My 50 things to achieve by my 50 th birthday .. From today June 9 2021 until July 19 2022....
in the space of 13 months...
I am a stay at home mum who has a few health issues and i like to try and make goals to work towards each year.
If i dont reach all of them i am not going to get upset about it because i dont want to stress about them , rather they give me something to look forward to and take my mind off my pain,and i want to be a role model to my 2 adult children that you should always have goals and do your best to achieve them.
My goals are as follows...
1/ Get into the healthy weight range for my height..
I have struggled all of my life with my weight going up and down..As a child and a teen i was always skinny. My relatives used to call me long and lanky, skinny and cranky.
But after high school i started putting on weight and when i met my husband at age 23, i weighed around 76kgs, then i went down to 62 in time for our wedding at age 27.
Two children, a few bouts of depression, and a lot of different medical conditions over the next 21 years ,saw my weight plummet to 57 when i had pancreatitis at age 38 , then go up to 94 at age 44 and now in june 2021 i weigh 86.
The healthy weight range for my height is 56-71 kgs. So if i can get into that range and stay there i will be happy..i just want to be healthy.
2/Everything in our house has a place..
For our home to be clean and inviting and to know where everything is.
3/ Help my son and daughter get their licences by continuing to teach them how to drive.
4/ learn a new skill.
use the internet to find and learn how to do something i havent done before.
5/Pay off an extra $1000 off our mortgage...
i have already done this in 2020 through to 2021 and i want to do it again in 2022..by doing the following:
-by rounding down to the nearest zero in our account..for example :-if there is 20.49 in my everyday account i put .49 onto our loan.
- do more surveys and put any money earnt into loan.
-any dividends i get from stocks i put some in savings and some on mortgage.
-any money earnt from vocal or other small projects i do.
6/ Have a garage clearout...
7/Get a new front door
Our current front door looks awful and is broken.
8/get a quote for a studio for the backyard..
:to do art and photography in.
9/ grow my nails and have a french manicure and pedicure done.
10/Go to church on christmas eve and read or listen to the entire bible.
I used to go to church with my grandmother when i was a kid and i have been wanting to know more about the bible and find more meaning in my life.
11/ Hang all pictures in our house
we have a few frames that still need to be put up that we have made or brought.
12/sell some stuff at market
things that i have made or no longer use from around the house.
13/ have 10 dinner parties at our home for family and friends.
This will depend on whether we are in lockdown or not!
14/ Have another hard rubbish collection done.
15/ grow some more vegies
16/ grow some more herbs
17/ grow some more fruit
18/ grow celery from cutting
19/ earn more than $100 from vocal
20/earn $100 or more from doing surveys.
21/ have a suprise party for my daughters 18th.
22/ have a party for my 50th
23/ save up for the awesome pressie for my hubbys 60th.
24/ suprise someone with something special.
25/make special pressie for my dads 75 th
26/ do a bob ross painting
27/ do a colored pencil piece
28/ earn more money from photography.
29/sort all sox in our house...no singles.
30/get into my dream outfit for my 50th.
31/ whiten teeth
32/have a facial
33/ suprise my husband with an awesome date.
34/ go camping with the family.
35/ get a hot stone massage done.
36/grow my hair and have it long by my 50th.
37/ fit into my dream outfit by my 50th.
38/ eyebrows...secret.
39/eyebrows, lip and chin wax
40/ no longer be like a hybernating bear and get rid of the leg hair and underarm hair!
41/ reach my savings goals for the year 2021 and half way through 2022.
42/ visit more family and friends.
43/the butlers pantry started
44/the bathroom finished
45/ the laundry painted.
46/go on a holiday to celebrate my 50th and my husbands 60th in the same year.
47/ work on my secret projects
48/go to a winery for a tasting
49/be a matron of honor and photographer at one of my besties wedding.
50/feel confident and sexy .
if you want to see how i did with these goals you can subscribe to me on vocal and i will do a follow up in july.
About the Creator
Donna Bolch
i am the very proud mother of two incredible humans,and the wife of a wonderful husband of more than 20 years,.
i suffer from fibromyalgia and functional neurological disorder.
I love photography, and reaching my goals.
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