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Small three upper customary means, the original match a demolition a quasi!

From your description, I heard your husband say that the mistress helped him a lot in his career. It can be seen here that this woman is always there for the man when he needs her. It can be said that the mistress is the role of the interpreter, constantly let the man love dearly, and grateful to each other.

By testPublished 5 months ago 7 min read
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When some men are looking for a mistress, they can say anything in the mistress's bed, but after getting out of bed, he still dare not disclose the existence of the mistress, and the person he trusts most in the bottom of his heart is still the original match!

Unfortunately, a lot of original do not understand this truth, even if occupied a lot of advantages, but finally let small three upper, why is this?

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90% of cheating happens in the office,

The office has become the place of choice for extramarital affairs.

Colleagues spend the longest time together, 8 hours a day, sometimes more than overtime, plus two people have a common topic of communication, it becomes easy to cheat.

Xiaoya found that her husband often held his mobile phone to chat with wechat recently. Sometimes he was still holding his mobile phone and smiling at midnight. She walked over curiously to see what he was doing, and her husband immediately turned off the screen cautiously and said it was very late.

A woman's sixth sense is particularly strong, late at night, she picked up her husband's mobile phone, secretly grabbed her husband's finger, opened the mobile phone. But the suspicious information has been deleted, so you can't see anything. She tossed and turned, not believing her man would cheat, but her gut kept telling her there was something wrong with him.

But suffering from no evidence, slowly she will not struggle with this matter. Until a day of heavy rain, she thought her husband should not take an umbrella, to the husband company building down to wait for him, who knows, that man and woman, together holding an umbrella, two people talking and laughing, looking very close.

When she ran to her husband, he awkwardly told her that she was a colleague from the department, and she happened to have an umbrella, so we left together.

Intuition TELLS XIAOYA THIS IS NOT A SIMPLE COLLEAGUE, SHE HAS NEVER SEEN HER HUSBAND SO GENTLE TO others, UNDER XIAOya's query, the husband explains: "She is just my colleague, TWO people are in charge of the same project, she helped me a lot of busy, we should thank her."

Hear THE HUSBAND SAY SO, SMALL ELEGANT DID NOT THINK MUCH, BUT WHO KNOWS, AFTER A FEW DAYS, THIS WOMAN LOOKS FOR HER ACTIVELY ACTUALLY.

We have been together for more than two years, and he needs me. We hit it off instantly, both in career and in love. Your husband loves me.

Xiaoya silly, she did not think of, 2 years, this man is carrying her off the rails for 2 years, and she did not detect the slightest, still believe him all the time.

Small ELEGANT IMMEDIATELY TOWARD SMALL THREE SAY: "WANT MY DIVORCE, YOU DREAM, MY HUSBAND NEVER MENTIONED YOU WITH ME THIS PERSON, VISIBLE YOU ARE IN HIS HEART FUNDAMENTALLY NOT ZHA GROUND, OTHERWISE WHY SHOULD LET YOU BE SEEN NOT TO LIGHT."

Xiaoya angrily ran back, and the husband quarreled greatly, the husband said to give him time, he will break with small three, BUT XIAOya no longer believe this man.

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Small ELEGANT found ME, ask ME, after discovering derailment, SMALL 3 want to place, how should DO?

I asked her, if you think this kind of marriage is meaningless and want to divorce, then strive for the best divorce benefits for yourself.

If you want to save your marriage, then you need to calm down and figure out how to separate the mistress and bring the man back.

Xiaoya said divorce is impossible, she will never put their hard planted good melon to small three shade.

Well, since we decided not to get divorced, we must know our enemies and win every battle. Why do men cheat in the first place?

From your description, I heard your husband say that the mistress helped him a lot in his career. It can be seen here that this woman is always there for the man when he needs her. It can be said that the mistress is the role of the interpreter, constantly let the man love dearly, and grateful to each other.

Think again, why your husband never dare to admit to cheating, but the mistress exposed to you first?

It is clear that your husband does not want you to know, nor does he want any threat to the marriage. To be clear, he has no incentive to divorce.

When a man gets together with his mistress, he always talks about his original wife. For example, in order to cater to his mistress, he will say that he has no feelings with his original wife, and he is happier with his mistress.

This makes the mistress have "psychological expectations" : this man wants to marry me.

But wait and wait. After two years, your husband has never really made a move. She can't wait.

So she first shot, this is very scheming small three, directly looking for the original match reason is very simple and rough, is to intensify the original match and the contradiction of the man.

Her purpose is to let you go to make, make the chicken fly dog jump, it is best to let the family elders and children know, it is best to all know.

Because there are two possible outcomes:

1. A man thinks his wife is unreasonable and makes a big deal of things.

2. A man thinks his mistress is cheating on him and visits him without his permission.

Either way, the mistress got what she wanted.

When a man asks her why she did this, the mistress will say weakly:

"It's because I love you so much that I'm looking for a wife."

Then the pear with rain, wronged hiding in the arms of the man said:

"I WON'T GO TO LOOK FOR HER AGAIN NEXT TIME, MUCH INJUSTICE ALL DON'T GO, I DIDN'T THINK CAN MAKE SO, SORRY, FORGIVE ME OK?"

So, when the small three to find you, her purpose is to provoke you, intensify the contradiction between you, and then their own benefits, this time, you have to do is, keep calm, do not fall into this "emotional" trap.

This time to guard the family, the separation of small three, is the contest between the two women, who lose reason first, who lose first!

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When a man has an affair, it is not the mistress that needs to be solved, but the man. As long as the man is willing to go home, the mistress will naturally become the past tense.

What you need to think now is, first hold back the emotion, let the man have the desire to go home again, and let the man see your good again, this is the best way to separate the mistress.

Only the man is constantly close to you, he and small three relationship, natural self-destruct.

So how do you make a man want to go home again, and how do you make sure the relationship is stable?

Secondary attraction is the best way.

Someone once said, "Redemption is not a remedy, but a second attraction. Nagging and begging will only make you look like a subservient, passive recipient of the response; Secondary attraction helps you create opportunities, establishes the initiative, and puts you in charge."

A lot of people ask, can secondary attraction really be redeemed?

The answer is yes.

Saving the relationship is not only to save the lover, but also to save your ability to fall in love. Secondary attraction, not at the beginning of the first recovery, must first go through the four steps:

1. Identify the cause and move on:

Why did they leave? What the hell is wrong with your relationship? Is this your problem or his problem? Find the cause, find the way to break it.

2. Rational analysis and correct judgment:

Should this relationship be salvaged or not? Does she still love me? How likely is this relationship to be salvaged?

If there is no rational analysis, you do not know this relationship in the end there is no possibility of recovery. If the possibility is very big, but you missed, then the regret may be two people's life, if it is difficult to recover, you still go to tangle, finally hurt yourself.

3. Remodel charm and secondary attraction:

Find out what attracted them so you can use that charm to bring them back. Create your own charm, so that they will actively pay attention to you!

4. Keep warm for love, sweet upgrade:

A lot of cheating is often followed by the second and third time, not necessarily the other person is habitual cheating. In fact, more of the time, is the problem back to the past, or the emergence of new problems, marriage is the need for joint management, only perfect to avoid the hole after compound, to consolidate love marriage!

1. Case analysis +1265 online experience actual combat summary, systematic teaching, easy to understand, learning can be used.

2 let save not humble, do not bow, high emotional intelligence, high self-esteem to save each other.

3. Say to love, show to love, cleverly avoid the minefield to save, let the person you love fall in love with you again!

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