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Thoughts should be said out loud

People are only closer to each other if they are in constant contact.

By Gloria TurnerPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Thoughts should be said out loud
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In this era of light-speed development, as time goes by, most people have a lot fewer friends, all because they haven't been in touch for a long time.

Some because they have moved, some because they have graduated, some because they are working, and some because they are very far away.

Of course, we will occasionally miss, but also because it has been too long without contact, and do not know how to speak about what they miss, but also may be afraid of a long time without contact, the sudden contact to disturb each other's lives.

But you should know that if you want to have a good relationship, you must contact more so that the feelings will be intimate and long-lasting.

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As we grow older, we are busy with school or busy with work, we are only interested in moving forward and getting a better life, but we ignore our parents behind us, who are slowly growing old in our busy lives.

The days we are away from home become longer, the frequency of contact becomes less, and sometimes we ignore our parents' concerns and miss them.

I think of something my friend said, once he went back to his mother's home, just in time to see her in the garden fiddling with flowers, so he wanted to play a prank on her, he sent a message to her asking what she was doing.

After that he saw a scene that made his eyes red, only to see his mother slowly straighten up, pick up the phone, a stroke slowly enter this text, and the sentence was sent for five minutes.

At that time he was very sad because he suddenly remembered what he had said to his mother before, let her call less, and send more texts.

We are all busy with our own lives, but at the same time, we also ignore a lot of things, ignoring the fact that our parents need our love and companionship.

So, if we can't be around our parents, then please give them more patience and love.

If you miss your parents, you should contact them more often and take the initiative to greet them. Words can convey the temperature of your thoughts and can also bring you closer to each other.

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I have seen such a sentence: "In the right two people, if not to maintain feelings, not often contact, always slowly distant, and then deep feelings, not to care, not to contact, always slow on the light, not often contact, slowly nothing to say."

A relationship, whether it is affection, love, or friendship, is often because of close contact and mutual attraction close, but also because always no contact and more and more distant.

The best way for a relationship is to hang on to each other, think about each other, and contact more.

Missed, take the initiative to contact, do not think so much, do not let each other wait, and do not let each other be suspicious, feelings are never in constant contact more profound.

Life is very short, while the feelings are still there, please contact the person you miss, while the love is still there, please cherish the people around you.

Whether it's family or friends, not when you need to find one, don't wait until after the loss to understand the importance of each other.

Remember, life is full of surprises, be sure to contact more often when you still have, and cherish every opportunity and time.

We can't keep the years, but we can cherish the present, miss it, to say it!

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Gloria Turner

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