family
Family can be our support system. Or they can be part of the problem. All about the complicated, loving, and difficult relationship with us and the ones who love us.
Beyond Blood: The True Essence of Family
In my journey through life, I've come to understand that family is so much more than just blood relations. It's about the connections we form, the bonds we nurture, and the love we share with those who truly understand us. As a sensitive female, I've found solace and strength in the idea of chosen family – those individuals who may not be related by blood but who share our values, experiences, and deepest emotions.
Louise Blake-Michael (Risen Phoenix)Published 2 months ago in PsycheExploring the Influence of Childhood Experiences on the Psyche
Childhood experiences play a pivotal role in shaping an individual's psyche. These formative years are a crucial period for emotional, cognitive, and social development. Various psychological theories suggest that early experiences can significantly impact an individual's personality, behavior, and mental health later in life. In this article, we will delve into the intricate ways in which childhood experiences influence the psyche, drawing from both psychological research and real-life examples.
BLESSING COOLPublished 2 months ago in PsycheHe sees the faces of demons... and a wrong diagnosis almost puts him in a mental institution
A rare disease that few people in the world suffer from, caused by a severe vision disorder, which causes a person to see parts of people’s faces distorted in shape, color, or position, while the rest of the body parts remain as they are in their natural shape. It is known as “prosopometamorphopsia” or “PMO.”
How to care for oneself while grieving
How to care for oneself while grieving Grief in its entirety strikes while you least expect it. The atrocity of sadness lies in the false notion of being alone and having it all together all the time. To be or not to be in the constant state of despair is not in one’s hands, as melancholy varies in its intensity ranging from a dejected mood to deep and chronic loneliness. Oftentimes people subject their negativity to a mere passage of time, but often there is an underlying cause that needs to be addressed and healed to become in a state of awareness of their emotions and innate being. It is important to bring light to the need to embrace one’s emotions and not shame ourselves with guilt when we don't feel happy or in rhythm with our souls. Often we lose the sense of self when surrounded by grief.
Hridya SharmaPublished 3 months ago in Psyche- Content Warning
the final choice
Trigger warning, death and cancer The day after I find out my blood pressure remains too high , I find out my mum has her second bout of cancer. This time in her chest as opposed to her leg. The previous was 7 years ago so its hard to tell if this is new or if its been having a look round my mum to choose a new spot.
ASHLEY SMITHPublished 3 months ago in Psyche Healthy vs. Narcissistic Ghosting.
Ghosting is a form of stonewalling considered one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse in romantic relationships. Ghosting and stonewalling are avoidance defence strategies that break emotional bonds, lead to conflict, dysfunction, and eventual destruction of a relationship.
writemindmattersPublished 3 months ago in Psyche- Content Warning
A Life for a Life
My mother planted her voice deep inside my mind. A voice so obnoxious and strident that my autonomy collapsed into a dark corner. She taught me that love was synonymous with abusive control. She mentally imprisoned me to behave only in ways that appeased her. Her love, kindness, and care would vanish when I stepped out of line. Poof! Gone in a cloud of her cigarette smoke. For thirty years, I was chained to her every desire. Each decision I made, person I dated, or friend I had was all for her approval, her favor, her love. In her eyes, if I truly loved her, I would live my life for her. A life that she never got to live. A life that was stolen from her.
Kaneene PinedaPublished 3 months ago in Psyche - Content Warning
Addiction
Introduction Addiction has a huge impact on society in ways we are just beginning to understand, it's affecting individuals and communities in diverse ways. Traditionally it's associated with substance abuse, addiction manifests in various forms, ranging from compulsive shopping to disordered eating and problematic online pornography use (POPU). These addictive behaviors can disrupt lives, strain relationships, and undermine well-being, posing significant challenges to both individuals and the world at large.
Can You Tickle Yourself?
Ever tried tickling yourself? That feather-light touch across your ribs, the mischievous anticipation building only to be met with... a disappointing lack of giggles. This seemingly simple act, a cornerstone of childhood laughter, holds a profound mystery: why can't we effectively tickle ourselves? The answer dives deep into the fascinating world of self-touch perception, sensory prediction, and the very fabric of our conscious experience.
Dilmeta AsmelashPublished 3 months ago in PsycheUnderstanding Attachment Theory: Its Role in Relationships and Personal Development
Understanding Attachment Theory: Its Role in Relationships and Personal Development Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby and expanded upon by Mary Ainsworth, has profoundly influenced our understanding of human relationships and personal development. This theory suggests that the quality of our early attachments to primary caregivers shapes our beliefs, behaviors, and expectations in future relationships. In this article, we will delve into the role of attachment theory in relationships and personal development, exploring its implications for individuals across the lifespan.
The Divine Reset
In the vast tapestry of spiritual practices that grace our world, Yoruba spiritual cleansing stands out as a vibrant thread, weaving together elements of nature, tradition, and divine wisdom. Rooted in the rich cultural heritage of the Yoruba people of West Africa, this ancient practice offers a profound journey of renewal and connection, guiding practitioners towards inner harmony and alignment with the cosmos. In this comprehensive exploration, we delve deep into the essence of Yoruba spiritual cleansing, uncovering its rituals, purposes, and significance in the modern world.
Nauniie EubanksPublished 4 months ago in Psyche- Content Warning
Why Troubled Children Have an Increased Trauma In Society
As a former "troubled child" I learned two things normal communication even in the 90s was difficult for me. One, I learned no one listens. Two, if I have a meltdown I will be restrained. Most troubled children like myself when restrained by professionals who wouldn't listen to me traumatized me enough but being able to not move embraced with a professional gripping my hands. That was beyond traumatizing. I didn't know this was still a common practice until I overheard one of my peers who is a major in Psychology interning at some nonprofit agency that's similar to the 90s verse of Latch Key.
Louise Blake-Michael (Risen Phoenix)Published 4 months ago in Psyche