How To Get Back To Your Authentic Self As An Adult

What is the true reality?

This means that you honor and respect a person, whether you agree with him or not, share his views or not, whether you like their lifestyle or not.

With all this, you respect their contribution to the development of mankind on planet Earth, whatever it may be.

The true reality is the true reality for all. It is not one individual reality for a particular individual person. This is when there is no lie, everything secret is revealed and becomes clear, subtexts go away.

Everything that was turned upside down becomes what it should be. This is a space where only truth exists, but this is the truth common to all.

It’s not about individuals. Until all people go through this process, we will not be 100% altogether. This is the case when even one lagging behind will be expected.

What is personality structure?

The structure of personality is what shapes us, what we consider ourselves to be, fixed labels.

Someone considers himself a worker of light, someone — an artist, someone — a saver of the planet.

There is a fixed idea, a fixed concept of you in your mind, and you are trying to fit into that box.

At the same time, you have your own understanding of what it means to be, for example, a lightworker, while other people will have their own understanding, which will not always coincide with yours.

Or maybe you want to be good. You have your own picture, and your loved ones have their own, acquaintances, colleagues have a third. How can you match all this?

Now it’s all starting to open up so we can get back to the concept of “I Am”. Something that does not have a touch of various fixed ideas, roles, opinions.

What is the real me?

Every person in every action is a part of the whole. And he himself is perfect and perfect until he starts to say otherwise. This topic will be developed in the near future.

Now all our changes and transformations are very personal. We individually work through, release emotions, heal old traumas, cut off from ourselves the false, illusory, other people’s voices, other people’s programs.

Now we are shaking off all this superficial husk in order to return to ourselves to what we not only are, were, or could become, without all this superficiality but to return to our authentic, adult version of ourselves.

We are born, and the spirit is strong in us, the manifestation of the soul, but so far there is no personal experience. And now our task is to return to the real me in the adult version of ourselves.

To better understand what real self means, Jason Estis suggests that you imagine that you lived through the past that you had, but were not traumatized. All your knowledge, all your experience, all that you have gone through, has remained the same, and trauma has not occurred.

You reacted to this as an adult spiritual person: wisely, not turning on, not getting this test. This is the real self that is now being peeled off and that we are becoming.

How to get back to the real me.

What if, waking up every morning, not pulling out of lockers and closets what you were yesterday and all the experiences that you had, but start today from scratch?

What do you want to be today? What are you like today, without old traumas, without old experiences, without everything that happened yesterday?

Here, you wake up and make a decision: “Today I want to be playful” or “Today I want to be a little sad.” Try to play with it, get high from it.

If there are those among you who cling strongly to their identity, remove everything with which and with whom you associate yourself. As A. Palienko says, you are just a man or a woman.

This attitude — from scratch every day — is the key to this year’s performance.

Let go of everything you identify with. Not only good but how many impurities we associate with ourselves: guilt, all the fears that we carry with us in our beloved cat and open every time and look at with pleasure.

Imagine it doesn’t exist. And then you have a powerful tool of creation, or rather, you switch to the phase of creation, creation.

“You are more than any limitation you think you are” (Jason Estis).

The sooner you accept this — without proof, as an axiom — the sooner you will enter another true reality.

Build relationships from scratch.

Just like with yourself, you build relationships with loved ones.

Instead of making some kind of diagnosis for your husband, start with a clean slate.

“I accept my husband for who he is, I respect his choices.”

Instead of reacting to the behavior of loved ones, you wake up, see your husband, children and rebuild your relationship with them, from scratch. The way you want to see them.

You stop pulling up on everything you thought about yourself and what you thought they were. The sooner each of us does this, the sooner we will enter into this true reality.

You may encounter inner demons. For example, the more you consider yourself spiritually enlightened, the stronger the backlash and disappointment will be. You will be shown the opposite so that you discard and let go of everything superfluous. The more idols you have erected on a pedestal, the more disappointment you will have in these people.

Your task is to learn how to create yourself first based on your current worldview, without looking back at what happened yesterday.

You are now creating yourself, and now you are creating your relationships in the family, your interaction with the world. Agree, it’s enough to see around what does not suit us. So you take and create.

You do not free yourself from the burden of the past, but create everything from scratch, as if nothing happened yesterday.

Go to the work you create today. How many claims, emotions, resentments have you put into it? You will let this sprout wither, shed its leaves, and trample it, or you will accept and follow what you have chosen now.

You keep building, you keep creating. It is not necessary to do this only in the morning, do it, create at any time of the day.

And a mantra that will help in this: “I accept myself for who I am. I accept people for who they are. I accept the world as it is in order to contribute to it.”

Say this phrase when discontent begins to grow inside.