One of the biggest fatal points of marital crisis: having nothing to say

Do you know what caused the two of you to gradually stop talking and what caused your relationship to go cold?

It's communication!! !

It is often heard that some people complain that the lover after marriage has changed too much compared with that before marriage. Such changes occur only because the communication after marriage has become less and each other does not pay attention to the feelings of the other party, so they ignore the changes between them. It is only when arguments or problems arise that we realize how much the other person has changed.

I saw a short video called Strangers at the Table:

The clip shows the wife trying to communicate with her husband, but she seems to be talking to herself all the time, as the husband is either working on his computer with headphones on, or hangs up the phone hastily when the wife asks a concerned question.

There was no third party between them, no quarrel, and they lived a rich life, but they did not communicate like strangers.

Originally no words do not talk about the husband and wife, but in a long time of dull life to kill the passion and desire, into a pair of speechless strangers.

Come to think of it, this seems to be true of most marriages.

We are obviously husband and wife, but like strangers sharing a house, lack of the most basic communication.

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The worst part of marriage is silence

Her husband? I don't know what I did wrong. She's always dissatisfied. When I comfort her, she always thinks I am perfunctory. When I'm silent, she thinks I'm guilty. She and I are never on the same channel. I can't touch her. She can't reach me.

Wife: I don't know how on earth I'm going to speak. He doesn't seem to understand. When I was sad, he fanned the flames. When I scream, he just looks the other way

It's like the longer you're married, the less you talk. Why?

W: The more you talk, the more it gets noisy. So don't talk at all

M: It's wrong to say, and it's wrong not to say, so don't respond

Gradually, you will find that the quiet in the marriage is terrible, no interaction of the marriage is like a pool of "stagnant water", there is no vitality.

Long periods of silence, with nothing to say to each other, can be a terrible blow to a marriage.

If two people are in a state of silence without communication for a long time, the most direct result is that there will be resentment between each other.

Harmonious husband and wife life must be physiological and psychological double satisfaction, must be in the spirit of the appreciation of each other to go, otherwise, as time goes by, the distance between two people is more and more bigger, marriage is easy to be taken advantage of, the result is the feeling gradually far away.

The end result, then, may be "death".

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The vast majority of bad marriages, not because of infidelity, but because there is nothing to say.

Most couples have ears, but can't hear each other's demands; mouths, but can't say what the other wants to hear; eyes, but can't see each other's needs. Although there is a conjugal relationship, there is no love, although the body is together, but there is no bond.

How to let the dumb marriage, start warm flow?

Marriage have nothing to say, Rome was not built in a day, let the cold already a long time of husband and wife, began to speak, to open up is not an easy thing, a lot of friends hope to find a way to immediately solve the marriage dilemma now, but the truth is, you just learn a recruit, the other a coldly, and will take you back.

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