As long as the road is right, don't be afraid of the long road.

There is no underappreciation, there is only opportunity.

Those who complain about underappreciated talent are always behind others!

It is a pity that many of us have gradually lost our combat effectiveness after many setbacks, blows and failures. Passion is dead, dreams are dead, and all that is left are dim eyes and sad sighs, and they begin to feel helpless, helpless, and powerless. To hide the shame and unease of failure, they try to find all kinds of excuses for themselves: why; this society is so unfair; I don't have a diploma; I'm not pretty; I don't care; I hate bragging; I Too kind, I hate intrigues; if you give me a chance, I will also make a fortune; contentment is always happy; "It is true to be calm and calm"... The result is: they are still poor, still underappreciated!

"Underlying talent" is the greatest comfort people give to losers, and it is also the biggest deception, and it is one of the most successful traps that people should avoid. Those who "underappreciate their talents" are always complaining, complaining that the society does not provide them with a corresponding stage and give them the opportunity to display their talents. In my opinion, "underappreciating talent" is the biggest trap of success in life. Opportunity has always favored the prepared mind. A person who desires to succeed should actively seek opportunities and create opportunities, rather than waiting for opportunities. For the so-called "underappreciated", I would like to say: the world does not exist because of you, nor will it exist for you, unless you are regarded as "savior" or "savior" or something.

Therefore, those who claim to be "underappreciated" are, without exception, losers. "Underlying talent" is the greatest comfort people give to losers, and it is also the biggest deception, and it is one of the most successful traps that people should avoid.

The great playwright Shakespeare once said, "You are unique." This is the highest compliment of individuality.

The process of human growth is a process of gradually knowing oneself and determining oneself. Everyone has their own specific personality, but not everyone recognizes this, or even if they do, they may not immediately be able to determine which one is right for them. Because life is also a process of self-creation to some extent. In the process of self-creation, people gradually reveal their individuality, shape individuality and form individuality. So, forming and maintaining your own personality is not an easy process. For example, when we were growing up, almost everyone went through a period of imitation, especially those who worked in art. Imitation is a God-given nature and one of our abilities.

Imitation is possible, even necessary, at the beginning of life and practice. Because imitation is also a process that we must go through to know ourselves. However, imitation can only be a means, not an end. God shaped the world with diversity. Creation made you to be your true self. Any similarity will make one of them lose its meaning of existence, so you can imitate others, but never let yourself be someone else. You are who you are, and you must find your own uniqueness, build yourself, form and maintain your own personality.

So, how to form and maintain your own personality and create your own personality charm?

First, we must actively shape ourselves. Life is not like vegetation, it is a natural process. Human beings are dynamic, and life is a process of creation in a sense, that is, a process of self-creation. So, you have to take a positive attitude, take positive action, and shape yourself the way you want to be, so that you can be the kind of person you want to be.

Second, accept your true self. This acceptance includes all defects, mistakes, shortcomings, faults, and our strengths and strengths, to be self-acceptable. Of course, you must understand that your weaknesses and flaws belong to you, but they do not equal yourself. Having shortcomings and knowing our own shortcomings will make our efforts to correct them more targeted and our efforts to improve ourselves more meaningful.

Third, take off the mask. This question is easier said than done. In real life, we are always in conflict between expressing ourselves and protecting ourselves. On the one hand, the desire to be respected requires us to express ourselves; on the other hand, the need to protect our privacy and maintain our own safety prevents us from truly expressing ourselves. To solve this problem, it is necessary not only to have a large social and cultural environment that is suitable for it, but also to need individual efforts to prove and maintain oneself with success.