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Around the age of two - the rebellious stage of the baby

Around the age of two is a child's first rebellious period, and we have a word for it in English -- Terrible? Two, in Chinese, is the terrible Two.

Whether feeding, dressing or washing and brushing teeth, the children are crying and howling, a little dissatisfied with things, rolling. Almost all mothers can feel this annoyance when their children are two or three years old.

Xiao Xiang has recently experienced that it is more difficult to take care of her daughter as she grows up:

Every day to go out, to the supermarket, all kinds of toys want to buy, do not buy her to cry in public, completely listen to the mother to her explanation. And very naughty, love to make fun of people, eat is, make themselves all over the body is, also can't criticize, a criticism began to cry big make......

In short, this stage of the child, the word "no", roll around, be rude, say all kinds of don't every day, and have a inexplicable sense of rules and stubborn.

Teacher Tunan once said: 2-5 years old is the foundation of parent-child relationship between parents and children. At this time, parents should learn to read the child's behavior, understand and trust him, so that the child will like and trust you!

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Around the age of seven -- the rebellious stage of childhood

When the child is 6 years old, it begins to usher in a period of rapid development of independence consciousness. They leave the kindergarten and start the primary school life. The new environment and new learning content make the child feel that he has grown up.

The most important thing is that the center of his world is no longer Mom and Dad, but himself.

Specific performance for naysayers, talk back, and self-esteem is very strong, a lot of things want to be their own temper, disorderly, procrastinating, impulsive, playing mobile phone, possessive.

For example, at this time, children will play more important than learning, go home every day, finish homework, the center all in play, especially on weekends. Many parents see their children so crazy after playing, naturally is to see in the eyes, anxious in the heart, gas in the lungs.

Because many parents are very reluctant to see their children's learning plans and goals for the children to play with.

So parents will stop their children from playing, or they will keep them at home to do their homework, or they won't be allowed to play outside, or they won't be allowed to watch TV, or use the computer, etc.

As a result, when children feel that they have no freedom, under the strict supervision of their parents, they have to stay at home reluctantly, without freedom and liveliness as an attraction and motivation of learning, it is just a formality.

So you can see a lot of children playing while doing their homework, and this is not to mention that there are often mistakes in the homework, the handwriting will be very sloppy, eraser marks make the homework always look sloppy.

At this stage, the source of rebellion is dissatisfaction with the rules set by parents.

Figure south teacher shows that children aged between 6 and 11 years rebellious period, parents must develop the child's four core quality, this time, parents learn how to make friends with children, how to reasonably and children in the rules is very even, especially at this stage, parents should cultivate children's self-confidence, gratitude, let the children have a sense of responsibility at the same time, have a sense of security? .

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After the age of 12 -- rebellious youth

If the three rebellious period, must rank a name, then the adolescent rebellion, is undoubtedly the most headache for parents.

More than once, I've seen parents leave comments complaining about how difficult their children are at this time.

"The child can not withstand criticism, say a few words on night home, very impatient with parents!"

"Now that my daughter is six years old, her personality has completely changed. She is not the good girl she used to be."

"Several times the child made me angry, scold him, slap him, later regret how to do?"

More serious there are some weariness, addicted to the Internet, puppy love, more drinking and smoking, is completely a problem youth.

It can be said that teenagers are the most rebellious, leaving parents confused and helpless.

Children of this age, physical and psychological have produced great changes, are easily influenced by the environment, more yearning for independence and freedom.

Tunan pointed out that it is very important to maintain continuous communication with children at this stage, and parents must clearly understand the psychological and physical characteristics of children during adolescence and cope with them rationally. And learn more about The Times and accept new things to break the "generation gap". To be a guide for children, to help children learn to plan learning, to lay the foundation for a better future.

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