Conventionally Attractive: What It Means, 41 Signs & Truths About Being One

Do you think you’re conventionally attractive? If you don’t know, then consider this.

Have you ever walked into a room and felt like everyone’s eyes were on you, and not because you spilled coffee on your shirt? Maybe you’ve got that jawline sharper than a geometry set square, or perhaps it’s the kind of hair Disney characters would envy.

You might just be conventionally attractive! Or, maybe you did spill coffee…don’t worry, we’ve all been there. It’s important to remember, though, that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

However, there are certain traits and looks that large swathes of society might deem “attractive.” And, if you’re wondering, it’s not just about high cheekbones or a chiseled physique.

What Does It Mean to Be Conventionally Attractive?

Let’s delve a little deeper and get our hands dirty *hopefully not with coffee stains*. The term “conventionally attractive” often pops up in conversations, but what does it really mean, especially in the labyrinth of psychology?

In essence, it’s about fitting into a widely accepted standard or norm of beauty. This standard, mind you, can be influenced by a plethora of factors: cultural, historical, and yes, evolutionary.

Remember the whole “symmetry equals attractiveness” tidbit? That’s your brain using its prehistoric playbook, connecting symmetrical faces with good health and genetic fitness. [Read: 31 Hot secrets to be beautiful and look and feel way more attractive in no time!]

Neat, huh? But before we get too bogged down by the technicalities and start discussing the Golden Ratio and Fibonacci sequences *we promise, we’re not turning this into a math class*, let’s focus on the broader picture.

While society’s metrics for what’s deemed attractive may change *looking at you, 80’s hairstyles*, the underlying principle remains.

Conventionally attractive individuals often fit the prevailing beauty mold, which, to be honest, can be both a boon and a bane. [Read: How to feel beautiful even on your darkest, most insecure days]

The Cool Signs You’re Conventionally Attractive

The real question here now is: how do you know if you’re conventionally attractive? Sure, beauty is subjective, but there are telltale signs that hint you might be fitting into society’s current “hotness” mold.

Let’s break down some of these signs.

1. The Double-take Effect

You’re walking down the street, minding your business, when you notice someone looking at you. They look away, but then – whoops! – their eyes are back on you. [Read: Prolonged eye contact when flirting – what it means and how to do it]

It’s not your imagination, it’s the double-take effect. When you’re conventionally attractive, people often take a second *or third* look because, well, you’ve caught their eye.

2. Compliment Overload

If you’ve lost count of the number of times someone has said, “You should be a model!” or “Has anyone ever told you how good-looking you are?”, you might be onto something.

People aren’t shy about pointing out when someone fits the conventionally attractive mold. And hey, who doesn’t like a genuine compliment now and then? [Read: 32 Best ways to accept and respond to a compliment without feeling awkward]

3. Symmetry Speaks

You might not carry around a ruler to measure the evenness of your features, but your face might be revealing something. Research indicates that symmetrical faces are perceived as more attractive.

This doesn’t mean everyone’s checking if your left eyebrow matches your right, but a balanced face can unconsciously appeal to the human eye.

4. The Social Media Popularity Contest

Ever wondered why your selfies get a barrage of likes or why your follower count is suspiciously high? If your social media game is strong without even trying, it could be a sign. [Read: The toxic dangers of social media and 19 signs and ways it makes you insecure]

Being conventionally attractive might mean more attention, followers, and yes, the occasional unsolicited DM from admirers *or those pesky bots*.

5. Friend’s Endless Teasing

If your friends constantly joke about how you could “get anyone you want” or how it’s “easy for someone with your looks,” there’s a good chance they see you as conventionally attractive. After all, friends rarely let such things go unnoticed.