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Why chasing dreams is important?

This article will tell you about the happiness, hardships and ways to go after your dreams and to make them your reality.

By Vanshika DhawanPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
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We all dream about success but most of us would have noticed that some people succeed in their plan and some not but have any of us ever wondered what makes the successful person different from the other people.

Let us discuss.

People who succeed are mentally prepared for failure. They know they can fail but most importantly they know they will accept every hardship that will come in their way. They will accept the struggle, the fights against the world for their dream. They are not afraid to lose because they know they have nothing to lose except themselves but the others are not ready to accept the struggle, stones that will come into their way but they still want the life of their dreams without working towards them that is why they give up on their dreams.

Most people will also make an excuse that their parents/family/partner don't support them in their dream.

The reality is that no one will ever support you. Everyone wishes for security. No one tries to see life from your perspective and the irony is that no one can ever will because everyone has a different definition of success. For some it is money, for some it is a big bungalow, car, luxuries items etc but few have satisfaction and happiness as the definition of success and for some it's both. You need to paint for own reality.

At the end of the day, it's only you and no one else who can fight for yourself. Nobody in this big vast world will ever stand for you. But if there is something you want to get so badly then go and get. You have to become a go and getter type of a person or else somebody else would go and get in your place. Just do what you want to do, no permission needed. You are not meant to chase the approval of the society throughout your life. You will have to make a way for yourself to achieve that.

There is no one in this world to force you to do something until you want to be forced.

Struggles will definitely come but how you deal with them is in your hands. Some people give up due to those hardships or stones in their path and then regret later but some don't give up and they succeed in life.

Imagine yourself where you want to be after so much of pain, pressure but at the end they all are worth it.

You will meet many people in your life who will either motivate you or demotivate you, they will try hard to pull you down either because that they are afraid of what you become or they think that there is no scope of success in what you are doing but you don't let yourself believe in those gossips.

You believe in yourself, follow the soul it will never misguide you though people can. Everyone has an opinion and choices and you have yours too. In the course of your journey there will be thousands of arrows stabbed at your back.

Many people will give thousand of reasons why the work you are doing is wrong but you ask yourself out of doubt, am I wrong ? or am I wrong because I am doing what I want to do ? you, yourself will get to know the answers.

There will many people who will try to change your thinking, your choices and will surely try to mould you according to their choice but mind you, don't give the key of your life lock to anyone else. It belongs to you and only you.

Remember, what you want to do, just do it without telling anyone. Don't tell them your plan, show them the results then everyone will make peace with it and they will clap. You will notice their attitude will change drastically. Imagine telling them that you want to follow your passion and they will directly say there is no scope in that field, you are not going to succeed or they will tell you that only one two lucky one succeeds and you are not lucky as they concluded from your past but who knows what can happen in future. Future is dark. How knows what will happen in the next minute, someone can get a heart attack and die or someone can achieve the title of the billionaire, no one knows right? Listen to everyone but do what you think is right.

And imagine doing everything needed to climb your ladder of life secretly then telling everyone after succeeding, everyone will be happy seeing your success but no one is happy supporting you. This is a bitter truth of life. Only you can support yourself and you are enough. Before succeeding those people would have told everyone "Ohh, she is doing nothings......." but now they will tell everyone that she has made into something new and different.

But (may god curse there mindset) they will still tell their children anyone else following a similar path that there is no guarantee that you will also succeed because she/he did. This is going to go like this but it is on you how you consider it.

Nothing in this world guarantee's you anything, not even the next one second guarantee you that you will be alive so why to worry so much. What if you followed what people wanted you to do but still no succeed? but they gave the guarantee isn't that it is a safe path then what? You would most likely regret not following your dream for rest of your life but you lose when you decide to lose so it's better instead of regretting throughout your life, start where ever you are. You can start late but still succeed.

Just imagining wouldn't help but working for it will surely help. Universe always pays you for your hard work though you may not notice but t surely does. Even if you lost one time, don't lose hope, start over again.

If you think that all the doors in front of you are closed then you need to make your own door. Everyone is born with different talents. For example if you would have told Amancio Ortega(owner of zara) to become a doctor, he would have failed miserably and if you would have told N.R Narayana Murthy to become a chartered accountant then he would have failed miserably so everyone id born different and unique.

Smooth road takes you nowhere but hard and road not taken will surely lead you where you want to be.

If there is something you love to do so much then no one can take your love, passion for it away from you or no one can stop it, they can oppose it from their point of view but they can do nothing to take you away from it. You will eventually make a plan to fulfill it. You will develop an attitude of not giving up.

Dream big, start small.

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Vanshika Dhawan

Words directly from my heart.

Stories directly from my mind.

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