I don't know why I keep getting hung up on this
When you have so many qualities I'd hoped to find
But I wish I could have met you 18 years ago
Before any of these things that are stuck in my mind
Before so many had those memories with you
Before the things you'll never be able to unsee or undo
Before any fantasies or fetishes were established with others
Before there were so many others to compare me to
Before I was sleeping with everyone you've ever slept with
Their energies draining mine, their ghosts attacking my spirit
You put those images in my head and expected me to be fine
Because it's a non-issue for you so now you don't want to hear it
I wish I could have met you 18 years ago
So I could be fully present and just enjoy you
Before you were desensitized and had the countless encounters
Before you let that evil bitch into your life to destroy you
When we could have learned and explored with each other
Discovered and developed our own fantasies
When you could have reigned in what you were doing
And had more reasonable expectations and baselines for me
When we could have found together what we like and don't
When I could have been the first or the best at anything
When our kids could have grown up with two parents
When I wouldn't have to feel the crushing insecurity this all brings
Before it could have destroyed my sexual functioning
When it was a source of pride and not embarrassment that I didn't sleep around
I wish I'd have met you 18 years ago when I felt good about myself again
When I didn't feel like I'd never measure up and I'd always be a let down
When I didn't feel like a clumsy idiot who can't keep pace
When I didn't feel like I'd never be on your level and focus on the things I don't know how to do
When the insecurity didn't pound in my head like a steady drum
When the voices weren't ringing in my ears every time that I'm with you
When I didn't feel like a failure who can't satisfy you or fulfill all your desires
When I wasn't overwhelmed by feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt
Before fantasies were ruined for me knowing it was reality for you
Before the things that make me nauseous were the things you were bragging about
When it wouldn't have been eating me alive on a daily basis
When I wouldn't have had the knots in my stomach, anxiety, or pain in my chest
When I still thought that I had skills for days
When I would have actually believed you when you said I'm the best
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