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11 Signs to Know if a Guy Is Thinking About You

No Need to Guess! 11 Signs to Know if a Guy Is Thinking About You

By Emma RandyPublished 7 months ago β€’ 6 min read

If there's a special boy in your life, chances are you think about him all the time. So it's only natural to wonder if he's thinking about you too. Luckily, you don't have to be stuck in doubt! There are many ways to tell if a guy is thinking about you, as there are signs and clues that don't deceive.

1. He sends you messages to say hello and good night

You are on his mind day and night. If a guy sends you a good morning message, you're one of the first things he thought of (he may have even dreamed of you). A goodnight message is a clear indication that he was thinking about you as he finished his day and got ready for bed. Both of these messages are clear signs that he can't stop thinking about you.

It can be something simple like "Good morning!" or something a little flirtatious like "Hey beautiful. Hello. "

Even if you haven't talked much during the day, if he sends you the message, "Hey, hope you had a good day. I'll talk to you tomorrow," it means he couldn't fall asleep until he talked to you.

2. He sends you messages all day for no reason

This means he can't get you out of his head. Although a message now and then may seem insignificant, it really means that you were on his mind and he just had to communicate with you. It could be a meme, a short message or even a link to an article or video, he wants you to know he's thinking about you.

If they send you a meme that matches your sense of humor, it means they saw it and immediately thought of you.

If they send you a link to an article, they've probably read it and want to share it with you. That's a pretty clear signal that he's thinking about you!

3. He asks you a lot of questions

This means that he wants to know more about you. If he wants to know more about you, it is likely that he has been thinking about you. He may also ask you questions or ask your opinion about something to see what you think, which is another clear sign that you are often on his mind.

If he says, "I wonder what you like to do for fun. Do you have any hobbies?", he was thinking about you and wanted to ask.

It can also be something simple. For example, "I love chicken wings and blue cheese and I wonder if you think they go well together too" means he was thinking of you and wanted to know your opinion!

4. He sends you two messages in a row

If he's thinking about you, he won't mind. Double messages, that is, sending several messages in a row, are quite rare and can make you more important. However, if a guy can't stop thinking about you, chances are he won't mind sending you several messages in a row.

If you're interested, don't leave it unanswered! Send him a message back so he doesn't feel like he's putting himself out there for nothing.

5. He likes and comments your posts on social networks

He wants you to know that he is watching you. If he likes a post (or a photo) that you have published, it is obvious that he is thinking about you because he has seen your post. If they go further and comment on the photo, they may be trying to start a conversation or clearly signal that they were impressed by it.

For example, if they comment with "I like it" or leave a bunch of flame or heart emoticons, they definitely like what they see.

If they like or reply to an older post or photo, they've thought about you enough to dig into your profile and can't help but respond.

6. He sends you messages when he is with his friends

He could easily be spending time with them instead. If you receive a message from a boy while he is with his friends, there is no doubt about it! This means that even if he is spending time with his friends, he is thinking about you.

If he says, "Hey, what are you doing?" and you know he's with his friends, try to tease him a little by not saying "Not much, aren't you supposed to be with your friends?" He might respond something like, "Yeah, but I'd rather be with you."

7. He says something reminded him of you

He can't stop thinking about you. If he texts you to say he heard a song, saw a video, read an article or did something that made him think of you, it's not by chance. It means that they have been thinking about you and needed to tell you about it.

For example, if he says, "I was watching a movie the other day and it reminded me of the time we went to the movies and I spilled my drink on the seat," it means he is thinking about you even when he is doing something else.

8. He remembers everything you say to him

He listens to you and is interested in you. It is quite easy for your friends to remember your birthday or your favorite sports team. However, if a boy knows exactly how you like your eggs cooked or what books you like to read, it means that he is trying to find out as much as possible about you and thinks about you often. He probably likes you a lot too!

For example, if you get a text from a boy wishing you good luck on a test you briefly told him about before, it means he is thinking about you.

9. He surprises you with things you like

He pays attention to you and your interests. If a guy gives you a gift that seems to fit your interests, he obviously thought of you when he saw it. He had to take it and give it to you!

For example, if you tell a boy that your favorite TV show is "Lupin" and he gives you an Omar Sy t-shirt, it's obvious that he's paying attention to you and that you're on his mind!

10. He tells you that he misses you

He really loves you and can't stop thinking about you. Think about it: it's not easy to tell someone that you miss them. If a guy says it to you, he probably means it. He's probably been thinking about you all day and needed to tell you.

If he says, "I miss you. How's your day going?" or "I miss your face," he is definitely thinking about you.

11. He talks about his future plans with you

He may be thinking about you in the long term. If he talks about a new movie he wants to see and asks if you'd be interested in seeing it, it means he thinks you'll be a part of his future life. If he has upcoming plans, such as a wedding or work party, and he mentions that he would like you to go with him, it means that every time he thinks of an event, he thinks of you!

It may seem basic or unimportant, but if he's talking about doing things with you in the weeks, months, or even years ahead, you're definitely on his mind.


  • If you are close to his friends, you can ask one of them if they talk about you to see if you are on their mind.

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