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Timely stop loss is the cure for life's healing

You need to learn to let go and learn to stop in time, this is the cure for your life.

By Gloria TurnerPublished about a year ago 3 min read
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Timely stop loss is the cure for life's healing
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The most radiant moment of a person is when all the stories are in his eyes, but his face stays calm and bland. Although experienced a lot of things, the heart is clear, a lot of things happened, also met a lot of people, but should be put down also put down. Keeping such a mind is the healthy and right mind that will heal your life.

01 You have to be kind to yourself

I heard this story: in a high-speed subway, crowded with people, a passenger's shoes one was squeezed off, and his wife bought him new leather shoes, he was very anxious, so he tried hard to peel away the crowd, ready to return to the platform to pick up their shoes, but at this time the doors of the subway have been closed, no matter how he tapped also to no avail, people around him felt sorry, but also advised him not to To take the risk, only to see that he did not hesitate to another pair of shoes also took off, directly thrown into the trash, people do not understand his approach, so he explained: "anyway, only one shoe left, I can not wear, why not all throwaway, and then buy a new pair!"

This passenger's mentality is really good, he knows that this matter is irreversible, insisting on wearing one shoe is just torture to himself, instead of that, he should give up earlier.

For some things they did not do well, efforts, are already very good, no need to dwell on; for once loved people, there is no way to be together, then should be put down. Empty the past, learn to put it down, do not have to entangle, do not have to entangle, this is just the right attitude towards life.

You have to let go of the past, not to let you completely isolated from the past, but from the heart to say goodbye to the past things or people in the past, and then empty love and hate, and no longer complain or miss something, there are only blessings and release. When our inner heart is full of sunshine, then we always shine and shine.

02 First pick it up, and then put it down completely.

There was a student who lived in jealousy every day because all his classmates were very good, he was jealous that someone was even better than him, and he felt that he shouldn't be jealous, which was a bad thing, tormenting himself for a long time, and the long term mental internal depletion made him unable to concentrate on his study, so the gap between him and his classmates became bigger and bigger, he realized that his current state was not right, so he approached his teacher He hoped he could get help. He bared his heart with his teacher, and to his surprise, his teacher listened, smiled, and said to him, "You should give yourself a round of applause, or sing a song to yourself, you should give your jealousy a send-off, it's a relief when you can face your shortcomings head-on, you can pick it up, and then you can let it go completely, and you'll soon be fine."

We often move our mouths to advise others to be kind and generous, to advise others to let go, but some things need to be experienced to understand that the premise of letting go is not to go to someone else's story, but to experience your own life.

When we are not dwelling on what is going on, then we have to put it down.

Some things have already happened, then we have to accept it, should not be something we get, then we also do not go to force and expect, so that our mind has been in a relaxed state so that we will be open to accepting everything, which is the best to put down.

Life is a very difficult exam, we always trap ourselves in the difficulties we set, but one day you will find that it is not a big deal except for life and death.

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Gloria Turner

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Like to travel, love life

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