confusion and confusion.

Truth or consciousness support each other, understanding only one or more is not enough to support a firm personality. At this time, when the cold blow comes, the character that has not been practiced is the first to fall, and then the character that has been practiced countless times will be implicated and defeated. In the search for knowledge, if energy and interest permit, please be prepared for a long and broad search. I believe that good self-cultivation is a comprehensive experience of human nature, or self-cultivation is a state of spread, which requires persistent and lasting attention.

As mentioned above, the cruel environment can judge whether self-cultivation is good or bad. In extreme cases, people's psychology and spirit are destroyed, and our evil and good character is also under great pressure, whether to protect ourselves and destroy others, or to take care of others, revenge or tolerance. This is a very painful situation, and reason may be completely out of control. If one wants to show elegant, moral, and decent behavior at this time, one can only rely on long-term psychological preparation, spiritual experience, and conscious thinking.

In extremely bad situations, it is easiest to identify the human heart, and the tempered mind is completely different from the chaotic mind. People with good self-cultivation are more likely to show moral and humane behavior, while people with bad self-cultivation choose to hurt others and satisfy their dark and cold temperament. And extreme situations are not for everyone. It is an extreme situation for Cheng Ying to kill his son to save other orphans and Wen Tianxiang is desperate to preserve his reputation, but it can verify whether a rebellious courtier has great loyalty and courage and whether a playboy has a true temperament.

Therefore, it is enough for good self-cultivation to undergo a great test in a lifetime. Ordinary painstaking efforts, minds that have been trained for a long time, wisdom buried in mediocrity, and backbone hidden in the chest are blown up in extreme situations. Of course, such a big test is painful enough. Who is willing to be a dog lackey with a despicable personality all his life in order to prove his loyalty and courage, and who is willing to guard his integrity and lose his life? these are all untrue things, such as flowers in the mirror and the moon in the water, why give up the pleasures of the flesh and pursue them?

When we are not psychologically strong enough, usually good people repeat evil behavior in extreme situations, precisely because we think too little in a relaxed atmosphere, there is too little practice to weigh the pros and cons, and the mood for courage is always delaying. it is natural to show a sick and disabled soul in an extreme environment.

The difficult things in the world basically rely on resolute people, do you still think that self-cultivation is an easy task? nevertheless, good self-cultivation is not impossible, he also needs our efforts and efforts. There is really no comfortable road in this world.