How to Level Up Your Value

Value. It's more than the amount we give to currency but an important intrinsic measurement that we all have. It's the difference between these two statements.

"I am great!" vs. "I am great?

We are all so caught up with validation from outside sources, especially those of us that fall into the younger generation and have embraced social media and all the instant gratification that comes with it. Now, I don't say this to sound preachy or act like I am holier than thou, I would be the biggest hyprocite if I did. However, I am going to share with you, through my own personal experiences how I have been able to develop a healthy mindset about myself and increase my personal value.

First off, just remember that this takes time so patience is key.

Like with anything in life, it all starts with a shift in your mindset. You have to want it before the Universe is willing to give it to you. You can't operate at an elite level with a low-level mindset so once you are able to envision yourself at a higher position in life, then it's just a matter of taking steps to get there.

Once you have decided and are ready to take on the challenge of changing in order to level up, you have to make a plan. This includes having goals, both long-term and short-term along with actions you can take to reach them. This helps in many ways, first, once you have a vision for yourself you KNOW where you want to go. It also allows you to hold yourself accountable by creating milestones for yourself throughout your journey. Most importantly, it allows you to stayed focused and belive me, once you start hitting some goals, the motivation is unreal.

Okay, so you got your mind right and have goals and a plan. Honestly, that's the easy part, although it's essential butthe real work begins now. A lot of people stay in the same place in life and do the same things and a lot of that has to do both what you do and who you do it with. This is when things get hard...

If you're the type of person that watches Netflix and eats junk food all day then it's hard to develop yourself beyond that level as you're environment is not in alignment with that of a high value person. Now, don't get me wrong, there is always a time and place to chill out and relax but if it's your default that you do every day? You need to step it up. This also translates to the people you hang/talk to on a regular basis. If you're trying to become financially independent for example, but all your friends have money problems and constantly talk about "there is never any money, it's hard to get money, broke life forever bullshit," this isn't going to help you. They are no longer in tune with your now changed mindset. Either limit interactions with these friends or avoid them until you're strong enough to help them level up themselves.

Those first three steps are key. Now, it's just a matter of picking up new healthy habits that will help you towards your goals. Working harder on yourself than on toxic relationships. And being consistent with your progress even when times are tough and you feel like sliping back into your old ways out of comfort or fear of the unknown. The hardest part of this journey is starting it but like my mom says,

"Any habit can be formed, even as early as two weeks of doing it constantly, your body and mind start to adapt it to and it becomes a part of you."

The best part about the pursuit of increasing your value is the confidence you gain back in yourself. There is no better feeling than waking up, looking in the mirror and thinking

"Damn, I'm making shit happy and it feels SO good."

Once you start hitting off some goals, you feel good about yourself but the real blessings come by those that you will now attract into your life. Your old friend that's doing big things and forgot about you is now checking your LinkedIn profile? Cool. That gorgeous girl/guy that used to curve you back in the day is now looking at your Instagram stories? Cool. Your parents are more proud of you and you're having deeper and more meaningful conversations? Cool. These are the feelings and moments that are priceless.

I speak on this from experience and I promise you that once you develop that mindset, set goals, review your associations, pick up great habits, stay consistent and BELIEVE in yourself?

"I'll see you at the top."

Stay blessed.